Monday, November 16, 2009

To all saved and/or born again believers... For christians only. What is your take on interracial dating?

I'M AFRICAN AMERICAN AND I'M THINKING A WHITE GUY IS INTERESTED IN THIS SISTA. HE KEEPS TOUCHING ME NOT SEXUALLY, DIRTY MINDERS. THIS WOULD BE MY VERY FIRST INTERRACIAL DATING EXPERIENCE. HE WAS MY MUSIC TUTOR FOR A PERIOD OF TIME. IF ANYONE HAS THE SAME EXPERIENCE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME MUCH NEEDED INPUT ON THIS SUBJECT AND PLEASE PLAY NICE BOYS AND GIRLS. PLEASE DO NOT BE SHY TO ASK ME TO BE MORE SPECIFIC IF NEED BE. I DON'T THINK ANYONE WILL ANSWER ME SERIOUSLY ANYWAYS. OH THE SUSPENSE!! LOL

To all saved and/or born again believers... For christians only. What is your take on interracial dating?
i think you should go for it...would you date him if he was the same color as you? if the answer is yes, then you should date him. but i agree with what other people have said...he needs to share your beliefs and be a christian.
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Reply:Interracial dating is cool!!!





Just keep in mind that you MUST be open minded while in the relation, since your culture needs to mix with his culture, and the differences between each one might be huge.
Reply:I'm for mixing races, but I'm not sure about with white people. I think mixing with other minorities is cool though.
Reply:i think you should totally go for it. Race shouldnt have snything to do with the way you feel about a certain person. Dont let any thing stand in the way of the feelings that you have. There is nothing wrong about interacial dating. and even marriage for that matter!:)


do what your heart tells you and if youre not sure what its pointing to then just pray about it.


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Reply:Interracial dating is perfectly fine. The only thing that matters is that he shares your Christian beliefs and is saved. Other than that, your options are open.
Reply:Go for it honey, My sister's husband is white and he's cool. If you look around you, it's becoming more and more common. Soon there will be a whole race of "other", not just black, white and hispanic ( in reference to filling out surveys). I say you just follow you heart regarless of race.
Reply:I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If you want to have babies with a white guy, that is fine. I personally wouldn't do it because I know bi racial people with identity problems, but like I said, I think there is nothing wrong with it, and I wouldn't think bad of anyone for having bi racial kids. The only way I might do it is if the other race was really close to mine like if the other person was a really like Mexican or Cuban because then no one would be able to tell. But, you should just be brave and do it. Your kids would be fine. I'm just a little up tight like that. That's why I woudn't do it.
Reply:go for it! i think you guys will have a lot of fun and learn a lot about each other
Reply:Here is my take on this... The issue should not be skin color, but rather cultural differences. An african american family is different from a typical white family. That's a good thing! That is what makes the different cultures unique. If people think the only difference between races was skin color, then they are sadly mistaken. There are beliefs, customs, historical heritages etc. that make you unique. That said, that is what has to be looked at. Are you or the other person willing to accept each others cultural differences? It's sad that our society would be more willing to accept a spanish person/white person couple more so than an african american/white couple. I say trust your heart. Don't worry about what people think. You just both have to accept each others differences. You can't make him black and he can't make you white. Hold true to your heritage.

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How do you know if a guy likes youu?

mmkay..... soooo


heres the deal.


theres this guy. hes funny and cute and completey EXPERIENCED (if u know what i mean)


andd.... has a girlfriend.


but for the last couple weeks he's been like majorly flirting with me and like idk... serious flirting with me.





but it looks like he and his girlfriend are completely fine. but also... heres the thing. me and him have like the SAME personality. we're both kinda weird (in a good way) ... but so is his gf. haha


whatever.


so.... confused.


He flirts with me A LOT. like touching me (not in a pervy way) but always hanging out with me ( we have a lot of classes together) and stuff.


soo.... help? :)

How do you know if a guy likes youu?
He sounds like a jackass. How'd you like to be the gf and he's flirting with other girls???





Flirt back if you want. But if his gf is bigger / meaner than you then you'll have to deal.
Reply:well.. think about this:


if he is willing to flirt with u and basicly cheat on his gf then what makes assures u thathe wouldnt go flirt with some other girl while u two were dating


he sounds like a player undercover and no girl needs that drama


yeah its pretty flattering to have a guy like that wanting you but considering he is also really experienced he probably wants u for the wrong reasons


its cool that u guys bond but atleast wait until he grows up a little


and dont worry he wont be the only flirting with u ^-^ so just keep your options open
Reply:U never know---Sad for his gf---anyways--2 things can be there





He wanna be with u forever


He is just flirting





Be careful---May be after few days another girl will post same question where the same guy will have a gf who is u--but flirting with another girl





I guess u understand what I am warning about.A cheat is always a Cheat.When u keep someone in dark and flirt with others then it's a cheating.
Reply:k based on experience if a guy has a gf and asks that way around other girls.. when he goes out with you he will do the same..trust me. If you want a guy that will treat you with respect find a guy who doesnt have a gf and who respects others enough to not play them like that..i feel sorry for his gilfriend... does she know about this? I been in the girlfriends position and yours.. and the best advise i can give you is to stay away from those kinds of people... only drama, trouble and hearthache..





please answer my question ^_^





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Reply:ask him whats the deal. if he is friends with you and yer tiiight, than whats the big deal. ask him yo. bc alotta guys do that. flirt with girls bc theyre tired of their gf but still keep her just bc they know she wont leave (:
Reply:Don't but in..


Usually I'd be like "Go for it!!" But I'm going out with this unexperienced, cute guy... nn yeah. Just don't ruin things for them :[.


I'm super confused and i don't know if he likes me???

well theres this guy and he's sorta perverted. He flirts with lots of girls but ive heard him say he likes alot of people.


sometimes afterschool he bugs me and keeps touching me.


not all the times but every once in a while. then in p.e. he was all over me and asked for a hug. then in lang. arts he was bugging me again but not as much. remember he flirts alot with other girls but my friends always say that he does it to me most. do you think he's doing it to have fun or does he like me differently???

I'm super confused and i don't know if he likes me???
He's probably just doing it cause he knows you let him and he wants to be popular with teh girls obviously. It sounds like he's very selfish and thinks he has a higher importancy then all these girls he's flirting with, including yourself.
Reply:maybe he his just a player and flirts with all girls





please help me i've fallen so deep for this guy


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...


I have the hots for my aunt?

im 16 yrs old and i keep on having sexual fantasies about my aunt. We aren't blood related because she is my Mom's, brother's wife.





She always has her cleavage shown when she's at home and she is always touching me, not down their, but like my head and arms. When ever she is around me, i get an erection and i want to just have sex with her, but i know it is wrong.





Is this normal for my age? What should i do to block these thoughts? I can;t stop seeing her because were always going to her house and shes always coming to mine.

I have the hots for my aunt?
Just keep thinking to yourself... "Man that my AUNTIE! That's mom's SIISTER IN LAW" Just keep running those words through your head lol. Mother and sister, you dont want any sexual thoughts about someone that is like a sister to you mother... and even tho you auntie isnt blood related you dont want thoughts about family members. I never had thoughts about family members like that but, at that age us dudes generally are VERY VERY horny.
Reply:Get something better to do with your time.





Do homework, study, research colleges and college applications, exercise (like jogging, weight lifting), even help out with chores around the house (lawn mowing, raking, vacuming), participate in sports (swim team, tennis, golf, basketball, football, baseball, hockey, track).





At your age, you should be too occupied with building your life to be daydreaming rediculous things or to be around your aunt alot.
Reply:wh-aaaaa?????
Reply:that's sick!


Does he like me???

Well i think this boy in my class likes me here are things i notice:


He always looks at me but when i catch him staring at me he looks away.





He always touches me (not in a sexual way) like he touches my shoulder, he pushes me against him he plays with my hair





he always tries to make me laugh





he always tries to get next to me





he always talks to me and when i call his name he imidiatly looks at me





He always teases me.





Does he like me???

Does he like me???
yes...


toy with his mind awhile.


make him want you bad...
Reply:Damn I do that :P but it depends on the guy you're talking about. If he looks away from you or blushes outside the class while hes talking to his friend in the hallway then he might like you.





I would say he wants to be your friend as far as you're concerned.





*hallway: outside of class wherever you know ...





If he likes you would you date him?
Reply:This guy likes you alot! He seems like he is too shy to ever let you know verbally, though.....If you like him, you may have to be the one to initiate things.





These are all typical for a guy that thinks that you are way to hot for him.....
Reply:No. =)





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Reply:umm yes i think he lkes you but he might want to just get with you without liking you so u have to make sure. do you like him??


why don't you guys get little closer and ask him his number and talk and find out.:)
Reply:Ahh, that sounds sweet. Is he cute?





