Do you think that he is gay? For me? Any possibility? lol... :)?

This guy is very popular, very outgoing, buff, very popular with girls(can get anyone he wants), has a slight lisp.





But the way he acts... Some people have conversations about him like, "Do you think he's gay? I don't think he is...." His actions apparently make people question his straightness. So, let me 'splain it to you!! :P





I'm fairly good friends with him. If I don't invite him places, he seems to get mad. He is extremely touchy feely. Whenever he talks to me or about me, he'll touch me, not just on my arm, but on my chest, sometimes my leg. Sometimes he'll touch my leg or something then kinda do this shy laugh about it like he knows it looks gay. He'll grab my knees sometimes like outta nowhere. Or he'll grab my biceps and look me in the eyes and kinda just stop what he was saying for a second like he lost track, then he'll let go and go back to what he was doing looking kinda sidetracked.

Do you think that he is gay? For me? Any possibility? lol... :)?
He could be bisexual from what you tell me he is Bisexual you should get him alone and ask him about it ask him do he like you if so congratz. :) but i think he is bi hopefully he is
Reply:usually straight guys won't act like that on other guys, so I definetely think that he is flirting with you :p





Unless he is suspicious that you are gay and is just messing with you
Reply:I think he's probably bi. Flirt back if you like him and see where it goes.
Reply:sounds like he likes you to me. =]]








but you never know, so the best thing to do is just ask him =D





good luck
Reply:Wow... Lota of details in there.=D





I'd say he is bisexual and he has a thing for you.
Reply:umm for me he looks that he likes u.. , but he is afraid to like u, he don t want to be bi or gay,he didn't Admit that he is gay or bi,and he like his friend , but he is probably bi, cuz he looks at other girls , and try to flirt with them, and to u..,yea he likes u !
Reply:I really think he has a got a big thing for you just by the way he is acting and doing stuff. Kind of from my point of you, he is like using his girlfriend as a cover-up since like you said "Doesn't like her very much" something like that?? lol and yeah. He is like giving you way many hints to say something like I like you or something. If it was a joke then I said you would probably get a feeling that it will be a joke but when he like stars "subtle" he is just like admiring you. lol yeah. so then i guess my advice is just kind of flirt smallish..you get that...just like don't feel uncomfortable then he'll get that sign that you don't like him. BUT if you like him then just smile now and then but not TOOOO big. XD so just have fun that you got someone crushing on you BIG time. And if it's a joke then just like forget it. I'm not falling for it. But for me I would trust my gut and from the details you've given, he really likes you. So good luck!! (your lucky that u got someone crushing on you!!!)
Reply:He might be gay. You never know. But according to my hypothesis, he's bi, you're bi, I'm bi, and the nearest tapeworm is too.
Reply:Man if I was you I would look into this as much as possible. By looking at all the details *which were great by the way because everything was put out there so we didn't have to question anything* this guy has a thing for you, there's no doubt in my mind about it. If he only looked at you as a friend, there would be no subtle hints period. Everything would pretty much be straightforward, no hints or anything. If a guy grabbed me by the arm, and looked in my eyes and lost track of what he was saying, that's usually a really good sign, because your friends don't get lost in your eyes. Whenever you talk with him, and he looks you in the eyes, look back, and look into his eyes and try to put together what you see. You can see emotion in someone's eyes, like if they like you, or they secretly love you, it will be there, you just have to take the time to recognize what it all means. If I was you, I would try to hang out with him, alone, away from everyone. I would even go for a drive out of the town, somewhere that you hardly know anyone, so you guys can be alone and spend time with each other. Even if you have a favorite place to go, like a park or something, take him there. Spending time alone is one of the best ways to figure out if someone is into you, cuz you never know, maybe being away from everyone you know, is all he needs to tell you the truth.





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Well from everything I've read, he certainly seems to be bisexual. If he is it seems as if he doesn't quite know how to go about it; you could be his first male crush. So the little subtle things could be his way of seeing if you're interested in him or other guys period. If by chance he isn't attracted to guys then he probably just thinks your a really good friend and that's his way of showing affection and showing he cares.
Reply:OMG! everything u just said every detail describes my friend and I's relationship everything! i notice all the same little details, and my friend acts the same way and is just as popular. He also talks the same way about sex with girls.lol. so weird.





And like u I'm kinda wondering if I'm actually gay. It has got to be the age unless the person Ur talking about is actually me and I'm on here asking the same stuff about u. if u can even get that. that would be weird.
Reply:well, i sort of have the same problem...read my question and answers..%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... thats my question...and im just planning a party and inviting my guy and spin the bottle and then im gonna try to land on him and then take him to the closet....so...u should try that especially like playing spin the bottle coz if you can get him alone in the LOCKED closet than....im sure something will happen....=D good luck. =P