Saturday, May 15, 2010

HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! please...?

There is this Sophomore (I am a freshmen) who keeps flirting with me and talking about me when I walk by... He is a total pervert tho!!! He has slept with freshmen before... And he does all sorts of drugs and drinks. I am the perfect little model student. Not a speck of dust on my record. I get this problem where I get REALLY bad butterflies whenever I think about him. I can't keep thinking abouot him but also trying not to think aboiut him because he is such a sicko. HE has touched me (not like REALLY badly, just boobs and stuff like that, and that was on "accident") I want some advice on how to stop thiking about him. GOt any? OR what to do?


ANYTHING?!?!?!





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HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! please...?
I think that by now you know what he wants. He wants to prove a point to his other friends. You are like the pure challenge for him. To keep from thinking about him you just need to know that all he wants to do is use you and then brag about it to his friends afterwards.
Reply:You should go to student services and make a report. This is called sexual harrasment.





As for the thinking about him part...





I'm sure that in some deep down way...the attention from a guy is cool...but this is not appropriate attention.





You should make a report.
Reply:ignore him. you aren't forced to like anyone. ever.


find some other guys that you feel comfortable with. don't try and make him jealous, just hang out with them because you won't feel so awkward.
Reply:ok....this should help you out ....its a site where there are people your age....its not a good idea to go out with such a loser...he will only use you....you don;t need losers in your life....he is bad for you...and you yourself know that....stay away from him...your in love with the idea of being in love with lust....which is good at your age...because it feels good....here is a good site....meet people your age......


http://www.stickam.com/profile/hatchetmi...


have fun and meet people there.....good luck
Reply:Stay as far away from him as possible. He is not good. I know cause my last bf was the same way drinking and drugs he would be on the way to the hosue to get me for a date and never showed up. He will break your heart in the end or you may even end up with a child then by god he will dump you for sure. Stay away.
Reply:I can't believe it, are you serious with this? I actually got the sicko unbalanced vibe from you.
Reply:Tell him where to go. Tell him in front of his boys in the hall that you wouldnt touch him. Tell him his just a sleaze. Dont stand for sexual harassment. Hes the type to leave you with something you dont want on your reputation.
Reply:No one call tell you how to stop thing of him.


If you don't like him, just ignore him.
Reply:You have a thing for the BAD boys...I'd stay away from him before he gets you in trouble.
Reply:It is just a matter of shoving him away.Unless he starts to be too"friendly" or gets annoying to the fact that you are getting uncomfortable, then you should avoid him or notify the authorities.





You should study and put all your mind in studying instead of worrying about him.He will eventually go away from you as there is no reaction from you and stay up to your natural coolness even though he disturbs you.





this is my only advice and don't be stressed about it.Avoid him and he will not bother you.
Reply:this is a phase you are going through, it's the "bad boy" sendrom.. they seem alll sparkly and new with something that would usually be a totall turn off... so why are your attracted to such an interesting fellow.... could it be Hormones?, the Moon?, peer pressure? a dare to be different? probably all of these and 1,000 other reasons.....





what to do... this is actually normal..... and once you mature out you will find out that these guys are probably better left alone.. you know the old saying... you knew I was a snake when you picked me up.... hisssssss..., kind of thing...





It's good to be a perfect model student... don't loose focus over something like this cause you got lots too lose ... if you know what I mean... so ... just remember the emotions are reall and probably left in the mind and not in deed.





How to erase the thoughts.... well.. probably not much you can do about it... welcome to Adolesent years and all their raging hormone's and stuff..
Reply:well i thinkt hat u really need 2 stay away from him. believe me ive been thru this. this 1 guy had a gf and yet he just kept touchin me and stuff and i started 2 like him. but u gotta ignore those feeligns and look 4 some1 thats better. u seem 2 be physically attracted to him, not really emotionaly. find sum1 better.
Reply:You like the bad boys......
Reply:Well it sounds to me like like you like him but not sure of it....any-who if you despise him as much as you say just tell him to ****-off.
Reply:Report him.
Reply:i think that you should try not to get in with those type of guys. you said that he slept with other freshmen with you, this lets you know that he just wants to mess with you too. unless your ok with that you should not try to do anything with him just ignore him. do you want to mess around with him cause if you do then your a perv too. you should just try not to do any of that stuff now your still a freshmen. at least wait after high school. please and if you cant then at least go out with a good guy not that one.
Reply:yeah avoid the asshole every chance you get because if you get involved with a pinhead like that chances are your spotless record will turn extremely messy and in the end you will wind up hurting yourself and the people around you that are so proud of you!AVOID AVOID AVOID at all cost!concentrate on you and dont be lured into his pathetic exsistance! people like that follow the crowd because they are followers and not leaders and the only way they can get attention is to act the fool!they cant think for themselves so they turn to drugs and alcahole to make themselves brave but in reality its just an artificial and temporary solution to their deep problems!dont try to be the one to change him because it is futile!and if he is sexualy harrassing you their are laws to take care of that!so dont lead him on into thinking your even remotely interested and he will eventually leave you alone and in time you will forget the loser ever exsisted!GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!

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