As the froth of nectar
that waters the pond of dreams;
you sputter
In your embrace
I bloom
as Lilly blossoms.
As snow's soft flakes,
you melt on my petal cheeks
touching me
not quite.
Memories' butterfly kisses
turn into love letters
before my interlaced lashes --
--written amongst
changing cloud patterns
in our long forgotten
secret scripts
And i wishfully think
Is the rhythm
in honey dew drips
upon window sill;
simply the tunes
of my love for you?
Umpteenth edit--HONEST rating please?
Very good.
However, I'd change "lashes" to "fingers." "Lashes" can bring to mind getting beaten with a whip, which does not flow well with the rest of the poem.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Do u like this?
As the froth of nectar
that waters the pond of dreams
you sputter
and in your embrace
I bloom
as Lilly blossoms.
As snows soft flakes,
you melt on my petal cheeks
touching me
not quite.
At the golden break of day,
memories' butterfly kisses
turn into love letters
before my interlaced lashes.--
--written amongst
changing cloud patterns
in long forgotten secret scripts
Do u like this?
Sure
Reply:yes
its good :D
x x x
Reply:kind of
not really my type of poem though
do you like it???
that waters the pond of dreams
you sputter
and in your embrace
I bloom
as Lilly blossoms.
As snows soft flakes,
you melt on my petal cheeks
touching me
not quite.
At the golden break of day,
memories' butterfly kisses
turn into love letters
before my interlaced lashes.--
--written amongst
changing cloud patterns
in long forgotten secret scripts
Do u like this?
Sure
Reply:yes
its good :D
x x x
Reply:kind of
not really my type of poem though
do you like it???
Girls keep flirting with me?
help! I'm a girl and straighter than a ruler, seriously. I'm a bit homophobic to lesbians. Sorry. Girls keep flirting like hugging me excessively, talking to me like an inch away from my face, telling me I'm "soo pretty" frequently, touching me (not like that) like on my shoulder, my hair, my cheeks, and a lot more weird stuff. I REALLY don't like it, and I want to know why me?
Girls keep flirting with me?
well they probably think your cute. they also might like and tell them to back off
Reply:tell em, to back of B****
Reply:cuz ur hot!! lucky :)
fruit baskets
Girls keep flirting with me?
well they probably think your cute. they also might like and tell them to back off
Reply:tell em, to back of B****
Reply:cuz ur hot!! lucky :)
fruit baskets
Wtf is with teenage boys teasing teenage girls?
These 2 guys sit behind me during one of my classes, and the past day or so they've taken to flicking paper at me, and touching me (not in a sexual way or anything) me and whispering god knows what kind of things about me and laughing. I don't really understand why, I've known both of these guys since junior high, one of them is dating one of my close friends. They're both 18 for godsake.... my friends bf apologized after and said he loved me, which is what he always says when I get mad at him because he's kind of a tool that way. But honestly why do you think they're doing what they're doing, and how can i stop them? I'm blonde and tiny they don't me seriously, so i need help!!
Wtf is with teenage boys teasing teenage girls?
thats a guys way of flirting.
Reply:um alot of guys are immature like that. you can move your seat and not sit near them in class anymore. Or you can just talk to ur friends bf and tell him please stop annoying me or else. lol
Reply:They like to joke around and flirt
Wtf is with teenage boys teasing teenage girls?
thats a guys way of flirting.
Reply:um alot of guys are immature like that. you can move your seat and not sit near them in class anymore. Or you can just talk to ur friends bf and tell him please stop annoying me or else. lol
Reply:They like to joke around and flirt
Do you ever get that feeling?
whenever a boy touches me, not just sexually, but even just on the hips i get butterflies in my stomach. is this normal? does it have a name? i can't ever describe the feeling.
Do you ever get that feeling?
thats the feeling of a crush
Reply:Of course it's normal. I'm not sure what it's called and I can't describe it either, it's just something thats there. I love it when the guy I like touches me and brushes up against me. It's amazing!
But yeah, of course it's normal. :)
Reply:It's normal. You're at a point of discovery. You're body's discovering different urges.
Reply:it is normal if you like the guy...a lot lol
im not sure if theres a name for it though, besided liking or loving or however strongly you feel
Reply:Totally! I don't think it has a name other than butterflies though. The hips are a very feminine part of a woman, and when a boy touches them, it sparks a little bit of sexual attraction (even if you're just friends). That doesn't mean it has to lead anywhere though. But its totally normal for you to get butterflies when a boy touches you.
Reply:being horny???
Reply:i dont know if theres a name for it but dont you just love that feeling?
Do you ever get that feeling?
thats the feeling of a crush
Reply:Of course it's normal. I'm not sure what it's called and I can't describe it either, it's just something thats there. I love it when the guy I like touches me and brushes up against me. It's amazing!
But yeah, of course it's normal. :)
Reply:It's normal. You're at a point of discovery. You're body's discovering different urges.
Reply:it is normal if you like the guy...a lot lol
im not sure if theres a name for it though, besided liking or loving or however strongly you feel
Reply:Totally! I don't think it has a name other than butterflies though. The hips are a very feminine part of a woman, and when a boy touches them, it sparks a little bit of sexual attraction (even if you're just friends). That doesn't mean it has to lead anywhere though. But its totally normal for you to get butterflies when a boy touches you.
Reply:being horny???
Reply:i dont know if theres a name for it but dont you just love that feeling?
I don't know if he likes me!!!?
Theres this kid at my school. He is my neighbor and we always hang out outside of school. But he acts completely different inside of school. I mean he flirts with me inside and outside of school but, in school he is always touching me (not innapropriatley) but he always hugs me too. Its very confusing. But I think that he might be just kidding cuz hes one of those ultrapopular kids... you know the type!
I don't know if he likes me!!!?
If you guys are freinds, this is normal, typical guy friend behavior. I'm a sociology major, and I love to read books about body language and such in my spare time. My guy friends always touched, tickled and picked me up all the time. He may be slightly competitive with other guys, sort of claiming his territory when he's with you at school. This may be done subconciously, not really realizing he's doing it that much. He may not like you.
Then again... possibly he does. Do you flirt back a little? Cause maybe if he does like you, he needs a little encourgement from you before doing anything about it.
Reply:He may like you but doesnt know how to tell you straight out that he likes you, Just because he is an ultra popular kid doesnt mean he knows how to express his feelings.why dont you just ask him.
Reply:Guys love to flirt!
And somtimes girls just have to join in before they can totally tell if he likes them or not. Try flirting back, if it gets move personal, you'll be able to tell.
Reply:He's trying to show off in front of people in school, that he got all the girls. If he was interested, I wouldn't be in him if i were you, he's too superficial.
I don't know if he likes me!!!?
If you guys are freinds, this is normal, typical guy friend behavior. I'm a sociology major, and I love to read books about body language and such in my spare time. My guy friends always touched, tickled and picked me up all the time. He may be slightly competitive with other guys, sort of claiming his territory when he's with you at school. This may be done subconciously, not really realizing he's doing it that much. He may not like you.
Then again... possibly he does. Do you flirt back a little? Cause maybe if he does like you, he needs a little encourgement from you before doing anything about it.
