Thursday, November 12, 2009

Stupid Qustions. No Friends.?

Hi


I am generally an introvert. In the past I never really had any friends (no one to hang out with after class or share feelings with), but I just used to say 'hi' 'bye' and tag along.


Now, I'm becoming more extroverted, and am really opening up (im in university now). I am a very friendly guy. When I meet new people, all goes well, until they ask stuff like "what do you do in your spare time" and then "dont you have any friends?"


I tell them "not really". then they'll be like "you're kidding/oh come on whats wrong with you?/not even one?" Then I might say "well i guess i have a few but i'm not close to anyone". Then some might even bother to ask who they are or how many. Most of the people then just stop talking, and start all the fake smiles and touch-me-not behaviour.


Then I dont know what to say. I don't know what to do. It seems this problem will never be solved until I really find myself a trustworthy group of friends. I get this problem where ever i go-classes, clubs etc.

Stupid Qustions. No Friends.?
i have the same problem. i dont really understand people my age. what i do is just pretend im with it. if i end up talking with someone and they ask if i have friends, i just say "yeah, i do." and then change the subject casually, kinda like pause for three or four seconds and then change the subject to, "what classes are you taking?" or "seen any good movies?"





good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:In that kind of conversation play it like you don't want friends unless they are cool enough to hang around you and that is so rare you currently don't know anyone who qualifies. Then those people will feel the need to try and prove they are worthy. bam friends
Reply:so when they ask change the subject

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