I told a guy that I fell for him, he said this, what does it mean?

Well, your email really touched me. Not to sound too trite, but timing has a lot to do with relationships working out, or not. These last few weeks have been quite the learning experience for me. I can't remember the last time I've felt so scared, and it was all related to work nonetheless!! Anyway, I just have not been able to be myself. So the stress, and being way too busy, just made it impossible for me to feel anything.





Also, I want to point out that I do think the same about you that you think about me. But the difference is that I was the one that was not able to give, and you were the one who sensed that about me. So human nature being what it is, that triggers feelings in the person that is not getting the attention, i.e. you. I do wish things would have been different, because I do think you are fantastic in every way. Aaaw, it's hard. And it's made a lot harder by the fact that all the things you know are on my mind. Ugh.


I'll speak with you soon, XO

I told a guy that I fell for him, he said this, what does it mean?
polite way of turning you down
Reply:He's a real dork!
Reply:He really likes you but doubts himself.
Reply:it means that he appreciates you for being honest but he has too much going on to be able to give you anything in a relationship right now so lets just continue to be friends until things are better in our seperate personal lives.





i hope that was a good translation for you
Reply:Two possible ways that I see this:





1) He likes you but finds that he is too occupied with other things and feels that he will be unable to give you what you want





2) Pure rejection. A really nice way of saying it, but the end motive is clear - could even be lying to an extent?





Either way, he wants to stay simply as a friend, nothing more.
Reply:its a clean letter of rejection because there are some things in his life that are getting in the way and he doesn't want to hurt you. But he'll keep in touch.
Reply:That's the weirdest email I've ever read, half of it didn't make sense to me, but maybe that's my own stupidity shining. But I do have to agree, he's just not that into you, move on to someone better!
Reply:he's saying that he isn't ready to accept what you feel for him in return to making a move on you... you need to accept his offer of possible friendship and find another guy who wont be scared to have a woman love him...
Reply:Well, he clearly has something to say, and he is unable to say it. Try getting together over lunch and see if he's able to express himself when you're there in person.
Reply:he sounds like he's talking to a friend and not much more!