Reply:He may like you but doesnt know how to tell you straight out that he likes you, Just because he is an ultra popular kid doesnt mean he knows how to express his feelings.why dont you just ask him.
Reply:Guys love to flirt!
And somtimes girls just have to join in before they can totally tell if he likes them or not. Try flirting back, if it gets move personal, you'll be able to tell.
Reply:He's trying to show off in front of people in school, that he got all the girls. If he was interested, I wouldn't be in him if i were you, he's too superficial.
Where is this sport going to...!?
Divers started complaining on how they dont get penaltys for they're dives...oh God...
http://www.goal.com/en/Articolo.aspx?Con...
Does he even realize what is he talking about???
"In my opinion, it's a penalty. The goalkeeper touched me" - NOT EVERY CONTACT IS A FOUL!!!
"If you see the replay, I jumped, he touched me and in my opinion, it's a penalty." So he wants to say that he dived or what??? hahaha he is ridicilous...
Where is this sport going to...!?
omg!!!!!!!!! what a freakin TARD!!!! the goalie broke my nail! ohh! get over it, crynaldo! you dive every time someone pokes you! not every contact is a foul!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@bend it like an idiot: okay i was going to respect your opinion until u said "dives a little bit" and "equal to kaka". you are joking right? kaka' is a million times better than crynaldo. (who dives A LOT, not just A LITTLE BIT. you were joking with that bit, were you not?)
Reply:Yeah it's a dive. He jumps (dives) over the keeper to avoid being taken out and gets clipped anyway. Watch the clip. Why would he dive anyway? He could of easily rounded the keeper. GK played the man and not the ball and that is why it is a clear pk.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=wlezN2h7xF4
I disagree with what you said to "Galaxyfan" The cleaner and more fair the game is the better. I'm sorry some peoples lives are so boring they have to hang out by the water cooler and debate on whether or not the ref was right to make the call. If they had someone up above watching the replays reporting back to the ref by earpiece it would be nice. Ronaldo does dive a lot but in this case it was clearly a penalty.
Reply:You know... I really love pillows lol
Reply:keyword: "I Jumped"
that gets translated to I Dived
hey look at this dive, start watching it at 3 minutes and 20 seconds
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xZFIRZuHYAA
ironically i support that team but i still know its a dive lol
Reply:Thank you Mister Babyboy for that wonderful video. I couldn't agree more
Reply:Awww,little baby boy still can't get over his issues with Ronaldo...how cute is that,gu gu lol
PS.Yeah,I also agree it should have been penalty;)
Reply:Im sorry, I couldnt see the match so I cant give u my opinion although Id love to shut manchester haters' mouths up hehehe but I love how "divers started complaining" sounds lmao!
@ hehe i love when he dives :D
Reply:trust me i have no idea!
crynaldo is a lozer as we all know it and he will do anything to get his way... i mean seriously... hte GK touched him... what shuld they burn the gk???
i mean c'mon seriously...he's acting like he's the untouchable or sumfyn...he was a diver and he still hasnt finsihed his *ways*
i hate to think what will happen to football if things keeeep goin lyke this!
Reply:the technology out there with special cameras, play should be stopped for about a minute and the call reviewed. eventually, divers will be discouraged.
cricket which is far less popular than football can do it. im certain football can. i don't know what's stopping them.
in this day and age, questionable offsides, goals, penalties should be reviewed.
c ronaldo may dive a little bit but he is better than ibrahimovic andequal to kaka.
oops, i said something wrong?
what blasphemy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahah.
Reply:Ronaldo didn't dive.He jumped to avoid the GK and caught his feet on the goalkeeper's hands.I'll admit that he could have(and should have) stayed up,but that doesn't change the fact that he was tripped.
You say that every contact isn't a foul.The what do you have to say about Steven Gerrard's countless "dives"(by your definition)?Is it Ok for him to dive because you have a soft spot for his club?Its PATHETIC the way people are always waiting for a chance to pick on Ronaldo.
I hate to see diving from any team(including my team).I also hate hypocrites who criticize others while turning a blind eye to cheaters from their own teams.
ginkgo
http://www.goal.com/en/Articolo.aspx?Con...
Does he even realize what is he talking about???
"In my opinion, it's a penalty. The goalkeeper touched me" - NOT EVERY CONTACT IS A FOUL!!!
"If you see the replay, I jumped, he touched me and in my opinion, it's a penalty." So he wants to say that he dived or what??? hahaha he is ridicilous...
Where is this sport going to...!?
omg!!!!!!!!! what a freakin TARD!!!! the goalie broke my nail! ohh! get over it, crynaldo! you dive every time someone pokes you! not every contact is a foul!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@bend it like an idiot: okay i was going to respect your opinion until u said "dives a little bit" and "equal to kaka". you are joking right? kaka' is a million times better than crynaldo. (who dives A LOT, not just A LITTLE BIT. you were joking with that bit, were you not?)
Reply:Yeah it's a dive. He jumps (dives) over the keeper to avoid being taken out and gets clipped anyway. Watch the clip. Why would he dive anyway? He could of easily rounded the keeper. GK played the man and not the ball and that is why it is a clear pk.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=wlezN2h7xF4
I disagree with what you said to "Galaxyfan" The cleaner and more fair the game is the better. I'm sorry some peoples lives are so boring they have to hang out by the water cooler and debate on whether or not the ref was right to make the call. If they had someone up above watching the replays reporting back to the ref by earpiece it would be nice. Ronaldo does dive a lot but in this case it was clearly a penalty.
Reply:You know... I really love pillows lol
Reply:keyword: "I Jumped"
that gets translated to I Dived
hey look at this dive, start watching it at 3 minutes and 20 seconds
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xZFIRZuHYAA
ironically i support that team but i still know its a dive lol
Reply:Thank you Mister Babyboy for that wonderful video. I couldn't agree more
Reply:Awww,little baby boy still can't get over his issues with Ronaldo...how cute is that,gu gu lol
PS.Yeah,I also agree it should have been penalty;)
Reply:Im sorry, I couldnt see the match so I cant give u my opinion although Id love to shut manchester haters' mouths up hehehe but I love how "divers started complaining" sounds lmao!
@ hehe i love when he dives :D
Reply:trust me i have no idea!
crynaldo is a lozer as we all know it and he will do anything to get his way... i mean seriously... hte GK touched him... what shuld they burn the gk???
i mean c'mon seriously...he's acting like he's the untouchable or sumfyn...he was a diver and he still hasnt finsihed his *ways*
i hate to think what will happen to football if things keeeep goin lyke this!
Reply:the technology out there with special cameras, play should be stopped for about a minute and the call reviewed. eventually, divers will be discouraged.
cricket which is far less popular than football can do it. im certain football can. i don't know what's stopping them.
in this day and age, questionable offsides, goals, penalties should be reviewed.
c ronaldo may dive a little bit but he is better than ibrahimovic andequal to kaka.
oops, i said something wrong?
what blasphemy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahah.
Reply:Ronaldo didn't dive.He jumped to avoid the GK and caught his feet on the goalkeeper's hands.I'll admit that he could have(and should have) stayed up,but that doesn't change the fact that he was tripped.
