I am really just wandering if he still likes me?

OK, I have been working at this one place as a cashier %26amp; the man upstairs always comes to visit %26amp; hang out with us after he gets off work. Well, we have been flirting %26amp; teasing for a while now. He is always staring at me while I am waiting on customers. He walks me to my car when I leave %26amp; we even stand out there %26amp; talk a little bit. Well, anyway, me %26amp; my friend decided to pay him a visit at his apt. one Saturday night. He seemed very happy we were there %26amp; we were drunk %26amp; I could tell he was a little drunk. Well, that night he was very openly flirting. He told me I was pretty %26amp; constantly kept touching me. Not in a groping way, just arm around me, hand on my back, you know, that sort of thing. Well, everything was fine %26amp; we finally left %26amp; went home. The next work day came %26amp; he come over as usual. But, this time he was a little standoffish. I mean he was staring at me some %26amp; smiled at me too, but he wasn't teasing or acting like he usually does. It was almost like he was a little shy. So, what exactly does this mean? Does he not like me anymore? Also, what can I do to rectify the situation? Thanks for any help.

I am really just wandering if he still likes me?
Ask him out.
Reply:It means that he likes you and is perhaps building up the courage to invite you again only this time alone. I am afraid, however, that his interest in you could be only sexual. Your visit to his place, the flirting etc. has sent out the, ”I am game and want the same.” Message. So it really depends on you and what you want. If you are game and want the same, tell him you enjoyed his company and would love to do it again…he will take it from there. If not just tell him your visit was a mistake, one that you hope won’t happen again.
Reply:yes he does, when u went to his home the reason why he behaved like tht is bcoz he likes you, and why he was on his limit is tht he doesnt know whether u like him r not, he might hav felt u like him after tht night coz u didnt protest to wht he did, guys usually think when women dont object physical contact u r ok with him, dont do anything bcoz i think u will proceed to u soon very soon, all the best
Reply:he does...


hes realized what he did that night and regret a bit inside him,,, asking... why did i tell her that im so done now...


be patient, wait until he changes to confessing or for running away..


or if you cant help it.. go and talk to her girl... ask him what made him act that way, its kinda not him and what happened to the gy you knew..? is there something wrong?


but im sure he just reflected his mistakes by telling it to you when he was drunk... well, he wanted to talk to you but is hestating or doubting if you'll still accept him.


those are passive behaviours that are easily frustrated and are emotionally so reserved,,, do talk to him, coz if its just that way... if you really feel something then have love running to both of you...


good luck.
Reply:just tell him u like him and get it over with
Reply:a lot of men will tell you that you are pretty. and if you allow it - they will do a lot more than touching also. somewhere - you need to decide what you want and what you dont want. just because he looks at you and you look at him - the situation does not call for action on any one's part. what is it about him that you like ? what do you think he likes about you ??? figure that out - it should clarify your mind a bit.
Reply:Ask him out to lunch or a casual dinner. Talk about how you feel or just open up the subject between you guys and see what he says about it.
Reply:Don't mind me saying it straight...yes u are a fool...Ur going over to this man's place..has made u very vulnerable..and u are something he has already taken for granted...always remember..not to make Ur self so cheap to get u know...u should not have gone thr to his house..in the first go...u better keep safe distance from him ..show him u are not interested in him after all that..he will get the hint..this i hope can make things get a little better...u got to keep this up for at least a weeks time...if he changes then u can go slow...but never get so fast and just jump on some ones place like that..u will be taken for granted...grow some personality pal!!!!(don't let anybody or everybody use u with no effort at all)


best of luck