Well, you decide by asking him. We people of the internet for one thing have limited knowledge of the relationships of people, so asking him personally might do the job.
Reply:well he def. has a thing for u and thinks ur attractive...now if he acts the same way around other girls then he might not like u, so keep ur eyes open and if he only acts like this around u then ya he likes u, just remember to play hard to get
Reply:Sounds like it. If I were you I would give off small hints that I like him and go from there. Try to hang out with him, like go to a game if he plays sports, or go to his job or whatever.
Reply:Well it sounds to me like he likes you.


but I cant be for shure, since I have no clue who he is.





but from everything you just said I think he does.





ask him.


:D
Reply:ofcourse he likes you..! u come to know when a person is like alll ways lookin at u and stuff..! just wait and see he might come and propose u soon ok...! good luck or u go a head..! my regards...!take care..!true love never dies nor fades away..!
Reply:OBVIOUSLY!!!!! Wow, you are lucky you have someone who likes you like crazy...





Those are the main signs a guy likes a girl.
Reply:no. i didnt read the question, but no. when i guy likes you, you KNOW it
Reply:he either likes you... or is trying to mess with you... maybe its to get someone else jealous...but it also depends on how long he's been doing this
Reply:yes he likes you. those are all the tips that he likes you. trust me.
Reply:definately no matter what age guys are, those are the classic signs that a guy likes u.
Reply:Honey I think you know the answer to your question!!!! YES HE LIKE YOU TOO. ask him to help you with some of homework then go from there.....
Reply:i would probably say ya it seems lke he tries to get you yo notice him and get you interested in him
Reply:You will know when he starts stalking you.
Reply:the real q is do u like him.
Reply:Yes he likes you. It's easy to see.
Reply:probably
Reply:yeah hes just tryin to see if you like him back


and if he says he doesn't like you hes lying
Reply:I would imagine so.
Reply:yep those definately sounds like that boy has a crush on you ^.^ do you like him? if so, i hope all goes well.
Reply:aha!
Reply:yes. go for him.
Reply:Ya, I would say so
Reply:HELL YES!
Reply:Ye
Reply:Yep he does
Reply:Sounds like it

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Does he like me? (my friends bro?)?

he is always touching me and joking with me, and comenting my hair, and always tries to sit near me. please take note i dont like him.! btw i dont know why he would like me im pretty small and hes really big. (tall strong) why would he like wimpy little me? also im in 9th grade and hes a senior. um what do i do i dont like him and hes always touching me (not perverted ways) lol

Does he like me? (my friends bro?)?
maybe he does like u..


or maybe he's just acting nice and cute..


to get u laid...


so i think u should be careful around him
Reply:yeah he likes u 'cause the same thing happened 2 me %26amp; i didn't like the person he ALWAYS tried 2 put his arm 'round me @ the mall
Reply:maybe he does
Reply:I have the exact smae problem with a guy, except he isn't my friend's brother and I really like him. I would say he definately likes you. P.S. Some guys like small girls...
Reply:if he's touching you and you don't like it, just privately and politely tell him to stop, as you have authority over your own body and you deserve respect. if you're up to it, also tell him that you don't like him and that you'd appreciate it if he left you alone. aside from that, he may like you because larger guys tend to think that small, pretty girls are cute, and the fact that you're in ninth grade and he's a senior makes it easier for him, as he's more in control and doesn't comply with the same social pressures of 9th grade boy/girl drama.
Reply:Tell him to leave you alone if he ain't tell him you will call the cops on him, not that hard, just be honest if he is a good guy he will you alone but if he ain't and if he is a hard head tell your brother to talk to him, if this aint going to help just call the cops, don't feel bad
Reply:tell him to say away from u cause u dont like him?
Reply:Yes, he obviously likes you, OR he could naturally be a flirtty guy. :o
Reply:he likes you because he sees you as a little toy he can play with. he seems like he is going to be a petifile when he grows up so stay lcear from him and avoid him as much as you can
Reply:maybe he just likes to flirt with you.
Reply:Sounds to me like maybe your reading in to it to much. My brothers always did that with my younger friends but nothing would ever happen. Sit him down and tell him what you think. Then if he does say that he's in to you that way tell him to get lost because you want to be with some one your own age
Reply:i think he wants u but he knows u dont like him
Reply:initial stages....flirting with kid sisters friends is the oldest disease...he probably has a girlfriend whom he cant bring home.But how about sisters friend?She can come when no one is around andcan have "fun" and if caught can always claim that she had come to meet the sister.


But for that first will have to get her intrestd... and thats what he is trying to do...
Reply:um.... well some guys are natural flirts but it realy sounds like this guy likes you lol but if u don't like him just tell him lol


What does maby mean??Does he like me?

Ok there's this guy that i like and he knows i like him! In the begining when i asked my best friend to ask him does he like me he said just as a friend. Then he told him i liked him. Now he's different because he plays with me,touches me(not like that) asks for hugs, he always looks at me,and at lunch he would come sit with me and shows me trys to show off.One time he was reading and i was sitting right next to him and he just kept looking up at me and there's so much more!Now one of my friends who found out i liked him asked him do you like her(she's reffering to me) and he said maby!!Well I'm just wondering what does maby mean?Thanks!

What does maby mean??Does he like me?
you're really GAY
Reply:Maybe is a cop out.


He doesn't want you to know his feelings,


good or bad,


because that would mess up the cute adolescent game you two are playing with each other.








If you really wanna know, ask him yourself.
Reply:Yes, the guy likes you. Physical contact means that he wants a relationship with you but is nervous about rejection. If you like him...why not break the ice by inviting him to go to a movie with you sometime? Also you could go to the Mall on weekends with him, etc. Spending time with him shows him that you are interested in him. Let nature take its course.
Reply:It means yes
Reply:Well, I don't know what "maby" means. But MAYBE in this case seems like a yes.
Reply:I think the way this goes is that initially, he didn't like you. But you know how people are sometimes. When they know you like them, they start to act extra special and all that when you're around and this makes them end up falling for you too.





So anyway, he probably didn't like you in that way at the beginning but likes you now!
Reply:"maby" means that the person in question didn't know how to spell the word "maybe"
Reply:it means "maybe"


he could be afraid of telling your friends because you might not feel the same way.


OR he just likes to flirt with you.


can you help me?


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...


What do I do about a guy who likes me and does not leave me alone, when I most certainly DO NOT like him?

This boy at my school who I met a few monthes ago, he really likes me. I mean, he always makes gestures when around me that I dont like, he makes sexual jokes that are not funny, and just plain acts annoying and perverted when Im around. He always asks me out, and then makes jokes about what we will do at night in his room after the date, if you know what I mean. And, he's always touching me. Not in a bad way, its just he sits close to me during lunch if he can, and then makes jokes and gestures with his eyes and hands about touching me on my breast. Im sick of it, I just want him to leave me alone. If he starts to make "gestures", I always tell him to stop, to go away, sometimes pushing him off his seat (Im not the kind of person who would let someone do that to me) and he usually goes away, but always comes back the next day.


What can I do that will make him stop without hurting his feelings? Please, I just want him to leave me alone! Im so sick of him!

What do I do about a guy who likes me and does not leave me alone, when I most certainly DO NOT like him?
What you are talking about, if in the adult world instead of school, would be called sexual harassment. You need to tell the boy that you will report him to the school officials if he gives you anymore trouble, and that you are sick of it. Make sure there are people around to witness that you told him this. Then, if he does not leave you alone (like returning the next day) immediately get up and go talk to one of the officials at the school about your problem. By doing this, it makes it their problem to deal with, and they have to do something. They will make sure he leaves you alone, even expelling him if he refuses. That should give you some peace, as well as giving a message to the other guys that you won't permit this kind of treatment.
Reply:humiliate him and report him to an adult. cause that is sexual harrasment
Reply:well you may have to break this kids feelings if this is how he acts all the time


My boyfriend shows me alot of affection in school?

i love it but i dont know how to show him affection back...ive had lots of problems in my life and never wanted affection from a guy till now so i dont know wat to do...how do i show him affection. he says that when he touches me (not like that) that i just sit there...what do i do to prove to him that i can show him affection?

My boyfriend shows me alot of affection in school?
It seems like this is new to you.So just kinda copy the things he does to you.You can also asked him what he would like you to do for him.Guys like affection as much as we do.I had the same issue with my boyfriend and I started touching his chest and holding his hands and he said he liked those stuff.
Reply:When he does this look at him and smile - seductively - hold his hand or touch his leg. Play footsie under the table in lessons and if youve gt a reli stupid teacher kiss in lesson - this is fine and th chance of bein caught adds to th excitement. Tell him - if your close - that you love him - If it bothers you bein touched either tell him - or say after school ill give u a treat jus nt know. Tempt and lure him into doin things your way!!!! lol.
Reply:rell him how you feel and tell him you just have alot in your mind but you just feel da same way he does

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Could I be pregnant?

