Help I really like a married man and I want to know whether he likes me back?

Ok so theres this older guy who lives around the corner from me, he comes into where i work and vice versa (he owns a car shop). I really like this guy beyond belief, but before i go into this i'd like to point out he's married with three kids (all nearly grown up). I just one day thought he was kinda cute and it sort of went from there.


At first i didn't think he would have any interest in me apart from giving me discount at his shop, then i don't really know he just sort of started to touch me. (not in any sexual way lol) First it was tracing a hand down my back, then just small touches on the arm or guiding me about. Then when i was in his shop he pushed past me and sort of rubbed up against me. Then randomly he started to stroke my hand when he was in my shop.


After a while i sort of forgot about him then he came back into my life.


What really started me wondering was after the time he came into the shop and was talking to me and he stopped and said-


"What's the matter with your'e face?" I put my hand to my face and he said "no", and stroked the side of my face moving my hair away.


After that he didn't come near me for a while (the perfect gentleman) it was recently something really strange happened.


I went to his store to buy an aeriel for my mums car, and we were chatting and stuff and the phone rang. It was his wife (he was actually quite rude to her on the phone but i don't know if he was just being stupid) the other guy who works for him had gone outside. My guy put the phone down on his wife and came around the counter i was just stood there and that is when he seriously did something odd.


He slapped my **** (really hard lol!) Then he was tapping my arms and laughing, I just told him to behave himself lol. He came into my work later that day and was stroking my hand whilst i was serving him and staring at me even though he was being spoken to by my colleague.


Other than that he just chats to me and stares into my windows when he drives past (i live on a main road), but now (three weeks or so after slapping me) he's just acting normal again apart from me seeing him in the supermarket last saturday and chatting for a bit and making me pick him a new house phone lol!





So i ask all you great people what do you think?


What does it all mean?


Is he interested or just messing about I really don't know what to do!

Help I really like a married man and I want to know whether he likes me back?
Get over it. he is MARRIED. A lot men would gratefully have someone on the side (if not you, then someone else, believe me you aren't special in this scumbag's eyes), but that doesn't mean that you would be any less of a whore.





He won't love you, he won't leave his wife, and you are setting yourself up for a heartbreak. Find someone single, please.
Reply:hes married!! move on find someone single





and the way hes touching you is just pervy old man to me
Reply:He married a woman he loved. Had 3 children and everything was lovey dovey. Suddenly he's slamming the phone down on the woman that cooks cleans and raises his children. Yes he sure is a nice man. Yes he fancies you, for now......but if you give in, how will he treat you?? Remember, he'll be cheating on his wife.. That could have been you in his home... how would you feel. He's showing you how unloyal a husband he is. Open your eyes, turn your head the other way and walk lady, just keep walking away from him.
Reply:he is testing you to see if your interested you know he's married touching you and you do not say anything the moral of the story is he is coming on big style use your head give him a no no
Reply:I think that what you enjoy is being able to steal his attention from his wife, where it should be. You sound very young, or at least inexperienced. You're better off with a single guy who would not do this touchy moves right at your place of work, or at his shop! This is very bad taste, forget him.
Reply:My first husband went behind my back while we were married and i,m telling you do not go there you have no idea what it feels like and i hope you never do. this man is an utter bas***d. I bet he was once even nice to his wife and stoked her hand as well. keep away from him and if he does it again say that you will tell his wife what he has been up to. Even if you did go with him and he leaves his wife for you could you then trust him not to do the same with someone else. At the end of the day its your choice but don,t say that we did not warn you!!!
Reply:ok for one what does it matter if he likes you hes MARRIED also he sounds like a right pr*ck hes nasty to his wife and then flirts with you, he slaps you how rude, personnal space, hes doing it because you give him the attention he wants ignore and he'll soon go away
Reply:Who gives a monkeys if he likes you or not...he's married.. dont go there.. would you like the thought of your husband slapping another girl or touching her adoringly.. No


People like you make me sick to the stomach!
Reply:Its really hard when you're enfatuated with someone to listen to reason, but the truth is, as everyone has said-he'll shag you and thats all you will be- a shag. sorry. He's not going to wisk you away on a white horse, or car, as it may be, as much a you might imagine it.


Be careful with those fantasies-dont let them elbow their way into reality
Reply:if he is married ur rlationship is basicly wrong.u as a woman can seduce him to leave even his wife.remmember this is imoral.all the men like to flirt with other gils,even if they r married.


keep the distance and just be neithbors.
Reply:isnt he married? i stopped reading after that-leave him alone
Reply:If he is married and has three kids that are almost grown up he will be in a very dangerous stage in his life. This is called mid life crisis and happens to men when they get to middle age. He is probably looking at you as a sex object that he thinks he need to get to feel young again.


Do not get involved with him, he will not leave his wife and kids. You are worth more than being a bit on the side.


Try to find a man who does not come with some much baggage and will treat you with respect and not as an object.
Reply:Ask his wife she'll give you the low-down.
Reply:OK, Here's what I see........


You have picked up on the obvious, he's interested.


The question to ask is what is the motivation?


Sounds to me that his married life is in turmoil or at least could use some help. Could you get involved with a married man that is betraying his betrothed - would you want to take the risk that some day he'll do it to you?


I'm guessing that he just needs the slightest nudge to go over the edge. If you intend to pursue this then send him a very clear picture. Start with innuendos of needing someone to do something with and if he doesn't catch on then step it up to asking him outright to help around your house or accompany you to some event or for an evening out.


Now my opinion, wanted or not, I have been married twice and been cheated on twice. I have no respect for you (just thinking about it) and even less for the likes him.


Be patient, find someone worthy of you, and remember..... It's wanting what you have not having what you want.


God Bless.
Reply:you know the rule dont take what another person owns
Reply:He's married. Back Off! No good will come of it.
Reply:FOLLOW UR HEART. SOME PEOPLE ONLY DISCOVER TRUE LOVE AFTER THEY ARE MARRIED.
Reply:you should leave him alone and find someone who isn't already taken...
Reply:think of his wife
Reply:hes married 3 kids, that should tell you to stay away. sounds like he is a flirt to me.


go find someone single its a lot less hassle trust me

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