You say that every contact isn't a foul.The what do you have to say about Steven Gerrard's countless "dives"(by your definition)?Is it Ok for him to dive because you have a soft spot for his club?Its PATHETIC the way people are always waiting for a chance to pick on Ronaldo.
I hate to see diving from any team(including my team).I also hate hypocrites who criticize others while turning a blind eye to cheaters from their own teams.
ginkgo
How to find out if girl likes me, without risking friendship?
There's this girl that i met in one of my college classes. We are both first years, have been sitting together since early September, and I've really grown to like her. During class we always talk (i know... we souldn't in class), we always have fun conversations, and we talk on MSN all the time. I want to ask her out but i don't know if she feels the same about me. How can i ask her without ruining a great friendship?? I can't tell if she likes me b/c the signals are mixed and i'm no good at pcking up girl's signals. Sometimes in class she touches me. Not in a sexual flirting way, but just as if we've become good friends and she's comfortable with me. Like she might randomly grab my arm and bury her head in it to show she's tired. We text msg too. But we haven't really done anything together outside of class even though she said she would have lunch with me and my friends sometime. It's weird b/c i have another good friend (a girl) who i met this year and we have coffee, hang out, and
How to find out if girl likes me, without risking friendship?
why dont you ask her to hangout with you and your friends some time... if she seems interested then maybe you can ask her if she would like to get some coffee or go to a movie... i she says yes then she might like you. but dont expect her to, she might be looking for a good friend right now so dont push it... stay friends with her untill you think its time... good luck :)
Reply:the easiest way to do it is go ahead and do it. you are in college now, a man, you need to be confident, and see this as a step into manhood. a step towards happiness, towards being a confident woman crazy man
Reply:Im younger.... and I kinda just went through that.... except... i ruined our friendship... i think... but from what you told me, it sounds like she likes you. maybe you should try going out to lunch with her or something. make plans. you could make it work.
How to find out if girl likes me, without risking friendship?
why dont you ask her to hangout with you and your friends some time... if she seems interested then maybe you can ask her if she would like to get some coffee or go to a movie... i she says yes then she might like you. but dont expect her to, she might be looking for a good friend right now so dont push it... stay friends with her untill you think its time... good luck :)
Reply:the easiest way to do it is go ahead and do it. you are in college now, a man, you need to be confident, and see this as a step into manhood. a step towards happiness, towards being a confident woman crazy man
Reply:Im younger.... and I kinda just went through that.... except... i ruined our friendship... i think... but from what you told me, it sounds like she likes you. maybe you should try going out to lunch with her or something. make plans. you could make it work.
I told a guy that I fell for him, he said this, what does it mean?
Well, your email really touched me. Not to sound too trite, but timing has a lot to do with relationships working out, or not. These last few weeks have been quite the learning experience for me. I can't remember the last time I've felt so scared, and it was all related to work nonetheless!! Anyway, I just have not been able to be myself. So the stress, and being way too busy, just made it impossible for me to feel anything.
Also, I want to point out that I do think the same about you that you think about me. But the difference is that I was the one that was not able to give, and you were the one who sensed that about me. So human nature being what it is, that triggers feelings in the person that is not getting the attention, i.e. you. I do wish things would have been different, because I do think you are fantastic in every way. Aaaw, it's hard. And it's made a lot harder by the fact that all the things you know are on my mind. Ugh.
I'll speak with you soon, XO
I told a guy that I fell for him, he said this, what does it mean?
polite way of turning you down
Reply:He's a real dork!
Reply:He really likes you but doubts himself.
Reply:it means that he appreciates you for being honest but he has too much going on to be able to give you anything in a relationship right now so lets just continue to be friends until things are better in our seperate personal lives.
i hope that was a good translation for you
Reply:Two possible ways that I see this:
1) He likes you but finds that he is too occupied with other things and feels that he will be unable to give you what you want
2) Pure rejection. A really nice way of saying it, but the end motive is clear - could even be lying to an extent?
Either way, he wants to stay simply as a friend, nothing more.
Reply:its a clean letter of rejection because there are some things in his life that are getting in the way and he doesn't want to hurt you. But he'll keep in touch.
Reply:That's the weirdest email I've ever read, half of it didn't make sense to me, but maybe that's my own stupidity shining. But I do have to agree, he's just not that into you, move on to someone better!
Reply:he's saying that he isn't ready to accept what you feel for him in return to making a move on you... you need to accept his offer of possible friendship and find another guy who wont be scared to have a woman love him...
Reply:Well, he clearly has something to say, and he is unable to say it. Try getting together over lunch and see if he's able to express himself when you're there in person.
Reply:he sounds like he's talking to a friend and not much more!
Also, I want to point out that I do think the same about you that you think about me. But the difference is that I was the one that was not able to give, and you were the one who sensed that about me. So human nature being what it is, that triggers feelings in the person that is not getting the attention, i.e. you. I do wish things would have been different, because I do think you are fantastic in every way. Aaaw, it's hard. And it's made a lot harder by the fact that all the things you know are on my mind. Ugh.
I'll speak with you soon, XO
I told a guy that I fell for him, he said this, what does it mean?
polite way of turning you down
Reply:He's a real dork!
Reply:He really likes you but doubts himself.
Reply:it means that he appreciates you for being honest but he has too much going on to be able to give you anything in a relationship right now so lets just continue to be friends until things are better in our seperate personal lives.
i hope that was a good translation for you
Reply:Two possible ways that I see this:
1) He likes you but finds that he is too occupied with other things and feels that he will be unable to give you what you want
2) Pure rejection. A really nice way of saying it, but the end motive is clear - could even be lying to an extent?
Either way, he wants to stay simply as a friend, nothing more.
Reply:its a clean letter of rejection because there are some things in his life that are getting in the way and he doesn't want to hurt you. But he'll keep in touch.
Reply:That's the weirdest email I've ever read, half of it didn't make sense to me, but maybe that's my own stupidity shining. But I do have to agree, he's just not that into you, move on to someone better!
Reply:he's saying that he isn't ready to accept what you feel for him in return to making a move on you... you need to accept his offer of possible friendship and find another guy who wont be scared to have a woman love him...
Reply:Well, he clearly has something to say, and he is unable to say it. Try getting together over lunch and see if he's able to express himself when you're there in person.
Reply:he sounds like he's talking to a friend and not much more!
Im trying to lose weight.. please help!!?
I am 5'2 or 5'3.... and i weigh 130-140 pounds.. My goal is to lose at least 10-15 pounds by the end of July... Because i want an awesome body for my Junior year. (im 16 by the way). Since im short i kinda look bigger than what i really am. People say im not fat but i feel like it all the time and im so self conscious when my boyfriend touches me (not even in a sexual way) Just any way... I hate looking like this. Im not doing this for anyone but me.. I exercise now. run everyday for about half an hour and i plan on working my way up to an hour everyday.I do crunches on my Ab lounge every now and then but i know i need to do it 3-4 times a week to tone my stomach.The problems i have is with my stomach, legs, hips and thighs.. I know thats a lot, thats why im asking you guys for help.. I really need it. I'll exercise all the time if i have to.. But also, i know i dont eat right, i dont eat a lot, but when i do, its practically junk so... And is 3 months enought time to get to 120 lbs?
