Saturday, November 14, 2009

I need someone to be there for me but anyone I go to wants something from me?

So I feel lost. I just want to go to someone who is my friend. Not someone who wants something in return. Everyone I talk to seems to want something in return. I am not going to lie, I am a beautiful girl and I meet sweet guys but seriously can someone not want to be in love with me, not want to touch me, not want to kiss me, not want to make love, not want a penny in returns ...........





Then my parents want tons of things from me. They want me to move back to their town. I am but that is not the point.





What to do?

I need someone to be there for me but anyone I go to wants something from me?
I'm confused. Is this about looks or about friendship? I had to weed out several people based on superficial BS but I always knew who my friends were. Seems to me like you're complaining about being SO attractive that you can't make friends. Uhhh, NO.
Reply:I think you need a dose of reality why should someone do something for you for nothing? why should someone allow you to use them as a friend? and as a guy I say why should i be the one you use and some loser guy come alone and get the pleasure of kissing you and touching you and I get a ear full of the left over mess. sorry dear if you didn't think you were so pretty and beautiful maybe you would realize no one owes you anything not even friendship you have to earn it and earn it with something other then your looks.
Reply:Get involved. You can't have a friend, if you are not willing to BE a friend. Try giving of your time and tallants at a local hospital or school. It's not that people WANT from you, it's that you should be willing to give of your time and effort if you want them to be willing of their time and effort.





Try sticking to female relationship/ friendships. Males do indeed have a hard time being a friend; let alone with a woman. (most guys will screw just about anything...pretty or not...human or not!)
Reply:Where do you think you are? However, if you just need a friend, stay away from me, except for chatting. I like online chatting, but i never want to meet anyone, because it slows down, or totally screws uip th process of commuication. wanna chat? Ok ! Wanna become close in real life no way, Unless it is far away, and long distance, friends.
Reply:Hey sweetie, I know how you feel...most people these days are like that. You can email me sometime if you want friendly advice without any strings attached.
Reply:Let them know up front you just want a friend and that is all. try a counselor or just get some good girlfriends.


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