Is something wrong with me. I've been in a couple of bad relationships and now I feel that I never want to get

married or have kids. I don't even like to date anymore because after a few dates and the guy starts to like me and I'll start to like him as a friend and he tries to give me a hug or a kiss on the cheek I cringe and pull away. This has been happening with anyone I've dated recently. I don't think I'm a lesbian because I'm not attracted to women. I just can't let any man touch me not even for a hug without me feeling uncomfortable. I don't have the desire to get married and have kids anymore. I'm 23 years old. What is wrong with me?

Is something wrong with me. I've been in a couple of bad relationships and now I feel that I never want to get
You sound a bit skitish to me. No worries we've all been down that road and the good news is, it does get better. Meanwhile do things that you enjoy doing, you know things that give you perks. When ever I felt down during those hard times and it's a thing I still do, I always looked for perks. No one in this world has to consort to what society dictates.
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Reply:You just need time on your own.


After my ex dumped me on my 21st and I found out he was sleeping with another woman, I spent a fair few years just doing my own thing and didn't want a guy at all.


From a young age I didn't have any desire either to get married or have kids, never had that biological clock ticking and dreamed of making heaps of money rather than white picket fences, so in the end, whatever direction your life takes should be something that you feel comfortable with, you don't have to follow social expectations. Make yourself happy.


Good luck :)
Reply:Become a feminist, that way you dont have to turn into a lesbian.
Reply:was there any abuse in the past? sometimes that can trigger bad vibes in a dating relationship. don't worry too much about it, but talk to someone if you feel you need to. you are still young, and at least need friendships, if not relationships. i was 23 when i had my first boyfriend, so i know how you feel. don't worry. you'll find the perfect person for you. don't worry about the timing.
Reply:There's nothing wrong with you. I don't want to get married or have kids or even have a boyfriend, and there sure as hell isn't anything wrong with me. You don't need any of those things to be happy. You have every right to live as you see fit. But you need to be absolutely sure that this is indeed how you see fit.
Reply:Just chill and stop dating for a while. Maybe you are scared of commitments and intimacy.





I know I am.
Reply:there's nothing wrong with you, most people today goes after 30 without being married. as for feeling uncomfortable, friendship is one thing you can't trow away, if you talk with your friends let them know about how you feel so they don't think otherwise. they'll understand trust me. but you have to be able to forget about the past and live the present, nobody knows for sure if they'll get hurt again but you have to trust again, even if you do get hurt only thing we have to do is look better at the type of friends we associate with and be careful about our decisions. don't rush with emotions.