Monday, November 16, 2009

I am clueless to what signals he is sending me?

I have never been in a relationship before even though I'm already 21 so I am pretty clueless on what's going on. I have known this guy for probably 2-3 months and we met through one of our elective classes. We study in the same university but are from different majors. I went out with him during the holidays and during the holidays, this is what he does:





- He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing


- He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play


- Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation


- He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.





I am having mixed reactions on whether he likes me or not. At first I thought he does but then now that school has started, I have seen him less and he doesn't text me that much anymore but we do talk on MSN at night. He showed me his timetable and it was pretty packed.





I'm a chinese girl so I can be quite conservative at times. I was treating him as a friend but recently I realised that I am missing him a bit. Do I like him? And does he like me?

I am clueless to what signals he is sending me?
He likes you. You guys should meet each other more. He may have other things that he spends time on but he still allocate time to speak to you so i don't see why you are concerning. It's not like he doesn't contact you for a long time, doesn't text you or enter MSN you know.
Reply:i don't know whether you like him or not, you are missing him maybe because he used to text you much regularly and now suddenly it went lesser.. but sounds like he is really busy and he likes you... maybe you should give him time for himself and figure out whether you really want him as more than a friend.. in the meantime, don't do anything yet, this is the time for testing the water :-) you better concentrate on your study...good luck
Reply:he like you a lot but probably he stop texting you because he is busy but if you really like him don't stop talking to him but yeah girl he like you
Reply:He was sending you messages that he liked you, but he may have become discouraged. Try taking a little initiative with him. For example, ask him why he hasn't text you in a while, maybe even by texting him. He made the first move. Now it's your turn.
Reply:He likes you, but probably got discouraged by your lack of reciprocation because you're conservative. He probably figured you didn't like him back... give it a shot girl! Relationships are fun and you're only young once, so go out with him!!!!


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