I didn't have sex BUT me and my boyfriend were hanging out when he 'readjusted' himself. He got stuff on his hands but wiped it off on his pants then touched me [not inside my underwear but in my pants] but then a little while later he did touched me inside my underwear. I just want to know if there's anyway that I could be pregnant.





I don't know if this matters but [I think] I was ovulating at the time.





SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY please...thank you!

Could I be pregnant?
To ease your mind take a pregnancy test... Odds are in your favor for not being pregnant. Since he wiped his hand, I think your fine. Doesn't sperm died with in seconds of air or something like that????





If you are pregnant, then you can explain to your parents of how you became a virgin mother, and I'm being serious too. It happens, it's rare but girls can get pregnant without sex but a certain way as well and their virginity is still intact.
Reply:no..
Reply:I would seriously doubt it. It doesn't sound like there was really direct contact, but if you are worried, go get a pregnancy test.
Reply:How old are you? All i'm gonna say is, Take a pregnancy test and see if you're pregnant. We can't tell you if you're pregnant or not.
Reply:Honestly, I would not worry about it. Even if you are trying to get pregnant, you only have a 20-25% chance each month...





But crazier things have happened. Don't stress, but test if you do not get your period.





Little word of advice - if you are thinking about having sex (oral or vaginal) be responsible enough to buy condoms at the very least. They will save you a lot of stress. And if you are too embarrassed to by them, you should not be having sex....but you can get them in a gas station bathroom, just make sure they are still in date. I learned the hard way that machines are not always kept up to date and that was in a college dorm :)
Reply:i'm thinking that you should be fine.. don't worry about it...


Does he like me?

Okay so theres this guy his name is Tim and I really like him...problem is that he's 12 years older than me and a really heavy drinker...he had a girlfriend but they broke up. Anyways we talk alot because hes kind of like a family friend, anyways hes always making jokes about these two celebs I like and he knows that I will hit him (playfully) and he keeps saying those things anyways, then over vacation he had me listen to his ipod and there was this one song that was REALLY innaporpriate for me to be listening to so I was kind of like wow and hes always flirting with me too like tickling me or touching me, not innaporpriately or anything but its really funny...he likes to make me laugh and we have a good time together, but theres bad stuff too, like he wants me to drink with him and I tell him no, but Im scared that he wants to take advantadge of me and my friends think I should stay away from him...I dont know what to do....

Does he like me?
yo shoudld tell him that you want to hang out, but set boundaries....because of your age difference and his drinking problem you have to be careful---let him know and if he cares about you he will try to work things out





hope this helps---can u help me now?


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thanks so much and good luck!!!
Reply:Dear God!!!! plez stay away..i g2r but go away from him...he could be using u as a physical replacement for his g/f....like he uses alcohol......
Reply:You sound to young to like a guy that old.





Family friend --- sounds to me like he treats you like a FRIEND
Reply:he doesn't like you, he is just playing a parenting role. he shouldn't ask you to drink but it is good that you say no. don't let him get in your pants, the biggest age difference should be six years between people, and even that is pushing it. if you really love him...........


I lke this guy, but...?

I'm fifteen and I like this guy that is about a year and a half older. He likes me so much and I like him too but I could never admit that to him becasue I don't think he's right for me. He does things that are kind of bad ( stuff I wouldn't do). He's alway touching me(not in a perverted way). I like him so much but I'm not sure this could ever work. What should I do?

I lke this guy, but...?
well you'll never know 'till you try things out. it won't hurt.


Tell girl i like her without risking friendship?

There's this girl that i met in one of my college classes. We are both first years, have been sitting together since early September, and I've really grown to like her. During class we always talk (i know... we souldn't in class), we always have fun conversations, and we talk on MSN all the time. I want to ask her out but i don't know if she feels the same about me. How can i ask her without ruining a great friendship?? I can't tell if she likes me b/c the signals are mixed and i'm no good at pcking up girl's signals. Sometimes in class she touches me. Not in a sexual flirting way, but just as if we've become good friends and she's comfortable with me. Like she might randomly grab my arm and bury her head in it to show she's tired. We text msg too. But we haven't really done anything together outside of class even though she said she would have lunch with me and my friends sometime. It's weird b/c i have another good friend (a girl) who i met this year and we have coffee, hang out, and

Tell girl i like her without risking friendship?
Guess what? She already knows that you like her and she is telling all of her friends about you because you spend so much time talking and women love a man that has some good conversation! Take her up on that lunch offer one day and see where things go from there! Don't spill the beans just yet, but don't wait too long or someone else will put in their application and snatch your friend away! Like I stated before nine out of ten times she knows you like her and she probably likes you because she spends so much time talking to you, women don't give of their time so freely to someone they aren't interested in!

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Do you think he likes me?

Well there is this guy that sits next to me in class and he always tries to talk to me even when i'm mad at him but he always seems to get me to say something to him back. If he's in the front of the class line he gets in the back just to talk to me and sometimes he touches me(not in a perverted way) its sorta weird i think he likes me but i'm so sure my friend has asked him out before but he said no (it was probably because he was in front of his friends)i like him and need some advice+he's one of my friends and i don't want to mess up are friendship ..PLEASE HELP!

Do you think he likes me?
ok so he totally does like you ! and he wants to be your best friend ever ! but thier are guys out thier that just don't want to date .... how long ago did you ask him out. if it was a long time ago then just try to give him feed back if you like him too ?? otherwise he will give up.


ps: he probably regrets saying no to you, by the way he acts now
Reply:Do you like him? Don't just go out with someone because they like you. Sometimes they just are friendly jestures not always meaning they like you. But Im sure he likes you from what you siad. If your friend has asked him out, if you end up asking this guy out I would ask your friend if she would mind. That can always cause problems betwwen friends. Hope this helps
Reply:just ask him .


Why would he give me all the signs then turn into?

a jerk and then back into a nice guy? He has given me all the signs. He's asked me out, touched me (not in a sexual way), usually says hello, sometimes spends a lot of time in my department (we work together- its not an issue I'm leaving in two months). Asked me about my life whether or not I have a boyfriend. He tries to make me laugh, holds eye contact for way too long, noticed when I changed my hair, and is in my personal space a lot. He sometimes makes sexual innuendos, teases me, and tells me I'm one of his favorites. I thought he liked this other girl, but w/o me even asked me he told me how he doesn't like her- that she creeps him out. So I'm confused! He's kind of two faced so I don't even know if he's being real with me. And when there are certain people around like other managers, he'll completely ignore me. When he found I was leaving he said "Well ****." And he said in a jokingly way, "Oh well you know I like you, so I'd only do it for you."

Why would he give me all the signs then turn into?
This sounds like the office flirt. Don't take him seriously. He's after nothing more than having his ego stroked. He probably tells the other girl the same things.


The reason why he acts different when there's other people around, is he doesn't want to be caught out wasting company time by flirting. How much older is he? Is he married? Is this guy a superior? Do you work under him? If so this is totally inappropriate, and he knows it. Another reason for changing his attitude when others are there.


Please if you finish there in a few months don't give this guy a way into your life, just ignore him. He sounds like the type to move onto greener pastures fairly quickly.
Reply:i think you should ignore him and play hard to get. try to make him notice how your feeling. don't worry about the flirting thing. just make lots of eye contact and smile, but keep your distance. once he notices your kind of ignoring him, he'll try harder to get your attention and stop being a jerk in front of other people so he can still have your interest. make it seem like you don't really care what he's talking about and try to be intrested in other guy so he feels like he has to work for you. try to be flirty, laugh a lot, and have a good time without him. it's also a tiny bit fun to see him struggle for you.


i hope this helped!!! (i know boys can be jerks)
Reply:Seems to me that he is just being a typical guy. And I don't say that trying to be some kind of feminist or anything....





It's just guys love to play little games like that to see what your reactions are. Then once he has seen them, he either gets bored and moves on, or he takes a bigger approach to get closer to you.

vc++

Wow can someone tell me whats going on?

Im 20 and i just got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I started talking to this other guy and I like him alot but I cringe when he touches me, not b/c i dont like him but b/c im just paranoid that he's gonna try to make a move (but not that i would mind)....lol sounds so stupid and girly but i dunno why im acting this way. CONFUSED.

Wow can someone tell me whats going on?
My guess is that you really aren't ready to be dating and should take a little more time to heal from the 2.5 yr relationship.
Reply:yeah...youre not ready for creepy crawler to come around and


yet, had he persisted he may have scored...Hmmm. think it


over you wouldnt have mined the jump its the approach...had no passion. Woman, when you think youre ready, luck to the person that sparks the fuse...enjoy.
Reply:Your last relationship probably left you as a bit of a commitment-phobe. If you like each other, and you're not opposed to being intimate, then you're going to need to let go of the past. If you're interested in a relationship with him but just don't want to "go there" this early into it, tell him. He doesn't know if you don't let him know, after all!


Need help w/ a boy? I really like him?

