My bf is concerned that I think he is a sleaze when he touches me. (NOT TRUE.)How do i get him to loosen up??

My bf will touch me and get me really excited but then always apologizes...which is a huge turn off. I know he is just concerned about my feelings, but I have told him time and time again that it is okay. I am paranoid to touch him "down there" or suggest oral sex because I am worried he will reject me or be scandalized. I do not see the body as something to be ashamed of and am willing to wait for him until he is "ready", but I am not entirely sure why he feels "unready". Has anyone ever experienced his insecurity (male or female) ? Please explain what is going through his mind, how I can get him to loosen up, and will he EVER loosen up???

My bf is concerned that I think he is a sleaze when he touches me. (NOT TRUE.)How do i get him to loosen up??
Its sounds like he may never have been with a woman before and is very unsure of himself and is unsure whats appropriate when touching a woman. If you want to try to work out with him - talk to him but don't push if he seems reluctant to talk about - because it could be emabarrassing discussing with you. Next time you two are alone and intimate, take his hand and tell him you want show him where you like being touched (guide his hand with yours). tell him he doesn't have to apologize because you want him touch because it turns you on.
Reply:Slap him across the thighs and ankles repeatedly.





When he complains, say "well, TOUCH ME!!!! I'm ACHING and DYING for your loving hands all over my wanting body. If you won't touch me, I'll just keep slappin' you up!!!!"





Only jokin. Just tell him to relax, and touch him more. He'll soon get into the swing of things
Reply:He willl , do not push it !!!!!
Reply:tequila
Reply:next time your with him go to the restroom and come back out but *** naked tell him if you want me take me if he doesn't hes probably gay %26amp; if he dose then problem solved
Reply:Yes when he gets use to you