How to get him to be more verbally and physically loving?

Ok my boyfriend of like a week is a shy guy but he talks to me at school but even more online. Before we were going out he wouldn't tell me he loved me, but he would call my beautiful and gorgous he never did physically touch me not in a perv way i mean just put an arm around me or something but we wernt going out so that made since. But now that were going out he has only put I %26lt;3 u sam once on his yahoo status mine always says i love *his name* and if i say something about some1 saying i was pretty then he normally mentions something, he also never tells me he loves me at school and doesnt physically touch me like in a b/f g/f way idk if its cuz he is shy or what but he has mentioned before in a round about way wanting to kiss me but is to scared how can i make him be more outlwardly loving i did says sometimes u dont ct like it and he said i shouldnt have 2 act he does tell me he loves me though mostly online and i kno he does i just want him 2 show it a bit more so what can i do?

How to get him to be more verbally and physically loving?
Some guys are just better at showing their emotions than others.. It doesn't mean he doesn't feel these things for you, he's probably just scared of admitting them!!





Admitting feelings for someone leaves you completely open to hurt.. And whilst some people can just do this naturally, others have trouble opening up. Me and my boyfriend are both not very open and lovey dovey, but thats because i think we're both scared of getting hurt (even though we know we both feel the same!!), and a bit scared of what kind of reaction we're going to get...





Your boyfriend clearly has trouble opening up, and i know it can be frustrating with you seemingly putting all the effort in and not knowing how he feels... I'd suggest telling him to write you a letter about how he feels, and taking a risk on telling you how he honestly feels, as you love him and really need to know...





Hope that helps, honey!!
Reply:just go strait up to him and tell him. That personally is the best way





good luck : )
Reply:You guys are obviously way too young for all this. Seriously, you are harping on the poor guy ater dating for a WEEK! Do you realize that ADULTS can date for MONTHS before telling each other they love each other? Love is a STRONG word. And a physical relationship is something that is a big step, especially for young kids like yourself.








If you want to kiss him, have you ever thought of initiating that yourself? Just lean over and kiss him...
Reply:well, u can try discussing with his close friends 1st.. tt u have this problem in mind.. I suppose his close friend will actually drop him the hint..
Reply:You can encourage him. Do away with the online chit-chat as too much of anything is bad. You do want him to open up to you in reality right? If you can't do this, atleast do away with the status.





If he's hinted at wanting to snog you and even you want to... then why not make a move on him? In case you aren't bold enough, try this - After every date or meeting, kiss him on the cheek before saying goodbye. With each passing kiss, get closer to his lips. Eventually he'll reach the point of no return. I got this tip off a girl's site. Log on then. Hope them and me did help you.
Reply:Haha, I have a shy guy too. I made the first move, and talked with him a lot so he felt more comfortable with me. I often still have to initiate the lovie dovie stuff, but once in a while he'll surprise me by holding my hand in public, he always tells me he loves me though. Some people are just raised where public affection may not be very appropriate, and others need to get a room. Just initiate little sweet things, but talk with him so you don't cross his comfort zone.
Reply:A week is not a long enough time to be dating to even feel even remotely comfortable enough to say 'I love you,' and mean it or even touch you in a way that you want to be. The fact is, it takes time. You still need to feel each other out and see if he really cares for you in the way you want or even if YOU care for him in that way. Right now, it's WAY TOO SOON to tell.





Like someone said, love is a dangerously strong word. If you don't mean it or don't feel it, then don't say it. He probably does not love you... well he can't if it's only been a week and you seem more infatuated with him then anything. Like someone else said, adults can date for months before saying I love you. It took a year before my boyfriend *now husband* and I felt that we TRULY were in love and that it wasn't just a feeling of infatuation. You can't love someone in a short amount of time.

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