Saturday, May 15, 2010

DEFINITE TROUBLE!!! Any advice?

There is this Sophomore (I am a freshmen) who keeps flirting with me and talking about me when I walk by... He is a total pervert tho!!! He has slept with freshmen before... And he does all sorts of drugs and drinks. I am the perfect little model student. Not a speck of dust on my record. I get this problem where I get REALLY bad butterflies whenever I think about him. I can't keep thinking abouot him but also trying not to think aboiut him because he is such a sicko. HE has touched me (not like REALLY badly, just boobs and stuff like that, and that was on "accident") I want some advice on how to stop thiking about him. GOt any? OR what to do?


ANYTHING?!?!?!

DEFINITE TROUBLE!!! Any advice?
I am a freshman too and I like a sophmore guy like you and he kept flirting with me and he was a player well one day I got tea-bagged in the head by him with his cute friend watching and ever since then never again
Reply:If he's a total pervert according to you and you have solid evidence that he's slept with freshmen before, does driinks and drugs, 'accidentally' touche your boobs will yourself to stop thinking about him. All those are red flags for you if you both begin a relationship and a red flag says 'trouble ahead'; watch out. Take a different route to class and as you walk keep telling yourself 'I command myself, through my power of choice, to STOP THINKING about this guy. You can do it if you really want to. Everytime he comes to mind, engage you energies some other way, like go to a girlfriend's dorm to study. Meet people in whom you don't see these character traits. I sound judgmental but that's OK with me. You see, I have a happily married daughter and I want the best for her, all the time, every time
Reply:It's like the Gwen Stefani song, "why do all the good girls like all the bad boys" (or word to that effect). But it's true. Good girls fall for bad boys. I don't know why. I can only tell you that it's normal. I did it. My friends did it. It will pass.
Reply:Drugs and sexual harassment. Not great credentials for this guy. Lose him.
Reply:think about the term badboys-they are BAD, just stay away from him, and make sure he don't "accidently" touch you again, cause he sounds like a really bad guy for you, especially if you're a good person. guys like that aren't for girls like you. you are better than that. just focus on school for now.
Reply:find somebody else whos not a jerk
Reply:Not a speck? Get out the swiffer for him and a fly swatter for you!
Reply:next time he "accidently" touches you, punch in his ugly face! or be all like, "sorry I already have a boyfriend" and go get one of your boy cousins (if u have one that is like really macho or something, or just a guy friend that is all macho) and get him to walk around with u to scare the perv away!!!
Reply:avoid contact with him


ignore him as much as possible so like dont text him, message him back and definatly dont do it first cos it will look like your interested





with any hope if you refuse contact for so long he will get bored and just move onto another girl
Reply:tht is sexual harassment and u ned to talk to ur principal or councler about it and the sooner the better because he can make it get soooo much worse
Reply:just go up to him one day and be brave and tell him that you dont like it when he does this and stuff you tell him you really dont appreciate the things he does to other people!!!








just tell him in a nice and sweet way and im sure he might understand!!!
Reply:when you start thinking about him think about what kind of l;ife you may end up having with a drunk druggie, picture it and how it would feel living in that tragic way! ask yourself is this what you really want to live like.you may not be able to stop thinking about him but keep reminding yourself of the type of life he is living and how you would like to klive that life with him, he may be into all sorts of druggie stuff and if you are with him he will get you involved maybe even into the drug scene also, because he wants to be able to freely use these things and be already and to be able to keep taking these things he will want you tro get to like those things too some have got their mates to join them, just ask yourself do you want that sort of misery in your life really think about it, if he drinks it is already bad news that alone is a waste of life space and then drugs as well that is not only a tragic mix but a recipe for disaster, and very dangerous thing for you, maybe you don't know that, but I have seen people ruin their lives in that way and even if he gives these things up don't even think for a moment that he can never go back to itespecially if he is mixing with others that are into the same stuffit will not be easy for you to live this way, this guy is no good for you. don't kid yourself he is bad news,think seriously about this you deserve better treatment because my experience from the things I've seen, tell me you are heading for disaster of the worst kindno don't stop thinking asbout him but try to sere things in the right sense ask yourself important questions I stated earlier, and really think about, what kind of life do you really want if you want to stay clean then keep away from someone like that you don't need to see the miserable life to where he is heading not what he will turn his life into but you will have to share in it , either way by watching and maybe in eve participating in it and that scene will not be prety for you or him, this is serious stuff don't choose itif you know whats good for you!Please for your sake think about it carefuly rteason on what you may be getting into dopn't get into it stay safe!Concentrate on your happiness in life, you will not get happines through what this guy will bring you only miserh and heart ache , is that what you really want to live like? yopu can se he is a sicko, if you really even entertain thoughts of happiness with this guy you will be deluding yourself don't lie to yourself because infatuation is not real happines, if happiness is what you really want then going for this guy is out of the question for your own good and for your sanity b.
Reply:i had a guy do that to me too..it scared the c*** outta me ...i avoided him and tried to thin of else what when i see him i get butterfly's you never really stop just try and think of else what stick and talk with friends
Reply:stay away he is a loser, dont worry youll see him 20 yrs later working at a bowling ally
Reply:How many time is this BS story going to be posted.
Reply:first try to ignore him if that doesnt work speak to him about wat it is that is bothering you then ur best bet would be to report him
Reply:Your one of those girls that like trouble makers as boy friends. A he might just be playing you.
Reply:Trust me, when he touched your boobs, it was no accident. He just made it seem like it was. It almost seems that you did not mind this contact and it seems that you like his "bad boy" image. All I gotta say is watch out for him. You're a bit too young to be touched inappropriately and without invitation. My advice to you is to stay clear of him. He's bad news and disrespectful. He will change your "not a speck of dust" record to filth. Do not tarnish your reputation at such an early age. Do you want to be referred to as "that s l u t" for the rest of your high school days?


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