Can someone who "loves" you act like this?

In a long term relationship (year and a half) full of very expensive gifts and laughter, but also many fights, my boyfriend has stopped touching me. Not even just sexually but won't spoon with me or even hold my hand. It all just stopped very suddenly and he told me it's because he was "too tired". I sat in his bed and cried so hard just for him to reach for me and he said he couldn't believe how ridiculous I was being and yelled at me and walked away leaving me naked and crying in his bed to go downstairs with his family. I begged hin to close the door and he just stormed away, ignoring me and kicked me out and left me at my friend's house. Told me never to make a scene in front of his family and be an emabrassment ever again. (This was very private.) Does it expend more energy to yell at and fight with someone, or to just touch their hand? Am I wrong to attempt to end this? I'm sick and tired of my hurt feelings being labelled as "ridiculous" and being met with anger instead of love.

Can someone who "loves" you act like this?
You should never consider leaving this precious man. The poor thing works very hard that is why he can't hold your hand and it is so unfair of you to expect him to make love to you, no wonder he yells at you and ridicules your tears. His family comes before you and you need to accept this. He is only trying to get you use to the wonderful life he has in store for you. Fight for that man and be careful a doberman doesn't take your place. WAKE UP!!!!!
Reply:Gifts of guilt sweety hes cheating!!!!!
Reply:When I read the part... ""I sat in his bed and cried so hard just for him to reach for me and he said he couldn't believe how ridiculous I was being and yelled at me and walked away leaving me naked and crying in his bed to go downstairs with his family. I begged hin to close the door and he just stormed away, ignoring me and kicked me out and left me at my friend's house."" ...me mouth dropped open so far that i had to cover it with my hand. There is no reason on God beautiful green earth that you should let this man walk on you this way. I want to cry for you just bcuz I know how it feels to be pushed away and cheated on. And seems to me hunny, by the way he's acting, that he already has another girl. Please don't torture yourself like this. There are PLENTY of other BETTER, BIGGER fish in the sea. I hope everything works out for you.


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Reply:sounds like its over to me..........the love is gone, time to move on, and a little part of me tells me thats what he wants.....for YOU do break up with him, he's giving you all the reasons to . Perhaps there is another girl waiting, and he doesnt want to be the baddy for ditching you, so he is trying to make you be the one to call it quits. Have a bit of respect for yourself. dont beg.......let it go, move on.
Reply:you don't deseve to be treated like this, you are in the relationship just as much as he is. you both have to give as much as you can into this relationship. just the fact that he doesn't want to touch you means, you are putting so much effort where he isn't at all. i say you should leave him. and if he loves you he will come back asking for ways to fix it. just remember if he doesn't actually come back, then he isn't worth your time and there are plenty of other GREAT men out there who will fall inlove with your inner and outter beauty.

Crooked Teeth