Is something wrong with me. I've been in a couple of bad relationships and now I feel that I never want to get

married or have kids. I don't even like to date anymore because after a few dates and the guy starts to like me and I'll start to like him as a friend and he tries to give me a hug or a kiss on the cheek I cringe and pull away. This has been happening with anyone I've dated recently. I don't think I'm a lesbian because I'm not attracted to women. I just can't let any man touch me not even for a hug without me feeling uncomfortable. I don't have the desire to get married and have kids anymore. I'm 23 years old. What is wrong with me?

Is something wrong with me. I've been in a couple of bad relationships and now I feel that I never want to get
Give yourself a break from dating for a while. And when you do go an a date, pay attention to your gut feelings...if there is something that doesn't feel right, don't go on another date with that person. Be patient, someone will come along that doesn't make you gag.
Reply:I totally understand what you are saying. I have that problem too. I could not hang on to the relationships i was in after i had a really bad relationship. I really hate that. Its like I always have a guard put up against everyone I get involved with. But time..and a really great guy, will make it better i guess...I hope...





Well good luck girl!
Reply:It would be good for you to find a good counselor and work on this issue. It sounds like you're carrying some scars from those bad relationships that need to be healed. you also can look at why you got into those bad relationships in the first place and what you can do differently next time.
Reply:just wait mister rigth will just come in a perfect time , and your still young go out and live your life to the fullest
Reply:You probably don't want to get hurt again. Give yourself time to get over it.
Reply:I know how you feel. I mean, I still want a family and everything one day, but I'm very far from wanting it to happen anytime soon. It scares me. I've been so frustrated with the whole dating/relationship scene lately. I start to like a guy and just when things seem like they could go somewhere, I pull away and lose all feeling completely. And to make matters worse I know so many people that are my age and already married, so it almost makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. I'm only 20. Email me if you ever want to talk. summerwhitney87@yahoo.com