There is this boy I like and we are really good friends and he is so sexy and so sweet but the think is he likes his ex... he is goin on a camping trip this weekend and tells me not to call him but that night he called me 3 times and justs talked about things for like hours I really like him and want to go out with him but I'm afarid that it might screw up are friendship and he is always flirting with me, touching me(not sexual) and he is always lookin at me. What should I do???

Need help w/ a boy? I really like him?
Go out with him! and find out if you guys have anything common.
Reply:just be straight with the guy you wont know unless you give it a go good luck hun
Reply:i dont know, if you really like him, take it slowly then... no need to rush!
Reply:U should go out with him and c where it leads! It’s better than wondering what might have been and regretting that you never gave it a chance.


He got married...but i still love him?

2years ago i fell in love with my best friend(10 years older then me)but he told me he didnt feel that way.few months later he told me he loves me,but he ws hesitant coz he wud get married to whom his parents say(me n him cud never really be).we"dated"but he never touched me...not even once.finally2months later he ended it,without explaining.i finally started moving on,and a year and a hlf later he gets drunk and tells me he loves me still.i was with someone else so i didnt think about it much.one day,after id broken up he was with me and he kissed me and i didnt stop him. we had a "thing"but i told him a week later i ***** go through the pain of losin him again n we'd to stop.he had to go back home for his sisters weddin n there his parents got ihm married. he comes back and says that we cud still be more if i want. i dont want to be his mistress but i dont understand him at all or what he expects of me.i dont resent him4hving gtten married,i knw he wud do nythin4his parents.

He got married...but i still love him?
Still you don't just go get married, if he can not stand up to his parents then it will never work. He is now married so you need to leave him alone and move on. I think you also need to sit with him and tell him that you can be friends and only friends since he is now married and you are not that type of person.
Reply:even if he is married, dont do it!
Reply:RUN AWAY QUICK!





Even though you may love this guy, he belongs to someone else now. You should not be "second" to this.
Reply:Stay away from him. Would you really want to marry this sleezeball?
Reply:That must feel horrible to see the Man you love get married, but first of all be realistic, it is hard honey but he may not be for you, first of all he has to be a man and tell his parents he will decide who to marry, second of all he should of not kissed you he is very disrespectful to his wife and what he committed to, wether he was forced into marriage or not if he didn't want o be married then he should of said NO! now that he is he must respect his marriage, and he needs to make up his mind and stop hurting you, my advice is to get away from him as much as possible and one day God will bring a good real MAN who loves you and deserves you. Good luck, and don't let him hurt you once again!!
Reply:I think the best thing to do would be to stay away until you're over him. It does hurt, I won't lie, but it's going to hurt more (and for longer) if you don't learn to stop loving him. He's married. You'll never have him in the way you want to have him. You can fall in love with someone else. You deserve to fall in love with someone else, someone who can love you back and give you all of themselves, but you need to give yourself the chance. Tell him you need some time away, and then don't call or see him until you feel able to communicate without the "butterflies". Best of luck to you. You have to be strong, but it will make you happier than trying to find a way to be with this guy.
Reply:I think that hes telling u what he feel like u would want to hear to get what he wants. Move on bcause its not worth it bcause he'll play u to the end. "why buy the cow when u can get the milk for free". To me parents cant make one of their grow children do anything bcause love is blind.
Reply:what is your question?


Oh god, i had a dream about this guy?

so i have this guy friend who is always hanging around me and is like talking to me all the time and last night i had a dream about him where he asked me out and i said yes. also, he touches me (not innapropriatley) but he always is talking to me and trying to not let other people talk to me when hes around. but he asked my best friend out and she said no so now everybody jokes around and says hes moved on to me... i feel that i might have feelings for him, but im not sure...

Oh god, i had a dream about this guy?
If you didn't have feelings toward him before the dream, you really don't like him. Don't let dreams affect you like that.
Reply:Honestly...how do u not know? If you had a dream and he asked you out thats probably because you want him to ask you out. You probably do...so y not ask him out yourself!!
Reply:Um, what's the question????





:)
Reply:Take it slow and enjoy his company. Check my other answer on your other Q as well. If there is another guy you also like, then be friends with both and get to know them both. Soon you will know who belongs to your heart. You will see, these kinda things sort themselves out. There is nothing strange about liking 2 guys at the same time. My one friend is going through something similar at the moment and we are in our mid 30's! She loves the one guy, but another guy came into her life 3 weeks ago and is now sweeping her off her feet. She has already made plans to go on holiday with guy nr. 1. But guy nr. 1 is reluctant and can't make up his mind whether he wants her. Still she loves him very much. So now she loves one guy, and she's in love with another one. We'll just have to see what's gonna happen.


Good luck to you too!! Would love to know what happened.
Reply:he'd probably be flattered if u asked him out
Reply:go head and ask him out
Reply:are you sure it was a dream about this guy...and not that guy?
Reply:this might be helpful


http://spirita.blogspot.com/

cotton tree

A follow up question for touchy/feely girls?

Okay, I asked a question about a touchy/feely girl. If you didn't see it here it is (and could you answer it too?)


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...





Now my question is, could I "test" her intentions by starting to be kind of touchy/feely with her as well? Keep in mind, I don't mind her touching me....not at all lol.

A follow up question for touchy/feely girls?
It sounds like she likes you. It also sounds like she is an affectionate person. (kinda like me, I touch alot too ). I think she would like it if you gave her a warm, gentle and strong touch too!


Good luck..Happy touching! : )
Reply:Yah you could, but then again it is your co-worker and at work that would be called "sexual harassment" if she decided she was uncomfortable with it.





And if you were uncomfortable with her touching, you could also consider it sexual harassment.





I am actually going through the same thing at my job, there is a guy who is constantly touching me, sometimes with a provocative stroke down my back. I admit that I am attracted to him, but that is just plain inappropriate for work.





Maybe if y'all hang out outside of work you can reciprocate her touches, but as far as AT work, I would try to keep things as platonic as possible.





And her always touching you is a hint that she likes to touch you and wants you to touch her back (appropriately of course).





Good luck to you too and God bless! :)
Reply:you should ask for a raise in salary because if she is acting the way you are saying she is acting you are probably going to get it,
Reply:actually you might only have an idea of her intentions but it's not a definate. she could be touch feely, but not want sex right then, but also can be if she wants it. what "intentions" are talking about? casual sex or something serious ?
Reply:We'' why don't you give her a friendly hug and as you pull away from her move your hand under her breast.
Reply:yea you can test her


Help! Is it a really strong crush or love?

Ok, I have a neighbor named, CJ. And I like him A LOT!!! Woo! And whenever he touches me I get a certain feeling.


I get it [the feeling] really easily, too.


That is whenver he touches me [not in a nasty way].


For instance, if we are sitting next to each other and our knees are touching even the slightest bit, I'll lean over next to my best friend, Sheridan [CJ's sister] and whisper in her ear, "Sheridan, I got that feeling again."


I'll get the feeling even if we aren't touching if he's like close to me and nothing is touching with each other.


Here I'll TRY to explain the feeling that I get:


• Nervousness


• A chill runs up my spine


• I can't move


• EXTREME happiness


• I can't think of anything but, "OMG!"


• I want it to last forever


• and I feel like I'm gonna pee my pants


I ONLY get it with him! ONLY! and I have a bunch of other guys that I like and when they sit with me I don't get it AT ALL!


So, what is it?


Has/does this ever happen to you?


ps. By the way I'm 13 y.o

Help! Is it a really strong crush or love?
13... I dont thikn it is possible to be in love at thirteen. I would definatley go out with him but dont call it love right now or any time soon. 9 times out of 10 if you marry your highschool sweetheart (or m.s. I guess) it doesnt work out. and thats a real statistic. But I do know how you feel. I am the same age
Reply:Crush
Reply:It is a strong crush !!!
Reply:you dont love. If you did then you wouldnt need to ask this question.
Reply:strong crush
Reply:I'm tired of young little middle schoolers asking these questions.Hun you are 13.At that age its just a crush. You wont experience real love till you are older and wiser.
Reply:Well you really have some strong feelings for a 13 year old. I think it's just a real strong crush though.
Reply:Yes that's a crush
Reply:puppy love honey..thats all
Reply:aww! first off, that is soooo sweet!!!!





okay. now i think it might just be a REALLLY REALLY REALLLLLLY strong crush. personal oopinion though. i feel like love is something that only comes once. and you will always love that one person. but hey, if you go a few years, and you still feel it, ITS LOVE!!





Aww!





Hope I Helped!
Reply:yeah i guess you can call it love or a very strong crush, why not tell him how you feel?





who knows, something great could happen between you two





good luck =)


How do you tell if a boy likes you?

here's what this boy is doing to me:


~staring in my eyes-and i know i don't have anything on my face


~asking me stuff over and over that i would rather not repeat on here


~being more ''touchy'' towards me(touching me-not "privately"tho)





are these signs that a boy likes you (or me)?


what are more signs?





