My girlfriend told me today that she didn't really feel like touching me. Not just sexually... but at all...

What does this mean? How would you feel if this happened to you?

My girlfriend told me today that she didn't really feel like touching me. Not just sexually... but at all...
I would break up with her


1) consider breaking up with her


2) maybe you have disgusting habits or blow your nose in public, pick your nose, passing of gas.


3) girls who don't hug or hold hands at the last, from experience of 3+ girls, not going anywhere especially if you want that sexually.


4)It's a waste of time for this girl. So what, she wants to be seen in public with you, or you to buy her stuff, and you get no physical stuff back?
Reply:This was supposedly researched but makes no sense. I %26amp; a few others wasted our time putting thought into our answers and giving advice and THIS makes best answer for being well thought out? lol..are you kidding? this is funny Report It

Reply:she wants to save it for someone special (her future husband)
Reply:OUCH!
Reply:She's probably not as comfortable with you as you may think or as she might have told you.


Try asking her why, and if she doesn't have a legit answer, end it. There should be a reason for that.
Reply:Depending on how long you've been going out, she either thinks you're moving too fast, or she's losing interest.





If you've been going out for a short time, slow down..





If you've been going out for a while, it might be best to separate.
Reply:YIKES...thats a red flag
Reply:I would feel very hurt. I would let her go her separate way and give her the space she is telling you she needs. I don't think that this is a good sign!
Reply:She needs to tell you exactly what that means... personally it doesn't sound good but maybe she is just not feeling well or something. Its easy to assume the worst.





I would probably feel alarmed... maybe a bit insecure. I would talk to her more about it to find out though.
Reply:If this happened to me I'd know that I was trying to be with a REALLY wrong person. This means..... take a hike... get lost..
Reply:take a shower!!!
Reply:Pre warning to expect the boot.
Reply:Never happened to me, but I would investigate further. Have you asked her why she feels this way? Can you think of anything that may have happened in the recent past that may have contributed to her feeling this way? That's where I would start: open, honest conversation. If she feels that it is trivial, it may be time to move on if it is really important to you!
Reply:it means your going to fast and you need to wait. remember that if u went on only 1-5 dates, i wouldn't really consider that a boyfriend or a girlfriend. if it happened to me, then i know its to fast. you gotta be patient.
Reply:If you have been sexually active ...this is the cause. Sexual activity prior to a marriage bond may cause contempt.
Reply:Shes Probably Mad at you.Try To Figure out why.
Reply:maybe you did something annoyed her
Reply:I THINK SHE'S A LESBIAN! JUST LEAVE HER. YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME AND MONEY ON HER.
Reply:Well maybe she is uncomfortable touching you and just needs time. If you have been going out for like a month, then just wait %26amp;%26amp; treat her with respect and DONT PUSH IT WITH HER! just a reminder! lol well if a long time then ask her why and start thinking about going your own way aka breakup! GOOD LUCK!
Reply:Is she trying to break up with you? Or has she joined up with a non-touching cult? Yeah, talk to her about this and why.
Reply:umm do something to make her wanna touch u ,, maybe go get a shower ,, lool
Reply:You might want to find out what's going on with her. Usually women feel that way when they have been sexually abused. On the other hand, it could be that she's on her days and just feels that way. If it's the latter one, it will pass. If not, she might need therapy. If it happened to me, i probably tried to find out what's happening to her. And I probably feel helpless if I couldn't help her out.
Reply:You should try to talk to her and find out what is wrong. Are you a new couple or do you have history? Did she used to touch you in all kinds of ways including sexually? or has she always been cold and kind of prudish?


Those answers would help more.





If things were fine and now all of a sudden she no longer wants to touch you in ALL ways, anymore, then it sounds like she wants out of the relationship, may not feel the same anymore, or sorry to say...might be cheating. Maybe it is her hormones? I don't know sweetie, we need more information. Maybe if you can add some details it might help us answer better. I'm sorry for you, that is a terrible thing for her to say, but you didn't say if she meant anymore ever or just today, maybe she is going through something. Please fill more in and we can narrow it down more.
Reply:Flip it around next time she touches you, tell her you dont feel like being touched by her.. Watch her get all pissy goodtimes...
Reply:i think she lost interest. either that or shes mad about something.
Reply:Get away from her.
Reply:It means you either did something really bad or she has found someone else and dosen't have the balls to break up with you! Dump her!
Reply:You didn't ask her why, but you're asking a bunch of strangers on the computer? There's alot wrong with this picture. Talk to her not us.