Im trying to lose weight.. please help!!?
Be cautious of what you eat. Losing weight means you use up more calories that you take in.
Reply:Weight Loss is frustrating
Try Weight Watchers
CHeck out their website and try going to a meeting for free one week. I'm doing it right now and seeing results!
http://www.weightwatchers.com/index.aspx
Reply:The running is an excellent start, however, if you don't eat right it's useless.
Continue to run, but replace the junk food with fresh fruits and vegetables.
Reply:im 5'2 and weigh 100lbs i should weigh more to match my height. maybe take dance classes. or dance for 30 minutes to all kindofs of songs . jog around the block. try not to drink sodas or so. eat more nutritious foods. join yoga or something
Reply:yes Baby you are overweight checkout this
Determining desirable body weight:
If the tables are not available, a simple way to determine desirable body weight is as follows:
Women: 100 pounds of body weight for the first 5 feet of height, 5 pounds for each additional inch.
Men: 106 pounds of body weight for the first 5 feet of height, 6 pounds for each additional inch.
Add 10% for a large frame size, and subtract 10% for a small frame size.
You need to stop eating food that make want to eat more (crave for food) u are the only one who can identify it. Good examples are Pastry(pies), Cookies,cakes etc especially things with alot of sugar, Carbohydrates(eat raesonable qauntities).
i hope its going to help you
Reply:try running for 45 min every day and do situps/pushups before/after you run to build strength....give yourself a limit of 1 junk food item a day or every other day, and eat relatively healthy during the day. If you need a snack, have a carrot or an apple or something...if you aren't motivated for something like that then join a club or a class that does a type of exercise that you like and go to it regularly.
Hope this helped!
Reply:Well, running is good, and in time it should tone your thighs. But if you're been doing it for a while, then you might want to change up your routine. Maybe run on an incline, or up and down stairs to further the results. Don't go too crazy with the exercising though, it's good, but I've seen girls diet and exercise to the extreme, which isn't good.
With the diet, don't eat junk food! I know it'll be hard, but you have to resist! If the junk food in the house is tempting you. then get rid of it, if you can. Any foods in particular you like eating? Because I know healthier options that are just as good, so I can maybe give you a list. Watch what you eat, and exercise in moderation. You have about three months to lose the weight, and you can do it in a healthy fashion, losing 1-2 lbs a week. Running a half hour burns about 250 calories, so if you cut another 250 out of your diet, then you should be able to lost your goal amount of weight.
Again, don't go overboard! Stay healthy! And don't let the images you see in the media (really skinny people) bring you down. I think 120-125 lbs should be good for you.
Reply:You can lose 8 pounds safely per month, so 3 months are more than enough. First, you need to start eating right, absolutely, no junk whatsoever. Keep exercising - if you could go to the gym and take the cardio kickboxing class, that could help you a lot (don't forget to consult with your doctor first).
You need to be strict with your diet, especially at the beginning, otherwise exercise can't do it alone.
Reply:I am only 5'2 and was 133 lbs about 2-3 months ago. We seem to have similar body types as I tend to carry weight in my stomach and love handles too. I exercised hard for 6 months and only lost 2 lbs. I was so upset. I ended up learning how to eat good balanced and nutritious meals but also continued to excersize. Weight lifting is important along with cardio as you will burn fat while sleeping and not just when aerobic. If you eat junk then your body will not be getting what it needs while you are exercising. I am 121lbs now but my stomach and love handles are not gone yet and they seem to be the last to go, your body might be like that too and it might just take time. Try to eat 2-3 servings of fruit and vegetables a day (fresh) and watch what you eat, no fattening fried foods or condiments %26amp; sauces. Mix up your workout constantly and get in your targer heart rate for at least 20-30 min. about 4x a week. Consistency is the key, If you want to loose that much weight that fast you will have to change your diet more and eat less and much healthier. Make sure you drink plenty of water. Stop drinking coffee if you do and watch your sodium intake. If your body isn't getting the nutrition it needs it might not let go of the weight as quick as you like. Feel free to email me and I can give you more tips on my specific success results. Good luck!
Im trying to lose weight.. please help!!?
Be cautious of what you eat. Losing weight means you use up more calories that you take in.
Reply:Weight Loss is frustrating
Try Weight Watchers
CHeck out their website and try going to a meeting for free one week. I'm doing it right now and seeing results!
http://www.weightwatchers.com/index.aspx
Reply:The running is an excellent start, however, if you don't eat right it's useless.
Continue to run, but replace the junk food with fresh fruits and vegetables.
Reply:im 5'2 and weigh 100lbs i should weigh more to match my height. maybe take dance classes. or dance for 30 minutes to all kindofs of songs . jog around the block. try not to drink sodas or so. eat more nutritious foods. join yoga or something
Reply:yes Baby you are overweight checkout this
Determining desirable body weight:
If the tables are not available, a simple way to determine desirable body weight is as follows:
Women: 100 pounds of body weight for the first 5 feet of height, 5 pounds for each additional inch.
Men: 106 pounds of body weight for the first 5 feet of height, 6 pounds for each additional inch.
Add 10% for a large frame size, and subtract 10% for a small frame size.
You need to stop eating food that make want to eat more (crave for food) u are the only one who can identify it. Good examples are Pastry(pies), Cookies,cakes etc especially things with alot of sugar, Carbohydrates(eat raesonable qauntities).
i hope its going to help you
Reply:try running for 45 min every day and do situps/pushups before/after you run to build strength....give yourself a limit of 1 junk food item a day or every other day, and eat relatively healthy during the day. If you need a snack, have a carrot or an apple or something...if you aren't motivated for something like that then join a club or a class that does a type of exercise that you like and go to it regularly.
Hope this helped!
Reply:Well, running is good, and in time it should tone your thighs. But if you're been doing it for a while, then you might want to change up your routine. Maybe run on an incline, or up and down stairs to further the results. Don't go too crazy with the exercising though, it's good, but I've seen girls diet and exercise to the extreme, which isn't good.
With the diet, don't eat junk food! I know it'll be hard, but you have to resist! If the junk food in the house is tempting you. then get rid of it, if you can. Any foods in particular you like eating? Because I know healthier options that are just as good, so I can maybe give you a list. Watch what you eat, and exercise in moderation. You have about three months to lose the weight, and you can do it in a healthy fashion, losing 1-2 lbs a week. Running a half hour burns about 250 calories, so if you cut another 250 out of your diet, then you should be able to lost your goal amount of weight.
Again, don't go overboard! Stay healthy! And don't let the images you see in the media (really skinny people) bring you down. I think 120-125 lbs should be good for you.
Reply:You can lose 8 pounds safely per month, so 3 months are more than enough. First, you need to start eating right, absolutely, no junk whatsoever. Keep exercising - if you could go to the gym and take the cardio kickboxing class, that could help you a lot (don't forget to consult with your doctor first).
You need to be strict with your diet, especially at the beginning, otherwise exercise can't do it alone.