I'm 14 almost 15 and i think he's 15.

How do you tell if a boy likes you?
Yooooppppp! Good luck homegirl! ^_^
Reply:Yup, he likes you. We like looking at shiny and pretty things. Girls are shiny and pretty things, too! If he is staring into your eyes for longer than is normal, then he has an interest in you. Another way to tell is if he teases you, goes out of his way to do something for you, or is curious about you. I do have issue with the way that you have described him. If he is asking you stuff that you don't want to post and this makes you uncomfortable, than this raises flags. Being very touchy and asking personal stuff is something you should consider if you want to take it further. It seems to me that he doesn't have that much experience with girls and needs a little more practice at establishing and maintaining boundaries. Good luck and Cheers!
Reply:this is a no brainer.... i think you already know the answer
Reply:Yeah, he likes you. Or he wants something from you if you know what i mean. Just be wary. :)
Reply:HE LIKES YOU [[:
Reply:if he acts like you would if it were turned around, then know.
Reply:what I would ask you is if this boy acts like this with all women (or most women your age), and if he doesn't then I'd say he does like you.
Reply:he soooooooooooooooooooooo likes u! that's exactly what this guy @ skool does 2 me and every1 tells me that he likes me! he even told me he liked me. he still acts like that


Does he like me more than a friend?

i have know him for around 2 years.We are close friends and we talk eveytime we see eachother!he smiles when we see eachother!Even though he is my friend..i like him!We always ask eachother who we like!He touches me (not sexually).i know who he likes and he know who i like.but i wonder if he likes me more than a firend.





how do i find out if he likes me more than a friend! (no i dont want to strait up ask him)

Does he like me more than a friend?
Make a move. If he follows through, he likes you. If he turns you down, he doesn't.
Reply:ask him
Reply:if you really want to know if he likes you, have one of your friends ask him do he like you!!! but this is how i see it...if you think a boy likes you most of the time they do....most girls know when a boy likes them!!! and i think you already know your answer!!!!
Reply:go have a drink with him %26amp; start to try to touch him, feel him out %26amp; see if he goes for a kiss. he will, he's a guy. if not say ur just testing ur friendship, so u don't get mixed signals %26amp; only want to be friends, so u save face.
Reply:well i guess i would umm just keepon going how it is wait for it
Reply:find somewhere privite and in peron tell him you love him
Reply:Take it from a guy --- Yes he likes you as more than a friend!!!

pomegranate margarita

I HAVE A SPECIAL ARRANGEMENT with my husband. We are legally married, but we no longer enegage in sex!?

What do you all think of this arrangement? Why is this so? Well, the truth is, we separated for five long years.Later on, he came back to me, begging on his knees so I would accept him again! I no longer wanted to; 5 years were such long, terrible years!! But my mom advised me to take him back, because my two children by him were still so young; I certainly needed his financial support! And so, I agreed to take him back! When he asked me to have ANOTHER BABY, heck, I was so riled up!!! In my heart, his having abandoned us for such a long time, was so mean, so cruel, I no longer wanted to have another child! So, I refused; he adamantly also refused to leave me! He said I did not have to separate from him, that we would live together, but that, he would respect me, if I no longer wanted to have SEX WITH him!!! And, that's it! Imagine, we have been living together for the past how- many-years, since 1982, and he has not touched me, NOT ONE BIT!!!! We no longer quarrel;what do you think??

I HAVE A SPECIAL ARRANGEMENT with my husband. We are legally married, but we no longer enegage in sex!?
He is respecting you, simple as that. You said you no longer want to have sex with him and in my opinion, he is going to great lengths to respect your wishes. You should appreciate that because few men would be able to do that.
Reply:OH WOW!


It's Fine..... Can we have a casual Sex....... Please let me know about you...... WOW! what a patience...... Or may be he is crazy...... or may he is......
Reply:You sound like you have a good arrangement going. Especially if this is what you both want! You can be on the same wave length and enjoy each others company! This is way more important than sex. People often think that sex should be the most important thing in a relationship, but this is far from the truth. I'm happy that you've been able to work it out like this. Especially without quarreling. Normally I would say don't stay together for the kids, but the kids don't realize that nothing is going on in the bedroom, and they see a healthy family that isn't dysfunctional because of constant arguments! Hats off to you!
Reply:Sounds like you are not married but in a 'financial' arrangement.





I think if you like the arrangment, AND he does as well, then there is nothing wrong with it. But I would bet he doesnt like the way things are, and niether do you.





Any man or wife who doesnt WANT to have sex at least once a month has something wrong with them mentally.





I would suggest marital counciling.
Reply:Whatever floats your boat. You do know he's getting it some where right?
Reply:It's called sweet woman, "Psychological abuse",or in laymans terms,"Emotional Abuse"!!! He wants you to do what he wants,or else!!! He thinks he's so special that he needs no words!!! Girl,pleeeese see this for what it really is and get him gone!!! My Mom is like yours,but that was their day,not ours,ok?
Reply:As long as you dont mind if he goes out and gets some action once and a while, why not? You are basically roommates and co-parents but not a couple. If it works, it works. I just wonder about whether each of you will be able to handle the other one dating other people. Are both of your romantic lives over now? I know that you would have trouble finding someone. Being a mother who is looking for love can be tricky, but having your 'ex' living with you too would make most guys bolt. They would just naturally assume that you are still physically intimate with him. Good luck.
Reply:IF U WANT THAT FINE BUT IF HE'S DOING SOMEONE ELSE U HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE MAD
Reply:It sounds depressing. I hope you have a relationship with someone else.
Reply:So, it's an open relationship? He has other outlets for sex? Do you?
Reply:And someone said women think about sex as much as we men do, I admire you for lasting this much but in my opinion you never really forgave him so it would have been better that you separated.
Reply:find the love and affection that your husbnd is not givin to you some where else then
Reply:very strange arrangement. I guess it boils down to... are you happy? If so then who cares the arrangement. Are there other sexual partners? I don't see how a person can just give up sex for that long without getting it from someone else.
Reply:if your happy in a non sexual relationship then stay in it you are not obliged to engage in sexual activity just because you are married. in case your wondering i am a man from scotland
Reply:I think neither of you are getting what you want and you are wasting your time
Reply:Well your using him, but he is giving you permission, and I guess anything between consenting adults is fine... Wouldn't suit me, I'd rather be on my own and be able to dream about meeting the right person. but thats me, and your you.
Reply:He's gettin mud for his turtle somewhere. I'm a bettin...
Reply:WOW!! what a life.
Reply:What your question, basically. I feel like reading some story, which I dont like as you are being unfair to your husband.
Reply:I think that everyone's relationship is different. If you're happy and he's happy, it's not our business.


However, he's been with you since 1982. That's a long time to hold a grudge for a 5-year mistake earlier on.


You're no longer fertile, I'm guessing, why not go for it?
Reply:move on or get a sancho
Reply:I don't want to break your bubble... but please try to find the true motive behind your husband's cooperation.





If he has been graced with true love... Good for you. If it is anything other than that... God bless you.
Reply:my answer is: why fix it when its not broke? if youre already happy getting support and security from him, and hes also happy just being with you then why the trouble to ask? unless you already want to get some.
Reply:First I don't think I would trust a man if he left me alone with his 2 kids for that ling and then wanted to come back. As for the other do you both never plan to have ANY sex again? if you are both not going outside of your marriage for sex it might be hard on both of you in the long run, and if you expect him not to EVER have sex again that might be asking too much of a man and he might cheat on you. I don't know much about your arrangement but that is what I would worry about.
Reply:if you no longer have feelings for him, then maybe you shouldn't have sex w/ him anyway.
Reply:If the two of you have a healthy relationship, why question it? If you DO want sex, just tell him.
Reply:you should be in a same sexes


I really need feedback..you may enjoy this in the meantime..could you help?

The pinstriped clouds of night sky above


change patterns in black and grey


with the rhythm of honey dew drips


pitter pattering on my window sills





In the relaxing transits of their forms


down fall my eyes


And off I drift to the valleys


of magic parades of dreams.





There i see you froth


as the nectar that waters lotus ponds.


And in the warm embrace of your splash,


I bloom as their Lilly blossoms.





You tease me as soft snowflakes


in your playful little games;


melt upon my leafy cheeks,


touching me ,not quite.





As your butterfly kisses open my eyes


at the golden break of day


I see the same old sight of pinstriped clouds


through my eyes' interlaced lashes.





In their changing form across the morning sky;


now patterns in black and gold,


I see beautiful notes of your love letters


in our very own secret scripts

I really need feedback..you may enjoy this in the meantime..could you help?
Sound, Meta and a great topic,





truly an enjoyable read my friend *^_^*
Reply:its very nice!





The the most important question you need to ask is:


do I enjoy writing poetry? Does it make me happy? if your answer is "yes" than its the most perfect poem in the world!
Reply:The way you bring back the pinstriped clouds but show hours have passed is effective.


