OMG! Is my cousin a lesbian?!?

okay.. well for starters i am 15 and my cousin is only about.. 4 months older than me. for the past year she has gotten more.. clingy and touchy but she is ALSO close to my sister. they get along more whereas she annoys the **** out of me. although, my sis tells me that there is no physical contact on my cousin's part. soooo that leaves me with the most embarassing question: is she a lesbian?





sometimes she comes over to our house (we live like.. 2 hours away) and we spend family time together but she's always touching me (not pervertedly) but.. hugging all the time and i think.. once when we were watching a movie, she grazed the inside of my thigh with her hand. i was like: WTF?! and now i feel uncomfortable around her. plus she's always trying to hold my hand..





i'd rather not ask her about it cause.. i just don't! your help with be appreciated !!

OMG! Is my cousin a lesbian?!?
Get your mind out of the "gutter" !!





If you have any decency and integrity, you would ask her privately and respctfully ... after all, she is your cousin (same blood-line), and she might be there in the future to save your pathetic hide (maybe when no one else will).





Shame on you.
Reply:She might just be more comfortable with touching than you are - some people are just like that.





Besides, so what if she is a lesbian? If she is, who cares? Tell her you're not, end of story.





Whether she's gay or not, All you have to do is tell her you're not the "touchy feely" type and she'll back off. Don't say it in a hurtful way, though.. she might have a lot going on in her head that she's working through and you should be gentle when you tell her.
Reply:umm i dont think so ... thats not how WE act ... she might just want to be like you thats all .. if you feel uncomfortable ask her about it .. good luck
Reply:Test her out..


Next time she touches you, touch her right back.


Rub your hand on her leg and breast and see how she responds....


If she suddenly seems to like it, and starts feeling you up, step back and let her know that you dislike her coming close to you at all, but if she seems surprised at your behavior, tell her that you put her to the test to see if she was a lesbian...


Then agree never to touch again
Reply:i don't think so...i think u're just thinking that because you don't really like her that much...but yeah, i can see why the thigh thinggy would freak you out


why don't you just ask her? she's ur cousin right