Reply:I am only 5'2 and was 133 lbs about 2-3 months ago. We seem to have similar body types as I tend to carry weight in my stomach and love handles too. I exercised hard for 6 months and only lost 2 lbs. I was so upset. I ended up learning how to eat good balanced and nutritious meals but also continued to excersize. Weight lifting is important along with cardio as you will burn fat while sleeping and not just when aerobic. If you eat junk then your body will not be getting what it needs while you are exercising. I am 121lbs now but my stomach and love handles are not gone yet and they seem to be the last to go, your body might be like that too and it might just take time. Try to eat 2-3 servings of fruit and vegetables a day (fresh) and watch what you eat, no fattening fried foods or condiments %26amp; sauces. Mix up your workout constantly and get in your targer heart rate for at least 20-30 min. about 4x a week. Consistency is the key, If you want to loose that much weight that fast you will have to change your diet more and eat less and much healthier. Make sure you drink plenty of water. Stop drinking coffee if you do and watch your sodium intake. If your body isn't getting the nutrition it needs it might not let go of the weight as quick as you like. Feel free to email me and I can give you more tips on my specific success results. Good luck!
When is it cheating?
So I went to this party at a frat house and I ended up talking to one of the brothers at the frat and i was flirting with him and he and I were dancing and stuff and he wasn't drinking at all and i found out he had a girlfriend cause he told me..but he kept dancing with me all night..and he was touching me not very sexually but holding on to my hips and stuff and touching my stomach and everything....I'm really interested in this kid..and his girlfriend goes to a different college far away.. and she looks like she's 12..that has nothing to do with it..but it just buggs me that such a nice looking guy dates a girl that looks like shes in middle school..
Would that be him cheating on her?
Exactly when is it cheating!???
I don't know whether to stop talking to him or to just see where it goes
I think honestly..if your in a frat you shouldn't have a girlfriend..
When is it cheating?
Cheating is when you have to ask yourself if its cheating or not.
Reply:well, he was touching and rubbing your body,right? so, i'd say that fondling another persons body, when commited to another is right up there with cheating!!!!!!!!! or is that just being really friendly? look, but don't touch!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Yes, intimacy with someone other than your/his beloved is cheating.
Reply:i think it is cheating and regardless if you like him or not once a cheater always a cheater! think of it as if he was your guy and was doing the same with another girl would you see it as cheating then....? yes u would
Reply:Well if you think honestly if you are in a frat you shouldn't have a girlfriend.. that little comment answers the question.. but it's not considered cheating unless things go farther then dancing, and it's just a matter of opinion that some could consider him dancing with you cheating, you should find out if he likes or has feelings for the girl he is with and if he doesn't ask why he hasn't ended the relationship, just keep hanging with him and see where things go but don't let things go too far while he is still with someone, distance doesn't matter if he has chose to be with her, it's cheating if it goes any farther while he is with someone.
Reply:I think cheating is cheating. But atleast he didnt make a move I think. His girl cant help that she looks so young. But he shouldnt of been doing all that stuff though. You can talk to him, just watch out.
Reply:To her it would be cheating how would you feel if he was your man and he had another woman in his arms!? I agree with you about the frat part but its up to you if you want to see where it goes just remember if he cheats on her he may you.
Reply:Yes, and I've been in that situation where I was the girl far away. and I was crushed that #1 he would do that, but #2 a girl would do that to me. What a slut I thought. Its already been cheating. He started when he flirted back. It started when he let it in his mind, and guys are physical creatures. It was wrong of him, and now that u know its wrong for you to continue. How would you feel if u where her. And if he is doing this to her what would he be doing to you behind ur back.
Reply:hes cheating but can you blame him,long disance relationships never work because we need that capanionship now and we are programed to have it that way but be careful he propubley whats sex and then try to string you along until his girlfriend gets back and then you will be history
Reply:Well it sounds to me you like him and you are trying to make excuses to get with him when he already has someone. Honestly how would you feel if you are dating someone and you found out he was dancing with another girl all night and touching her and doing stuff he shouldn't have. ?
You would be crushed and hurt cause he was dancing with another chick. And you would be on here asking if he really loves you or not. If you really like him ask questions and ask if he is happy with his girl .. if he says yes leave it alone.
Cheating is when someone is having sexual intercourse with someone who is not there partner.... Thats is what I call cheating.
Reply:See now there's a question I as a college student have been dealing with as well. This is what i've found out:
1. Most girls take dancing(grinding) wayyy more seriously than most guys do. So to him, he was dancing....all the touching is just part of the dancing. Now if she found out, it would more than likely trouble her a bit.
2. The path to destruction looks something like this: dance/grind -%26gt; make out -%26gt; have sex. Most people consider it cheating once you hit the make out phase.
3. Sounds like you like the guy. Go for it. This is college. No ring, no commitment. Long distant relationships kinda have a way of breaking apart anyway.
....oh and try to remember #1 when you start evaluating your feelings for him and possibly his for you. Just because you spent the night on the floor doesn't necessarily mean anything more than that you were a good dancer and he wanted to keep you.
Best of luck.
Reply:He only wants you for one thing honey open your eyes to what it is. 1. His girlfriend goes to another college and he is horny he is not looking for a frien he is looking for a friend w/benefits as they called it these days. 2. If he really wanted you as a friend he would have not been holding your hips, touching your stomach he wants some azz. Let him go b/c wants he gets what he wants he is going to drop you.
Reply:boys dont cheat they xplore only husbands can be called cheaters
Reply:There is no reason why he can't dance and have fun. I wouldn't call it cheating unless he comes on to you or asks you out on a date ... and you need to decide for yourself the point at which it feels like he is coming on to you ...
Maintaining long-distance relationships is difficult.
Realize that if you try to see more of him and attract him that you run the risk of getting hurt, especially if he really cares about his alleged girlfriend.
Reply:he has a girl, so u need to respect his wishes and back off. it doesn't matter what u think, because he's with someone else, and she must mean something to him if he brought her up with you.
Reply:I would leave him alone!!!! What happens when he dumps her and starts dating you? he might do that behind your back!
If he was your boyfriend would you be pissed if he was dancing with another girl the same he did with you??
I think YES!!!!! get over him find someone else
Reply:If you think that he shouldn't have a girlfriend then why are you trying to be his? You need to consider this other chic and how she would feel. Obviously he cares about her or he wouldn't have told you that she was in the picture in the first place. I'm sure there are other cute guys there to hook up with or whatever it is you are looking for so let him be.
Reply:I think you should respect your self enough to leave him alone... It doesnt matter how his girlfriend looks... You wouldnt like if you were with him and he did it to you... Give her a little respect... What do you think hes going to do with you??? If you are just trying to get laid, go with another guy, perhaps a single one
Reply:yes, thats cheating.cheating is when your involved with someone rather then the 1 that your suppose to be with.
Reply:You know that when he had his hands all over your backside he was up to something.And how do you know his lady is that far away? How could you even consider a relationship with him? If he cheats on her he cheats on you, get it?
Reply:How would you feel if you were the one far away from your boyfriend and he was doing this with another girl.
You need to butt out of his life and leave him and his girl to be together. If things don't work out then go for it... but you should not be there tempting him.
Dental Hygienist
Would that be him cheating on her?
Exactly when is it cheating!???
I don't know whether to stop talking to him or to just see where it goes
I think honestly..if your in a frat you shouldn't have a girlfriend..