There are some phrases to be savoured and some mush.


Keep at it.
Reply:Tacky
Reply:Write on
Reply:...glitter of hope after the rain.... meaningful...:)


How to show a guy i really like him? Make him my boyfriend?

I like this one guy and we have a class together and when i c him i go up to talk to him and he talks to me too. Sometimes i sit with him at lunch. He always gives me a hug. He flirts with me too and touches me (not in a creepy way) and like holds my hand sometimes. he will act like he likes me but them he wont reply too my txt msgs sometimes? its really confusing me. is there like some kind of move that will let him no i like him? im on break and i wana ask him if he wants to c a movie or something. does he like me or just playin?

How to show a guy i really like him? Make him my boyfriend?
I think that he likes you. He wouldn't be doing all of that if he didn't. He probably isn't answering your text messages because he is busy or because he doesn't know what to say or he doesn't have text. It could be a number of reasons. If you like the guy I think that you should tell him, because he might not know this. Guys aren't the best when it comes to picking up signs.





♠ Hope this helps ♠
Reply:You wont know if he likes you or not unless you ask him dont act so shy.Cause no one never knows the real answer so you cant ask us if we think he likes you or if he is just playing with you.You have to ask him.Dont be shy please!
Reply:Girls always think us guys are really complicated but we're not!! First just ask him to go hangout with you and then tell him how you feel.
Reply:ask him to hang out.. guys are simple


most times.. its a yes or no thing


if he likes you and says yes.. your in girl:)


What happpened?

You guys probably remember me about this guy whom I think likes me and I kinda like him as well but right now, everything just seems weird.





The last time I wrote something things that happen during the holidays where


He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing


He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play


Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation


He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.


We had a lot of fun together.





Even when college reopens and we are both busy with schoolwork, we still hang out by going out and movies but still as friends because he didn't tell me he liked me yet and so I got a bit frustrated and wanted to forget him. Just as I wanted to, he suddenly said he wanted to hang out with me about 2 weeks ago and will make plans.

What happpened?
No telling, really never had much of a friendship better yet a romantic bond, so its sort of all par for the course. Friendship is more about acknowledging the faults so you can work on them, romance avoids this, so your both were at an odds on both since one would reflect to heavily on the other. To be honest, I think he cared alot but just didn't have the guts because you guys didn't know each other TRULY enough to ask. A catch-22 in other words. Trying to be friends, but at the sametime trying hard to be romantic, distroied the friendship, the honesty broke down.....

flower delivery

I'm 22 and work with this guy. He has a gf, but he's always flirting and coming onto me, what should I do?

We've only worked for about a month together. We always flirt, make sexual innuendos and he's always touching me (not inappropriately, but always leaning against me, touching my hands, arms). He has been with his gf for 3 yrs, but one of the guys I worked with was talking to him about if they're going to get engaged and I overheard him say probably not, I don't think I want to marry her, I want to get married someday but I don't think to her (he's in his mid-20s). Last night he invited me and my friend out with two of his friends. He didn't mind when we touched, he hugged me, made me feel his butt, and continued with the sexual innuendos, and made references to my boobs (which I'm fine with bc I was being just as bad back to him). I don't think they're relationship is going well, everyone that knows his girlfriend is like she's a ***** and doesn't treat him well. I wouldn't do anything with him while he's still with her, but do you think that maybe he could like me?

I'm 22 and work with this guy. He has a gf, but he's always flirting and coming onto me, what should I do?
Tell em straight up...





You leave that ***** and get with me honey cuz you ain't gonna get nothing bettah than this...





haha I bet it would work.
Reply:Actually, you are being molested at work, and this creep is not worth it. He's not flirting, it's called sexual harrassment.


You need to go to your boss right away and report his behavior - make sure this gets down on paper and in his file.


You also need to clean up your act. This will not look good for you at work. Giving it back to him is a defense that women commonly use, but it always looks worse for them, than for him (guys always get a pass in the sexual arena). It's not fair, but it is really important to know that, and keep your act on the up and up.


But it is fine to go to your boss and say this guy is doing x, y and z. I haven't handled it well, but it makes me uncomfortable and I want it to stop.


Frankly, I don't know why I'm telling you this, since you probably won't listen - you evidently think a guy who has a girlfriend, is obviously on the hunt, and treats the women he works with like trash is attractive. But still, that's my recommendation.


Oh, and DON'T blame his girlfriend. If you had a boyfriend who treated you like that, you'd be bitchy, too. At the rate you're going, you will have her life in short order anyway. When it happens to you, remember that you liked it when it wasn't happening to you.
Reply:If he is going to cheat on her with you, then he is going to cheat on you with someone else. What difference does it make if he likes you and wants to date you. Even if you win him over from his current girlfriend, you won't be able to trust him. And that's what good relationships are built on - trust.
Reply:Oral!
Reply:sure, he could like you... but as you said, he still has a GF.





He surely wants to get into your pants because of all the sexual references and touching.





He might not want to jump ship with his GF until he has his foot in another boat, so he's testing the waters with you.





Just ask him what his intentions are because you know he has a GF.
Reply:tell him to back off from you or you will tell his gf that hes cheating on her. or just immediately tell the gf.
Reply:Be real with him for a mintue. Just ask him straight up. Say this if you need to. "Hey, dude, let me ask you something... all this flirting that we do... it has to mean something.... are you having trouble with your gf? Let's talk about it and just be serious for a minute."


Does he like me back?

ok so i started to like my best friend n he is always flirting with me. he has a tendency to pull me onto his lap if hes sitting down we r always wrestling n he hugs me all the time but he doesn't hug many other people. ik this is weird but we sleep over eachothers houses all the time n we have some of the greatest times together. hes always touching me...not in a perverted way but like linking arms with me he sits on me bc he thinks its funny and hes always holding me in some way but idk if he likes me or if thats just the way he acts around me

Does he like me back?
Obviously, he likes you very much. Time to bring it on a higher level.
Reply:WOW that sounds exactly how me and my best friend are... and I like her A LOT!!!! But, I'm like that with a lot of girls too but everyone says it's really obvious that I like her a lot... But that's me!!!.....


Maybe have someone who's both of your friends find out for you... but I'll tell you to be careful with that... I did that and it back fired


I am clueless to what signals he is sending me?

I have never been in a relationship before even though I'm already 21 so I am pretty clueless on what's going on. I have known this guy for probably 2-3 months and we met through one of our elective classes. We study in the same university but are from different majors. I went out with him during the holidays and during the holidays, this is what he does:





- He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing


- He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play


- Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation


- He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.





I am having mixed reactions on whether he likes me or not. At first I thought he does but then now that school has started, I have seen him less and he doesn't text me that much anymore but we do talk on MSN at night. He showed me his timetable and it was pretty packed.





I'm a chinese girl so I can be quite conservative at times. I was treating him as a friend but recently I realised that I am missing him a bit. Do I like him? And does he like me?

I am clueless to what signals he is sending me?
He likes you. You guys should meet each other more. He may have other things that he spends time on but he still allocate time to speak to you so i don't see why you are concerning. It's not like he doesn't contact you for a long time, doesn't text you or enter MSN you know.
Reply:i don't know whether you like him or not, you are missing him maybe because he used to text you much regularly and now suddenly it went lesser.. but sounds like he is really busy and he likes you... maybe you should give him time for himself and figure out whether you really want him as more than a friend.. in the meantime, don't do anything yet, this is the time for testing the water :-) you better concentrate on your study...good luck
Reply:he like you a lot but probably he stop texting you because he is busy but if you really like him don't stop talking to him but yeah girl he like you
Reply:He was sending you messages that he liked you, but he may have become discouraged. Try taking a little initiative with him. For example, ask him why he hasn't text you in a while, maybe even by texting him. He made the first move. Now it's your turn.
Reply:He likes you, but probably got discouraged by your lack of reciprocation because you're conservative. He probably figured you didn't like him back... give it a shot girl! Relationships are fun and you're only young once, so go out with him!!!!


Does he like me?

I have known this guy for not long probably a few months. I haven't been in a relationship before so I don't know what all these shows. It happened during the holidays.





- He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing


- He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play


- Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation


- He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.

Does he like me?
It does seem he has some sort of affection towards you. altho i dont know who this guy is for all i know he may be a creep but assuming he isnt, he might also be as inexperienced as you so try to draw out some clues or flat out ask him if he feels that way
Reply:sounds like he might like you...
Reply:Yup, he's hooked. Shows constant interest. Is protective and/or possessive.
Reply:Yes he does like u and is trying to let u know in his own way,if u like the attention he is offering then go for it otherwise let him know your not really interested..Cheers ♥
Reply:yeah its obvious he likes you dont let that slip away
Reply:sounds like he's been asking you on a date...go for it!
Reply:duh
Reply:LOLZ, yea he dose, i reckon anyway, but let him make the first move, don't do it yourself.
Reply:Oh so sweet... he sounds like a nice guy.


