My bf wants sex all the time-is this bad?!!!?

you would think i know this answer to this-i'm 28,divorced with 3 girls. my bf is 29, never married. we've been together for about 3 years now (almost)





he's always wanting to touch me (not always sexual). pats my butt when he walks by, kisses my cheek or forehead, hold my hand everywhere. but when we're in the house alone (we live separate right now-i see him alone about 3-5 times a week b/c we both work nites same days) he's all over me and wants to have sex within the hour i get there. he says it's b/c he's in love with me and that's his way of showing it (but not the only way). he says he's never made love the way he does with me and i'm the first girl to orgasm with him (he's had 4 total partners).





we spend tons of time together-he sees my kids about 1-2 times a week, we've discussed marriage and living together-bt he says he fear getting divorced like his parents so he wants to go slow.





he remembers my b-day (bought me 1500.00 necklace this year) and all important dates..

My bf wants sex all the time-is this bad?!!!?
your boy-friend is so cute.


let me explain his logic, (it works on me also)...i love my boy friend a lot...when ever i stay beside him, i either touch his nose, or hair, or throat, or hand, or leg....i mean, i just keep on touching...i dont care even either i m in middle of any important work or in front any friends or in any public place or not. it irritates my boy friend a lot...he says, every thing should have a time. but i feel, i have no time to love him - i want to have a touch with him whenever i get time...coz, i love him...this love pulls me toward him, makes me to touch him at least a little bit.....





he is so caring....ask him, he loves u so much, so why he fear of divorce?? u people should get married early.....give a name to the relationship....


Say him my greetings...and, wiching u both a very happy married life.
Reply:He loves u stupid!


gosh


wut an idoit


poop
Reply:Oh... You're both not co-habiting are you? Maybe you should bring up the subject of co-habiting and see how he feel about it. Cos once you start co-habiting, most probably he has to slow down his pace.. so you'd be able to see whether it because of the sex you offer him that he stays with you.





He sounds like a really nice guy, but you should be careful, he's could just be taking advantage of you. he has to remember that if he want to be with you, the children will also be part of his life.





If you don't want to bring up the subject of cohabiting, then you should just come clean and tell him that he cannot expect you to do it all the time, you have to work and also have children to go home to. He'd understand if he really love you...
Reply:A guy with a high sex drive is normal. Some women have high sex drives to. To me it doesn't sound like he is just after sex. It sounds like he really does love you.
Reply:you are way too high school about your relationship. stop analyzing him so much. if he's a nice guy stay with him. if you want to get married and he doesn't move on.
Reply:he's just happy he's gettin some , cut him off for a month and see if he's still there
Reply:First of all, the guy is a fact that he is really a PERVERT and a SEX addict. Look, if he really loves you, he WONT HAVE SEX WITH YOU ALMOST EVERYDAY ok;.. DID you know that having sex almost everyday can predispose you to vaginal disease. If he really loves you he would think what the end result of having sex with you everyday. THe way i look at it, he is just using words the {i love you} to have sex with you. USE YOUR HEAD sister, dont believe everything that he says.. HE should be more concerned of your health. having sex always IS NOT GOOD.. TELL him about that FACT ok, if he says its not true then im sorry to tell you this but that guy u think who is nice and romantic, is really A FAKE !! what he wants is SEXUAL PLEASURE, GOSH !! he doesnt even know what real love is, such a TURN OFF GUY !!
Reply:i think youre looking for reasons to have this be bad. Dont overthink it...if youre having fun enjoy it.
Reply:wow - some people would complain about too much money
Reply:unwanted sex is a criminal offense, go to the women shelter get help charge him, advise him to be respectful or hit the highway.





Tellhim this is sexual harassment...go to jail where the only important question in life is who is the male and who is the female.
Reply:That's Way you dont give it up till you are married then you will know if he loves you or not. Nothing should be just about sex.
Reply:Why is it bad? He loves you but maybe you don't love him as much??????


You should worry about the day he stops to want you as it could mean that he found someone better than you
Reply:It is only bad if you reject him for his sexual interest in you. If you enjoy the sex as often as he does then ok. What is the problem??? Do his sex with him and then do other things you like doing together. Thats my opinion for your question. Same as being married which is why young people get married is to sleep with each other.
Reply:First of all u being divorced he still loves u he also takes care of Ur kids. When it Cm's to sex most of DA men express their love in dis way its natural according to a man's behavior. If u really love him den make him happy. May be times can occur DAT u don't want have sex then try and explain him but don't get into a fight he'll understand if really loves u.
Reply:I don't understand. Are you complaining? Is it bad for you? If it's not bad for you, then who is it bad for?
Reply:I don't understand exactly what the problem is? If you let him go, there would be PLENTY of women that would be after such a great guy! Just appreciate the great qualities you mentioned in him and if you still live seperately then expect that his sex drive will be higher - he doesn't get to see you as often as he would like. As a guy, I get concerned when my girlfriend DOESN'T want sex - so enjoy it while you can.
Reply:i dont see anything wrong with that....he is inlove with you dont complaint at least he is not getting it out there....yes sex at time can be a bore and we woman just dont want to be bother but explain to him how you feel.....if he really loves you he will respect your decision and slow down a bit. good luck.
Reply:for me its okay.. he seems to be a sweet guy.. u know what, thay guy is really rare from now... just give him what he likes to u too.. thats okay... for me he's a nice guy...
Reply:ur choice hun