When is it cheating?
Cheating is when you have to ask yourself if its cheating or not.
Reply:well, he was touching and rubbing your body,right? so, i'd say that fondling another persons body, when commited to another is right up there with cheating!!!!!!!!! or is that just being really friendly? look, but don't touch!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Yes, intimacy with someone other than your/his beloved is cheating.
Reply:i think it is cheating and regardless if you like him or not once a cheater always a cheater! think of it as if he was your guy and was doing the same with another girl would you see it as cheating then....? yes u would
Reply:Well if you think honestly if you are in a frat you shouldn't have a girlfriend.. that little comment answers the question.. but it's not considered cheating unless things go farther then dancing, and it's just a matter of opinion that some could consider him dancing with you cheating, you should find out if he likes or has feelings for the girl he is with and if he doesn't ask why he hasn't ended the relationship, just keep hanging with him and see where things go but don't let things go too far while he is still with someone, distance doesn't matter if he has chose to be with her, it's cheating if it goes any farther while he is with someone.
Reply:I think cheating is cheating. But atleast he didnt make a move I think. His girl cant help that she looks so young. But he shouldnt of been doing all that stuff though. You can talk to him, just watch out.
Reply:To her it would be cheating how would you feel if he was your man and he had another woman in his arms!? I agree with you about the frat part but its up to you if you want to see where it goes just remember if he cheats on her he may you.
Reply:Yes, and I've been in that situation where I was the girl far away. and I was crushed that #1 he would do that, but #2 a girl would do that to me. What a slut I thought. Its already been cheating. He started when he flirted back. It started when he let it in his mind, and guys are physical creatures. It was wrong of him, and now that u know its wrong for you to continue. How would you feel if u where her. And if he is doing this to her what would he be doing to you behind ur back.
Reply:hes cheating but can you blame him,long disance relationships never work because we need that capanionship now and we are programed to have it that way but be careful he propubley whats sex and then try to string you along until his girlfriend gets back and then you will be history
Reply:Well it sounds to me you like him and you are trying to make excuses to get with him when he already has someone. Honestly how would you feel if you are dating someone and you found out he was dancing with another girl all night and touching her and doing stuff he shouldn't have. ?
You would be crushed and hurt cause he was dancing with another chick. And you would be on here asking if he really loves you or not. If you really like him ask questions and ask if he is happy with his girl .. if he says yes leave it alone.
Cheating is when someone is having sexual intercourse with someone who is not there partner.... Thats is what I call cheating.
Reply:See now there's a question I as a college student have been dealing with as well. This is what i've found out:
1. Most girls take dancing(grinding) wayyy more seriously than most guys do. So to him, he was dancing....all the touching is just part of the dancing. Now if she found out, it would more than likely trouble her a bit.
2. The path to destruction looks something like this: dance/grind -%26gt; make out -%26gt; have sex. Most people consider it cheating once you hit the make out phase.
3. Sounds like you like the guy. Go for it. This is college. No ring, no commitment. Long distant relationships kinda have a way of breaking apart anyway.
....oh and try to remember #1 when you start evaluating your feelings for him and possibly his for you. Just because you spent the night on the floor doesn't necessarily mean anything more than that you were a good dancer and he wanted to keep you.
Best of luck.
Reply:He only wants you for one thing honey open your eyes to what it is. 1. His girlfriend goes to another college and he is horny he is not looking for a frien he is looking for a friend w/benefits as they called it these days. 2. If he really wanted you as a friend he would have not been holding your hips, touching your stomach he wants some azz. Let him go b/c wants he gets what he wants he is going to drop you.
Reply:boys dont cheat they xplore only husbands can be called cheaters
Reply:There is no reason why he can't dance and have fun. I wouldn't call it cheating unless he comes on to you or asks you out on a date ... and you need to decide for yourself the point at which it feels like he is coming on to you ...
Maintaining long-distance relationships is difficult.
Realize that if you try to see more of him and attract him that you run the risk of getting hurt, especially if he really cares about his alleged girlfriend.
Reply:he has a girl, so u need to respect his wishes and back off. it doesn't matter what u think, because he's with someone else, and she must mean something to him if he brought her up with you.
Reply:I would leave him alone!!!! What happens when he dumps her and starts dating you? he might do that behind your back!
If he was your boyfriend would you be pissed if he was dancing with another girl the same he did with you??
I think YES!!!!! get over him find someone else
Reply:If you think that he shouldn't have a girlfriend then why are you trying to be his? You need to consider this other chic and how she would feel. Obviously he cares about her or he wouldn't have told you that she was in the picture in the first place. I'm sure there are other cute guys there to hook up with or whatever it is you are looking for so let him be.
Reply:I think you should respect your self enough to leave him alone... It doesnt matter how his girlfriend looks... You wouldnt like if you were with him and he did it to you... Give her a little respect... What do you think hes going to do with you??? If you are just trying to get laid, go with another guy, perhaps a single one
Reply:yes, thats cheating.cheating is when your involved with someone rather then the 1 that your suppose to be with.
Reply:You know that when he had his hands all over your backside he was up to something.And how do you know his lady is that far away? How could you even consider a relationship with him? If he cheats on her he cheats on you, get it?
Reply:How would you feel if you were the one far away from your boyfriend and he was doing this with another girl.
You need to butt out of his life and leave him and his girl to be together. If things don't work out then go for it... but you should not be there tempting him.
Dental Hygienist
Does he actually like me or does just like me as a sis?
There is this guy and well we have know each other ever since the 8th grade. and my feeling for him keep commin and going away.. like lord there are these moment that I wish he only knew how much I like him, but the thing is he thinks I only like him as a bro and well he calls me his sis and everything, but we flirt like crazy... I mean we joke around... we hang out.. and I can't sit next to this guy in class cuz well .. he won't stop touching me.. not sexual but like pinchin my arms.. and hugs.. and all of that but.. I dont know if he likes me that way.. Oh and he makes me laugh.. and that is what love most about him.. he makes my days worth while.. cuz he actually makes me happy.. but Imma afraid to tell him how I feel.. cuz well my recent b/f broke my heart and Imma afraid to try that again.. and if he doesn't like me ... I don't know.. hmmm.. So do you think I should tell him how I feel .. do you think he likes me back??? Plz help...
Does he actually like me or does just like me as a sis?
Dear heart you have said two key words one a past relationship that hurts and two how much you and your buddy enjoy each other in my opinion take your time don't rush it give yourself time to heal from your old relationship because when you rush that's when things go wrong and in time he will in turn tell you how he feels about you so take it slow and enjoy him.
Reply:he totally likes u
Does he actually like me or does just like me as a sis?
Dear heart you have said two key words one a past relationship that hurts and two how much you and your buddy enjoy each other in my opinion take your time don't rush it give yourself time to heal from your old relationship because when you rush that's when things go wrong and in time he will in turn tell you how he feels about you so take it slow and enjoy him.
Reply:he totally likes u
Im tired of it....?
Me -n- this guy..