YES, he is really into you...
Reply:ya sure.....he is interested on u..
Reply:Yes he likes you.
Reply:hes really in to you. go for it!


good luck :]
Reply:R u thick or something? Come on to him, and find out!

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OMG! Is my cousin a lesbian?!?

okay.. well for starters i am 15 and my cousin is only about.. 4 months older than me. for the past year she has gotten more.. clingy and touchy but she is ALSO close to my sister. they get along more whereas she annoys the **** out of me. although, my sis tells me that there is no physical contact on my cousin's part. soooo that leaves me with the most embarassing question: is she a lesbian?





sometimes she comes over to our house (we live like.. 2 hours away) and we spend family time together but she's always touching me (not pervertedly) but.. hugging all the time and i think.. once when we were watching a movie, she grazed the inside of my thigh with her hand. i was like: WTF?! and now i feel uncomfortable around her. plus she's always trying to hold my hand..





i'd rather not ask her about it cause.. i just don't! your help with be appreciated !!

OMG! Is my cousin a lesbian?!?
Get your mind out of the "gutter" !!





If you have any decency and integrity, you would ask her privately and respctfully ... after all, she is your cousin (same blood-line), and she might be there in the future to save your pathetic hide (maybe when no one else will).





Shame on you.
Reply:She might just be more comfortable with touching than you are - some people are just like that.





Besides, so what if she is a lesbian? If she is, who cares? Tell her you're not, end of story.





Whether she's gay or not, All you have to do is tell her you're not the "touchy feely" type and she'll back off. Don't say it in a hurtful way, though.. she might have a lot going on in her head that she's working through and you should be gentle when you tell her.
Reply:umm i dont think so ... thats not how WE act ... she might just want to be like you thats all .. if you feel uncomfortable ask her about it .. good luck
Reply:Test her out..


Next time she touches you, touch her right back.


Rub your hand on her leg and breast and see how she responds....


If she suddenly seems to like it, and starts feeling you up, step back and let her know that you dislike her coming close to you at all, but if she seems surprised at your behavior, tell her that you put her to the test to see if she was a lesbian...


Then agree never to touch again
Reply:i don't think so...i think u're just thinking that because you don't really like her that much...but yeah, i can see why the thigh thinggy would freak you out


why don't you just ask her? she's ur cousin right


Ok.this guy is awkward.?

ok.this guy likes flirts with me and touches me ,not in bad places but rly close to my boobs.but then he will be rude and mean to me?whats his deal?

Ok.this guy is awkward.?
His deal is that he's a jerk, he feels no respect for you, but the sad thing is that he behaves in such a vulgar way, and you allow him to fondle you and verbally abuse you. Where did you leave your self-respect, young lady?: wake up !
Reply:SEXUAL HARRASSMENT!
Reply:Sounds like a pot smoker.
Reply:he sound slike bad news... stay away from him...
Reply:guys like that, u wanna say away from
Reply:break his fingers wen his hand comes in contact
Reply:he's probably trying too hard or just wants some action.
Reply:stay away from the bad boys.


there are these people at my school who tried to touch my boobs!
Reply:He's just feeling you out. (no pun intended) He just trying to see what kind of guy you like. Some like the sweet guy(being close) Some like the bad boy(being mean) If you like him, send him hints as to what you LIKE in a guy.
Reply:I guess that means he likes you. Some guys just can't figure out how to act on it therefore awkwardness!
Reply:If he's like that after words then just tell him to back off.
Reply:STAY away from him! lol.


i'm telling you.


in my freshman yr of high school i went on a "date" with a guy that i barely knew to a football game ....at school he seemed quiet and nice but at the football game he was all touchy, he would put his arm around me right by my butt. and he was so awkward..But i didnt really do anything about it i actually ended up going out with him. and i regret it a lot. He was a freak. i had to learn to hard way..just stay away from him.
Reply:He's a guy. lol. best answer. teehee. When is he mean 2 you?! Like if you say something or do something or just at random times?!
Reply:he's just wierd
Reply:I think you will be happiest with a guy that understands proper boundaries and keeps his hands to himself.
Reply:hug him and see what he does ...lol





he wants to have sex with u ~~
Reply:aahh hes shy!
Reply:ah do not let him near you.


****does he like me or am i just being a freak**?

ok so i know your probably tired of these questions but i really like this guy! Im in 8th grade and theres this guy we talk constantly text and call eachother every now and then he always hugs me and *touches* me not in that weird way just being playful. We can tell each other every thing and anything about each other the only problem is he pays a lot of attention to other girls too so how do i know for sure?

****does he like me or am i just being a freak**?
I'm in 9th grade and the best thing to do would be to ask him if he likes you or ever thinks of you in that way? If he answers yes you know where to go from there. Now if he says no you just say "Oh I was just curious" playing it off like you dont care. I know this may be a little hard so, first make sure he's worth changing your friendship over because if he does sense that you like him, your friendship could change greatly so choose wisely.
Reply:I'm in7th and i have the same problem. Ask him out.
Reply:How do you know for sure if you like him or if he likes you? You definetly like him but he likes more girls than just you. Give it some time to grow. If he's still paying attention to other girls the way he's paying attention to you then he doesn't want to commit. Don't worry, at your age you have plenty of time.


Can you get pregnant from pre-***?

my guy and me were fooling around and I wanted to know if it was possible to get pregnant if he had touched himself and then touched me. not fingering but just light touching/massaging in the area. i'm pretty sure his thing was nowhere near me but am still really worried. if he had wiped his hand from the precum and then touched me is it still dangerous?... any help would be gr88... tx

Can you get pregnant from pre-***?
Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre-*** (a slang word for the


drops of pre-ejaculatory secretions that come out of the penis in


response to sexual stimulation) as this may contain sperms remaining


in the ducts following a previous ejaculation.





However, for pregnancy to occur in such a situation, both the man and women should be highly fertile and the exposure of that fluid to the female genitalia should occur close to the ovulation day. You may wish to know that there are recorded cases of women who became pregnant this way.





If you have had a sexual encounter which you suspect could lead to pregnancy, get tested as soon after 7 days from the ovulation day, as possible.


http://www.sexualcounselling.com/Pregcon...
Reply:Very unlikely, but possible.
Reply:i think u need to read up on sex ed. before u open ur legs again if u dont want kids or std's
Reply:Very very rare. Sperm dies very quickly after it was exposed to air. And if he didn't finger you, then the sperm would have had to swim hard and far. So very doubtful.
Reply:unlikely but def. possible
Reply:well u can get pregnant from pre*** but i don't think you can if you are positive he COMPLETELY cleaned off his hands first....
Reply:The odds would be really small in the instance you describe. VERY unlikely.

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Ughh, does he like me?

so there's this guy.


we've gone out before.


and we are reallllllllly good friends.


he's my bestfriend and everything....


but EVERYONE thinks he likes me as more than a friend..


because the way he acts towards me..


and he doesn't act like it to anyone else....


like he's always messing with me...


critisizing my boyfriend, telling me to break up with him.


rubbing my arm.


always sitting really close to me....


always touching me...[not in a wrong way]


always saying he loves me...


always wanting something of mine with him at all times...





does he like me?

Ughh, does he like me?
I think he likes u..and he just act sometimes like he's just playing around...maybe he's too scared to get in a realationship and end up hurt....so he probably thinks its better to stay*friends* even though he probably love su alot!
Reply:ya think? yessss!
Reply:Umm..YES..I think he likes you
Reply:Its safe to say yep! LOL
Reply:of course he likes you, take advantage of it! if u like him i mean.
Reply:duh! he likes u! he wants u again!
Reply:umm yes without a doubt, if you think you might like him you should act upon that before he thinks there is nothing he can do anymore. but from what you just described he likes you a lot
Reply:I'd say yes


Friends NO MORE!?

well, there is this girl that i really don't want to b friends with because she has a mean, nasty personality and shes jealous of me alot and makes me feel weird by touching me (not in those places) so how should i tell her in a FAIRLY nice way that i don't want to b her friend?

Friends NO MORE!?
Poor girl. Tell her, that you liked her as friends before, but shes changed (even if thats a lie and she was always mean) and tell her that you don't like the changes. She'll probably be conviced that she used to be nice and make an effort to bekinder. If not, she'll get mad at you and wait for you to apoligize. If you don't, friendship OVER!!





Hope it helped!
Reply:no prob :) glad to help Report It

Reply:say to her "i tried bein nice about it now leave me the f*** alone, i dont wanna be your friend anymore
Reply:Just tell her say i really tried to be your friend but its not going to work out. Its just some of the things you do make me feel uncomfertable. She will take it wrong because you guys arnt friends anymore but she will get over it. There really isnt a nice way to say you dont want to be friends with someone anymore.


What now? After 15 yrs married...then 2 years separated...we've gotten back together. He lied to me...?

