Im 16 and have known this girl for around a year and a half now. Before we knew each other, we hated each other. We slowly got closer and closer and she is now a big part of my life. We talk to each other a lot in lessons, text each other often, chat on MSN, she calls me sugar, cute and sexy sometimes, she likes to touch me. Not in that way :P (I wish :) ), like she will run her finger down my back to get my attention, always says goobye with many xxxx's and is just generally very kind to me. I walk back with her sometimes and we chat a lot, we have so much in common.
I admit that i like her, i have probably liked her for around 2 months now but am not sure if its best to leave it at friends or date. Im not th most confident of guys when it comes to asking a girl out and don't know if she even likes me or not. I have tried to the message acorss that i like her, like one time she said that she wasn't good looking. I replied, 'what your really pretty'. Her best mate also realised that
GIRLS (and guys i guess) PLEASE HELP ME! LOOK INSIDE!?
i reckon she really likes you!!
:D
she just wants to know you feel the same probably
if you cant say it to her face
maybe say it on msn, or in a text
like
what do you think of me?
or
do you think anything will ever happen
or
your so cool, really like you
or something :D
good luck
Reply:Ask her out on a date, see how things go.
Sounds like she likes you =)
Reply:Honestly, you have to be the one that decides whether its worth risking your friendship over. The one thing you have to realize is that once you cross sometimes you can't go back.
I was in a situation where I could have dated this girl but I pulled back because I realized that she was much better being a friend (even though I liked her in that way). But I didn't make a move on her and we are good friends today and I have a gf that I really care about.
Reply:Ok, based on how you described her and her actions toward you...she either 1) really does like you or 2) is just a tease that like having boys like her. Only you can know if she's they type that is #2.
Based on your age i'd say she prob genuinely likes you. if your too scared to tell her how you feel. don't. just show her. surprise her and lay a kiss on her :P (no tounge though,lol)
Girls like being caught off guard like that. if she kisses back, you'll know!
Reply:try and make up a conversation then ask her if shes single or not ( just to be safe and not get total rejection )
then ask her if she likes you
but go with it
if u dont it all gets screwed up
then if she says yes
say how much do u like me
then say do u like me enough to be my girl?
SNAP THE TRAP!
lol
best of luck!
-asia
Reply:you don't want anybody telling you to just tell her so...don't tell her how you feel, just ask her out on a date and just surprise kiss her on the date, it will probably work for you because my boyfriend did it to me and I thought WOW! this guy really wants me and we've been dating for 3 months so...Good Luck!!!
Reply:ask her out!!!!!!!!!! :)
Reply:It's been my experience son (over 35 yrs of relationship exp) that if a female puts her hands on you in the way you describe , She either likes you or thinks you're gay (I don't mean that as a joke). So, if you're not gay...try this. When you're alone with her and you're sitting or standing close. Look her straight in the eyes and with out smiling, ask her..."May I kiss you?" That will tell you want you want to know without question. If she uses the moment as a joke then she's not the kind of girl you want to be with anyway. So, get your nerve up...and go for it.
Life's too, too, short. Good luck bud.
P.S. If she says yes, give her the softest, sweetest, slowest, kiss you can muster up. If she likes you. She'll melt into your arms. :)
Reply:dude just tell her you like her and would like to go on a date with her but would like to stay friends if she says no.
Reply:Well you already know the answer to this question but lets see if I can come up with anything else.
Besides the obvious, (asking her out) you probably need to flatter her a bit more.
You kind of threw her under the bus when another girl was around (that didn't work out) and now she could even have hurt feelings.
And YES I do believe that she likes you like a BF and you sound like you two hit it off pretty good.
Think of something fun to do on the weekend and then invite her to go along.
After you have this fun day, talking will be easier and maybe then you can tell her how pretty she is, etc and get around to asking her to be your GF.
Good luck
Reply:she likes you! come on! shes is basically throwing herself at you and the least you could do is to ask her out or at least tell her how you feel online. although im not shy, i have a hard time telling people who i like how i feel, and i think the best way is online because you can just get it all out. also, do it before a weekend so like in case it doesnt go how you want, you have a weekend to recover lol.
basically.. GO FOR IT!
Reply:say "friends" one more time and you will see what will happen! And I was such a crazy idiot, jumping out of my bed, disturbing poor kids here in their computer games, acting so inappropriate for my age and everything, coming here because I was afraid you are lonely or sad or something, the taste of your question about your mother still in my mouth and the insecurity if I wrote the right thing, was I insensitive and too scared not to say something wrong and sound wrong and....whatever....worried about you and wondering why have you been so quiet all day... stupid fool....you are just playing, as usual....sure...when you have a crazy fool to jump to every word you say or not say...I am pathetic....
Reply:being shy isn't a bad thing! It probably makes you cautious so that you are less likely to make rash decisions. Sorry thing didn't go well with the other girl, hope you aren't too sad about that. You are right to think carefully about the friendship v gf thing because it sound as if you a good connection and if you decide to see her as gf material you do run the risk of loosing her as a good friend.
I would say that you can test the water like you have been doing for a bit longer so that you can think about what would be Best for you in the long run.