He always flirts... he always looks at me in the gym and hes always tryin to get my attention.. he stairs at me. he touches me (not in a nasty way like a friendly way). But he dont talk good about me to none of his friends.. Around his friends... he says im fat (I weigh 112) he calls me gay. Eventhough i love guys!!When hes around me. hes totally nice. around his friends he talks crap about me. At first it was ok. But now hes went way too far.I really like him. But he like we buy stuff for eachother. around his best friends he says were best friends. but yet he talks crap about me! I ask him if its true, he says not all of it... what the hell does that mean? In so confused. Hes 1 year older than me. When were together everythings fine.. we actually act like a real b/f- g/f. ( Im so confused,does he like me or not? Ahh and please no stupid answers. This is Important to me.)
Im tired of it....?
I honestly wish I had the answer. But this is a weird situation. Really, if the guy is like that, then he is immature. If he acts all nice to you and you guys are really good friends, but he still talks crap about you then that sounds stupid. I was going to tell you to ask him but you already did that. Maybe just ignore him. And when he asks you whats wrong just tell him. If he's a jerk and lies then just forget about him. He isn't right for you. Move on. Here's what I would do. I would just talk to him. Maybe his friends are lying. Guys are stupid. Seriously. Maybe when you guys hang out just randomly say, "I am so fat." And if he says, no your not, then say "then why do you tell your friends that I am?" And if that doesn't work, then slap him...lol...idk.Just use your imagination. Just lay it on him.I hope this helps. But if it doesn't....well sorry.
Reply:sounds like to me hes fronting for his boys, he don't want them to know that he really likes you, but in front of you he will show you how he feels, but don't ask him in front of his boys.
He always flirts... he always looks at me in the gym and hes always tryin to get my attention.. he stairs at me. he touches me (not in a nasty way like a friendly way). But he dont talk good about me to none of his friends.. Around his friends... he says im fat (I weigh 112) he calls me gay. Eventhough i love guys!!When hes around me. hes totally nice. around his friends he talks crap about me. At first it was ok. But now hes went way too far.I really like him. But he like we buy stuff for eachother. around his best friends he says were best friends. but yet he talks crap about me! I ask him if its true, he says not all of it... what the hell does that mean? In so confused. Hes 1 year older than me. When were together everythings fine.. we actually act like a real b/f- g/f. ( Im so confused,does he like me or not? Ahh and please no stupid answers. This is Important to me.)
Im tired of it....?
I honestly wish I had the answer. But this is a weird situation. Really, if the guy is like that, then he is immature. If he acts all nice to you and you guys are really good friends, but he still talks crap about you then that sounds stupid. I was going to tell you to ask him but you already did that. Maybe just ignore him. And when he asks you whats wrong just tell him. If he's a jerk and lies then just forget about him. He isn't right for you. Move on. Here's what I would do. I would just talk to him. Maybe his friends are lying. Guys are stupid. Seriously. Maybe when you guys hang out just randomly say, "I am so fat." And if he says, no your not, then say "then why do you tell your friends that I am?" And if that doesn't work, then slap him...lol...idk.Just use your imagination. Just lay it on him.I hope this helps. But if it doesn't....well sorry.
Reply:sounds like to me hes fronting for his boys, he don't want them to know that he really likes you, but in front of you he will show you how he feels, but don't ask him in front of his boys.
What does she want? She still calls me and she is married.?
My high school sweetheart and I were a hot item for about five years (teenage), we worked together,went to school together, church, etc. We were really close, in love and couldn't wait to get married.
Well, for whatever reasons, she decided that "we" should start seeing other people, and I took it really hard. She was seeing other guys and still stringing me along. She turned 18 and moved in with her soon to be husband. Over the next 8 yrs she got married, had 2 kids, got he PHD, and her life is great, But she still calls me.
She calls me from time to time and wants to meet me sometimes even though she broke up with me 12 yrs ago. I never call her or ask her to meet me. She even invited me over to her house several times, and i did go. She invited me to go on several of her buisness trips, but I declined. I even helped pick out her counter tops when her house was being built.
But, she has never once touched me. Not since She broke up with me 12 yrs ago. What does she want????
What does she want? She still calls me and she is married.?
either a toy, or friendship.
Reply:well met and ask her what she wants we all know that you still love her deeply wwhen you meet ask her what she wants from you and tell her what is bothering you because you two where close friends sometimes one of the two will have resentment towords the other for a long time you need to step up and just be her friend that what she needs she don't need a lover she has one
Reply:she miss you and somehow feel guilty about the break up.. she's just trying to be a good friend to you and trying her best to get a good talk with you..
the kind of relationship that you had way back in your teens is not easy to forget.. just be good to her to lessen her guilt feelings..
Reply:Sounds to me like she has a lot of unresolved feelings for you. Be very careful because if her husband were to find out these things it could possibly lead you i nto a pretty nasty mess. She should definitely not be asking you on business trips with her because that suggests that she might want something more than just friendship. If this keeps up I would definitely just have to ask her where her head is at and find out just what is going on with her.
Reply:Sounds like she wants to be friends. You guys grew up together.
On the other hand, she could be wanted that unadulterated admiration from you that she received when you where kids in highschool, because her husband doesn't do that.
Many people believe that women and men cannot really ever be just friends.
Be careful. The invite on her business trip sounds sketchy.
Reply:I think you already know what she wants. It sounds like she never got over you but wants her cake and eat it too but wants you to make the first move. the business trip is a clear statement. Ask her if her husband knows she inviting you and if he doesn't you definitely have your answer.
Reply:If i were you i would make the first move and grab her ***
Reply:Why would she want you to go on a business trip with her? Everything else sounds find except for that. Maybe she's looking for something on the side, if you know what I mean. If you don't feel comfortable being in contact with her then just cut her off. If you don't want that then ask her what she wants from this situation. Good luck and don't be tempted into something that you don't want.
Reply:Maybe she is looking for better time like she had as a teenager and the good times she had with you?
Maybe her marriage is not the best thing still see some of my old girlfriends from high school and it has been over 30 years.
Reply:maybe she just want to make a friendship with u. and that it is.
sometimes girls wants to know about their exboyfriends' lives even they broke up long time ago..
Reply:She wants to get "C-blocked"
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Reply:She probably still has a deep love you for you, but she realizes that she loves her life now, too. It's hard getting over someone like that, and she may be scared to let you go...or she just needs to know you don't want to let her go. If it's not hurting anything, I'd say go on and keep up this friendship, but if it's too difficult for you or you notice it's straining her marriage, have a serious heart-to-heart with her. Or better yet...ask her what she wants and get it straight from her.
Reply:she made a mistake of leaving u and dont know how to tell u.she still loves u and given the chance,she will like to come back to u.for now she just want u to ''stuff her turkey'' once awhile but dont do it.she's someone's wife.
Reply:Sounds as though as you have said that you guys were extremely close, and even though she moved on and got married your relationship still means alot to her, and even though your relationship can not be an intimate one, being her best companion is the closest thing she can have of you.
Well, for whatever reasons, she decided that "we" should start seeing other people, and I took it really hard. She was seeing other guys and still stringing me along. She turned 18 and moved in with her soon to be husband. Over the next 8 yrs she got married, had 2 kids, got he PHD, and her life is great, But she still calls me.