He admitted that before we separated he let my step-sister put her hands in his pants while her husband and I were right there ... I did not know it at the time. When deciding to try our marriage again I told him that if he had slept with her I didn't think I could ever be with him again...(we all know what a skank she is). He totally denied ever having sex with her and we got back together. Been back together for 6 months...have 4 kids who live with us. During a conversation, he let slip that he was only with her AFTER we separated (oop's)! I knew about hands in pants already...when questioned further he admitted that he had had sex with her numerous times during our separation. Now I'm disgusted ... can't stand the thought of him touching me...not sure if I can love him again. As it stands I've told him I will need some time to deal with this...he thinks it is so unfair that I don't want to have sex with him! I'm just trying to be civil at this point. What should he expect?

What now? After 15 yrs married...then 2 years separated...we've gotten back together. He lied to me...?
It's odd to me how people expect separations to produce positive effects. Basically, a separation means that if one member of a marriage has poor impulse control, who gains structure by the presence of a spouse, he suddenly loses that structure. In other words, a person with poor impulse control is going to behave worse without his spouse around than he will with her present. Before your husband and you separated, he had already demonstrated poor impulse control even with you nearby (hands down pants). Despite knowing this, you agreed to a separation anyway.





I don't think you should be surprised. What he should suspect is that you will behave toward him in a manner consistent with who you know him to be. You knew before you separated that he didn't like restraining himself. So, he expects you to treat him as though you knew exactly what you should have known.
Reply:He may not think it's fair, but you feel what you feel. My guess is that you feel disgusted and you've lost respect for him. Marriage counseling might help you decide if it's something you can get over and rebuild trust.


If my crush said this.......does he not like me then?

He makes me laugh, he wants me to sit next to him. He sometimes sits next to me in mostly every school class we have together. He talks to me a lot every day. He Touches me not innapproiatly just like high fives.


He doesn't call me. that is about it!


But when we walked out of school together one of my friends was in the hallway and she said "OMG! Your boyfriend and girlfriend". and he said : "Ewwww, No!!!!" Does that mean he doesn't like me. or he was just shy and didn't want anyone to know that he was into me???

If my crush said this.......does he not like me then?
Shy and private, definately! Call him sometime and invite him somewhere- I'll be he goes. Probably fears teasing from his peers...
Reply:On one hand, it sounds like he was telling the truth that you are not bf %26amp; g, but he seems like kind of a jerk if he said "ewww". Being shy and not letting anyone know that he is into you is very lame. Hard to tell though. Maybe he was joking. I'd go back for further confirmation.
Reply:Maybe he thinks that you guys are just friends.Or it's possible that he is shy.
Reply:it could mean either. but, i think he just wants 2 b friends now. and if u wait, friendship could grow and he could start getting feelings 4 u. Good Luck!!!





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Reply:just ask him
Reply:He was either joking and trying to be funny or he see's you as just a friend; give him a big smooch in private and see what he does; DON'T DO IT IN PUBLIC, BECAUSE IT WILL EMBARRASS HIM.
Reply:He is not ready for a GIRLFRIEND. Just be his friend. Later on his feelings will change.
Reply:It depends... he could be just joking around saying that. Maybe ur just too good of friends or u might have a chance.
Reply:I think it depends lots on your age. If you are up in your teens, I would hope he is not that immature. MOST of the time, when a guy is into you, you will know it. He won't keep you guessing. Whether or not he is extremely shy-only you know that. My short answer is he probably doesn't like (LIKE) you. And if he does, but is just too shy, move on sister.....


Find someone who is into you and is not afraid to let you, or anyone else know it!!
Reply:If he did not like you he would not be spending all that time in class with you...





Unless you're doing his work?





Most likely he feeling uncomfortable due to lack of confidence and is way embarassed about his feelings for you. Without knowing how to go about it all...





So I'll go with the shy thingy!
Reply:Shy??
Reply:Depends on how old you are. If you're both 25, I'd say move on. If you're both 13, he's just shy and stupid like all 13 yo boys.
Reply:maybe shy or MAY be he wants to keep the realtion very much personal, MAYBE
Reply:Come out ahead, and ask in your privacy - when you two are alone. Yes, he could be shy. So, respect that.





Sometimes, boys are like that. They don't want to admit it.





After you find out, be prepared for an answer either way. If the answer is not what you expected, move on. Difficult, I know - but hey at least you now know for sure.
Reply:Guys are so retarted half the time.. lol.. I remember middle school, oh those were the days.. Just kidding... Actually, to me, it seems like he is just wanting to be "buddies" with you right now. But, in all actuality, it might just be on his mind now that someone has brought it to his attention like that. He was put on the spot, so it probably embarrassed him. He'll get over being shy, it's an awkward time for everyone!
Reply:I think he likes you as a friend. I have a lot of "boyfriends". FRIENDS. Lol. I'm a teen, and almost all my guy friends scream eww when people proclaim "Boyfriend, girlfriend! How cute!" Believe me, he's acting just like my friend Greg.





He likes you.
Reply:At this point in time he has no wish to be your boyfriend. Maybe another 6 months may change that, it may not. He could just see you as a friend.
Reply:idk im guessing that he was a little embarrassed. he probably didnt want his guy friends to know that he likes a girl

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I felt a puffer fish on my legs is this bad?

It only touched me not bite me.

I felt a puffer fish on my legs is this bad?
That depends on where you were. If you were in HIS home, the ocean, no problem. If he was falling off a sushi plate, blowfish can be poisonous.
Reply:It's only bad if it bite or peed on you
Reply:Nope.
Reply:No, you'll be OK.


Why????????????????????

So yesterday I went to a party with a bunch of friends and exboyfriend(DIDN'T WANT HIM TO GO).2 of my guy friends were flirting heavily with me,we got into a water fight,one threw ice down the front of my shirt,the other kept poking me,flirting,and touching me not at all inapproiately.Also on grabbed me around my waist usually I'm not that foward with guys and let them do stuff like that.wHy was my ex bf such a jerk all night after he got to see alot of this between me and my guy friends,I actually enjoyed throwing it in his face after the party I was at where he was all over some girl.These guys are really hot,ones a minor player.What do you think of the way these guys were acting ?wHy was my ex bf such a jerk.What do you think of the way these guys were acting?

Why????????????????????
Well, it seems to bug you that he was at a party and "was all over some girl," so it's hardly surprising that you letting guys grab and touch you bothered him. "Ex" doesn't magically erase any and all feelings you had for each other. Time does that.





The guys -- well, you say one is a "minor player." It's not uncommon for guys, or girls, to flirt outrageously with someone, kind of egging each other on. What one does leads another to escalate things - they're kind of showing off for each other, playing a game with you as the football. Harmless, so long as it doesn't go too far. At the point where you're uncomfortable, or wondering if it's going to far, it is. A guy who's really interested in you isn't doing it for show, or to entertain himself, and definitely not with his friends - the relationship is between him and you, if there's anything serious going on.
Reply:Your ex boyfriend is still in love with you. But he's too much of a macho jerk to tell you how he feels. So, instead, he acts like a baby. Good thing you dumped the loser. If you want a real man write me.
Reply:Your ex is still attractrd 2wards U. If you r too interested, then approach and have fun.
Reply:Most guys are like that when they party hold on to the memory but honestly don't hope for anything to come out of it besides a good night that left you feeling pretty special you will notice that, that's all really guys want when they are out partying. And girls for that fact they want to feel special and wanted, I know I do and I'm not gonna lie. Everyone wants attention and then later or when they are out with there friends they talk about the hot chick they were all over Saturday night for the most part it's harmless until rumor start. Your ex was just jealous, i would say rub it in his face every chance you get!!
Reply:Guys were being guys, and your ex was being an ex.
Reply:because they like to do like that.
Reply:The way that those guys were acting are pretty immature. They probably just want a piece of your ***. They have no respect for themselves. As for your boyfriend, he probably still likes you and when he saw you with those guys, he probably got really jealous.
Reply:Sweet heart, if you think everything is cool, far be it from me to try and tell you any different.





Looks like you got him payed back for pawing some female. Just think, now it's his turn to pay you back. I bet your next date is going to be a real three ring circus.





Sounds like your dates are nothing short of punishment depending on who's turn it is to do the paying back.





The actions of your other male friends closely resemble the antics of adolescent chimpanzees in heat.





Just out of curiosity, do you know any normal guys? If not, a change of scenery would do you some good.





I started not to answer your question, but I can always use the 2 points.





Did not intend to be rude to you, just telling it like it is.





Darryl S.
Reply:most guys that respects girls...don't touch them that way...and you letting them, just told them..."that you might get lucky"...and as for your boy friend being pissed...i would be too , if my ex..was letting guys feel all over them...at a party....the stupidiest thing a girl can do is let a guy put something down her shirt...you just showed him what you were made of...he knows so i wont tell ya...
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