It does sound like she likes you more then just a friend, what you say does sound like flirting so if you feel brave enough perhaps you could give her a small nudge, by paying her more compliments and this may encourage her to show you if she feels the same way about you.
Its so difficult when your shy to communicate and take risks, you are doing ok so far so keep doing more of the same and if and when you get a strong enough signal I would take the plunge and its not that unusual for friend to become then just Friend.
Good luck and take care tread with caution x
Reply:I think she likes you she wouldn't rub your back or call you sexy if she didn't! Maybe thats her way of telling you she wants you to ask her out!
Reply:Y dont you tell her best her freind to tell her then see what she says to her best freind ... if your shy... or txt it her or something.
Sounds of it she probably likes you too but girls never ever tell you first ...belive me!
Reply:She likes you, but if you can't tell her then I don't know what to tell you. You need to try to break the ice about it sometime. Ask her if she likes anyone just to test the water and see what she says. She will probably ask you if you like anyone, too. Then you can tell her you do, and you can tell her all about some girl without telling her she's the girl you're talking about. If you throw in a couple of things about her when you're taking about the girl then she could guess it's her and she could go from there. If she guesses she's the girl you're talking about then she might give you a hint she's interested. If she doesn't seem interested, and she guesses she's the girl you were talking about, just say you were joking anyway and name some random girl. Good luck.
Reply:well i think i no wat u meen so u should tell her u have a question n shes obviously going to give you her attension and u should say do you want to go out with me and then just give her a second to respond, but do it alone and wen you guys just got done laughing about something
Reply:It is obvious that she lyks u. you should ask her out when you're texting.that way, you're not gonna be tha embarassed or shy to ask her that in person.that's how i got my boyfriend, and i was not that shy as i would have been if i asked in person.
Reply:To me should could be a really friendly person and care for you a lot as a friend but yeah she could like you too. It's hard to tell. I would have to know her myself to figure that out. I know you are shy but you will have to break it. If you want a chance with this girl and you are serious about it you have to take chances. Just ask her if she likes you or how she feels about you. There's nothing wrong with asking. She doesn't know the reason why you are asking..it could be because you are curious or because you "heard" she did or you can tell her the truth and say you like her if she asks you why you want to know...that's the best I can give you...besides... Valentines is coming up...you could ask her to be your valentine and go from there? Hope this helps! =]
Reply:she likes u if u can't say it text it
Reply:She's definitely acting like she likes you. Go for it, and see where it goes. If you don't you'll regret not doing it or wonder if it could have been.
Reply:I'm going to say something you are not going to want to hear... tell her... but as you are a shy guy i see how that will be difficult... from what you have stated it does seem that she likes you...i know few girls who will call a guy sexy if they don't like them... drop hints... not subtle ones like no you really are pretty be a little more direct if you cant come right out and say it
Reply:1. Talk to her about another girl you like, and see what her reaction is. If her reaction is hard to read, then...
2. Invite her out to do more "romantic" type things, such as go to the movies just the two of you, go ice skating, and see what her reaction is when you try to subtly hold her hand while ice skating - does she hang on or try to let go. At the movies does she grab your arm during the scary parts? Hm, but maybe your not good at 'reading' reactions...
3. Well, I don't really want to tell you to do this, but you are 16 and possibly have had a few drinks of alcohol by this age - grab a 6 pack of beer with her, go to a park or something, and after a couple drinks. tell her you like her. If it backfires and she doesn't like you back, then you can blame it on the alcohol and it will be as if it never happened.
Reply:I think that you should play it cool as much as possible but do things like leave a note in her locker and roses and stuff but dnt put a name then leave a note asking her no meet you in the libary or sumthin you might not take my advice but its kind words frm:
-Jazzy Fizzle
Reply:Haha, Well i think you should slowly start making hints like that, like ask her to go somewhere with you. I think shes very interested into you unless shes just leading you on. I think you should get the courage up and ask her to do something and eventually ask her out. You seem like a nice guy idk why she wouldn't like you. You have way too low of a confidence level for your type, i think you should be more confident. Good Luck.
Reply:she likes you, trust me, i know when i had my first crush, my girl did that to me too! i didn't know what was going on, and i also started to like some1 else too. then i found out she liked me so i asked her out. 90% chance she likes you
Reply:I think she likes you but dating your best friend doesn't always end in a good way. I went out with my best friend in the 8th grade and now we hate each other ( It doesn't always end that way but for me it did) but you will never know what could have happened if you don't try. So I say take the chance and ask her out if things don't go smoothly then just say you want to remain friends. Don't make it awkward after wards also.
Reply:ha! im in basically the same sitch. Im shy also. Sorry i cant really help you but im answering so i can check the question because i wanna see what people say..it might help me
good luck
Reply:My friend had the same problem. He's shy, and when the time was right, he asked her. I'd say when she's in a really really good mood, start slow, then keep going higher. But just be absolutely sure she feels the same way about you.
Reply:the only way to find out is to ask her
whats the worst that can happen???
it looks like she fancys you
does she grab your arm alot? if so then she does
Reply:Well maybe you should just move on- she probably thinks of you as a "guy friend". Maybe if you ask out another girl, she will realize that she lost her chance with you
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