HELP!! i want out marriage how do i get out?

IVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 4YRS AND I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT IM NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM. I FEEL ALL ALONE. HE GONE EVERY OTHER WEEK FOR A WEEK AT A TIME DUE TO HIS JOB. LIVE IN A TOWN WHERE I HAVE NO FRIEND AND NO FAMILY. WHEN HE COMES HOME WE NEVER MAKE LOVE. WHEN WE DO IT LIKE WHAM BAM WE THROUGH. IM VERY ROMANTIC IN HEART. HE A TOUCH ME NOT. IVE TRIED VERY HARD TO SPICE IT UP AND WHEN I DO HE COMES IN. FIRST WORDS ARE WHAT IN THE CHECKING ACCOUNT. BOY THAT BREAKS MY MOOD RIGHT THEN. I GIVE UP. DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. THOUGHT ABOUT CHEATING BUT I KNOW THAT NOT GOING TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM. I WANT OUT BUT DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM. GOT SOME SUGGESTIONS WHAT TO DO

HELP!! i want out marriage how do i get out?
Just be honest with him and tell him. Maybe he isn't happy either. And cheating would only make it worse atleast you can say you want a divorce and not because of another man. Honesty is the best policy.
Reply:My 4th year anniversary comes up next month and we love and are in love with each other. We are not the perfect married couple - far from it but we work hard trying to make the relationship ...work.





I have found out that there is more to one way of solving problems. Have you ever given him an option like "Find a new job, or I am out of here." or "Wherever you go, I go." or "The next time you come home and don't get it on with me like you used to, you will not meet me at home." etc.





If you really think your marriage is not worth saving, a relationship that has lasted for four years then what is?





Pray.





Faith ~
Reply:get some counseling or try to start new creative ways to spice up your marriage
Reply:I think you have read my mind!! Your marriage sounds exactly like mine! I feel so alone!! Please, if you get the right answer, please let me know. Good luck to you, this is so painful, I know...
Reply:Well sounds like you need to have a serious heart to heart talk with him about how you feel. If things are still resolved then move on by getting a divorce. Taking the first step to get out of the marriage is probably the hardest thing (it was for me even though he was cheating). But if your not happy then do what is best for YOU.
Reply:First, maybe you should look for a job. You will make friends and it will totally change your outlook. Maybe you have changed because you are bored, and you are putting a lot of pressure on him to fulfill you. He is obviously worried about money, and that is why he is asking about the checking account. So maybe you need to make a change, and he will follow. Keep your chin up.