She calls me from time to time and wants to meet me sometimes even though she broke up with me 12 yrs ago. I never call her or ask her to meet me. She even invited me over to her house several times, and i did go. She invited me to go on several of her buisness trips, but I declined. I even helped pick out her counter tops when her house was being built.
But, she has never once touched me. Not since She broke up with me 12 yrs ago. What does she want????
What does she want? She still calls me and she is married.?
either a toy, or friendship.
Reply:well met and ask her what she wants we all know that you still love her deeply wwhen you meet ask her what she wants from you and tell her what is bothering you because you two where close friends sometimes one of the two will have resentment towords the other for a long time you need to step up and just be her friend that what she needs she don't need a lover she has one
Reply:she miss you and somehow feel guilty about the break up.. she's just trying to be a good friend to you and trying her best to get a good talk with you..
the kind of relationship that you had way back in your teens is not easy to forget.. just be good to her to lessen her guilt feelings..
Reply:Sounds to me like she has a lot of unresolved feelings for you. Be very careful because if her husband were to find out these things it could possibly lead you i nto a pretty nasty mess. She should definitely not be asking you on business trips with her because that suggests that she might want something more than just friendship. If this keeps up I would definitely just have to ask her where her head is at and find out just what is going on with her.
Reply:Sounds like she wants to be friends. You guys grew up together.
On the other hand, she could be wanted that unadulterated admiration from you that she received when you where kids in highschool, because her husband doesn't do that.
Many people believe that women and men cannot really ever be just friends.
Be careful. The invite on her business trip sounds sketchy.
Reply:I think you already know what she wants. It sounds like she never got over you but wants her cake and eat it too but wants you to make the first move. the business trip is a clear statement. Ask her if her husband knows she inviting you and if he doesn't you definitely have your answer.
Reply:If i were you i would make the first move and grab her ***
Reply:Why would she want you to go on a business trip with her? Everything else sounds find except for that. Maybe she's looking for something on the side, if you know what I mean. If you don't feel comfortable being in contact with her then just cut her off. If you don't want that then ask her what she wants from this situation. Good luck and don't be tempted into something that you don't want.
Reply:Maybe she is looking for better time like she had as a teenager and the good times she had with you?
Maybe her marriage is not the best thing still see some of my old girlfriends from high school and it has been over 30 years.
Reply:maybe she just want to make a friendship with u. and that it is.
sometimes girls wants to know about their exboyfriends' lives even they broke up long time ago..
Reply:She wants to get "C-blocked"
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Reply:She probably still has a deep love you for you, but she realizes that she loves her life now, too. It's hard getting over someone like that, and she may be scared to let you go...or she just needs to know you don't want to let her go. If it's not hurting anything, I'd say go on and keep up this friendship, but if it's too difficult for you or you notice it's straining her marriage, have a serious heart-to-heart with her. Or better yet...ask her what she wants and get it straight from her.
Reply:she made a mistake of leaving u and dont know how to tell u.she still loves u and given the chance,she will like to come back to u.for now she just want u to ''stuff her turkey'' once awhile but dont do it.she's someone's wife.
Reply:Sounds as though as you have said that you guys were extremely close, and even though she moved on and got married your relationship still means alot to her, and even though your relationship can not be an intimate one, being her best companion is the closest thing she can have of you.
Why does he love me and then ignore me?
I'm so confused. There's this guy that I've been good friends with for a long time. He always was very sweet to me; always telling me how beautiful I looked, spending time with me, giving me hugs, and just being an all around good guy. Then not too long ago he moved the relationship further. We snuggled at movies, he called me often, always was touching me (not in an inappropriate way)and huggging me, he would kiss me on the forehead, and he even told me he loved me. But at the time we had not labeled what our relationship was and I wasn't sure I wanted to, I was happy and he seemed to be too. This went on 4 about a month. He was never ashamed to act this way around our friends, but then just recently he has seemed 2 become very distant. The horrible thing is I DONT KNOW WHY! I want 2 talk 2 him about it but I'm afraid I might scare him. I cant lose him as my friend, but I miss how much he cared, I think I may have even fallen in love with him. What should I do? I'm desperate 4 advice.
Why does he love me and then ignore me?
There are many reasons he may have withdrawn. He may never tell you. But here are some questions to help you assess the relationship:
Does he declare his love for you to others?
Has he introduced you to all his friends and family?
Does he discuss long term plans with you?
Is he making personal plans that will accomodate you in the long term?
If he's not doing any of those things that doesn't mean he's hopeless. But it does mean he is not wanting to commit to you in those ways now.
Hold him accountable. Make him treat you fairly. And choose whether you wish to make the most of the friendship in its current state. It could develop to more.
"Friends" is a good thing at this point. If you can't figure out how to be a good friend to him, that will be an indication you will have a tough time as closer companions. Do what you CAN do.
Reply:the reason he has become distant is cos he put in all that effort to show that he wants more and you didnt respond the way he wanted. maybe he was waiting for you to make a more physical move or something. and when it didnt happen he felt as though he was wasting his time cos you only saw him as a friend. now he has given up. thats why he is ignoring you.
Reply:In my vast experience being up front always works out best in the long run. I would first tell him that you have something that u need to get off your chest and you would appreciate an honest response also explain that you want to remain friends no matter what. Then lay it on him.
Reply:My personal guess is that he may be afraid of commitment.....
Reply:haha i've been there with my ex-boyfriend ...he told me he loved me i thought our relationship was going great then he stopped answering my calls ignoring me and very thing ..turned out all he wanted was to have sex but i wouldnt do that .....but i just went with the flow we broke up ..now...were great friends and he has another gurlfriend i still love him but i just learned to deal with it and love him as a friend and be there for him whenever he needs me
%26lt;3krissy \good luck!!
azalea
Why does he love me and then ignore me?
There are many reasons he may have withdrawn. He may never tell you. But here are some questions to help you assess the relationship:
Does he declare his love for you to others?
Has he introduced you to all his friends and family?
Does he discuss long term plans with you?
Is he making personal plans that will accomodate you in the long term?
If he's not doing any of those things that doesn't mean he's hopeless. But it does mean he is not wanting to commit to you in those ways now.
Hold him accountable. Make him treat you fairly. And choose whether you wish to make the most of the friendship in its current state. It could develop to more.
"Friends" is a good thing at this point. If you can't figure out how to be a good friend to him, that will be an indication you will have a tough time as closer companions. Do what you CAN do.
Reply:the reason he has become distant is cos he put in all that effort to show that he wants more and you didnt respond the way he wanted. maybe he was waiting for you to make a more physical move or something. and when it didnt happen he felt as though he was wasting his time cos you only saw him as a friend. now he has given up. thats why he is ignoring you.
Reply:In my vast experience being up front always works out best in the long run. I would first tell him that you have something that u need to get off your chest and you would appreciate an honest response also explain that you want to remain friends no matter what. Then lay it on him.
Reply:My personal guess is that he may be afraid of commitment.....
Reply:haha i've been there with my ex-boyfriend ...he told me he loved me i thought our relationship was going great then he stopped answering my calls ignoring me and very thing ..turned out all he wanted was to have sex but i wouldnt do that .....but i just went with the flow we broke up ..now...were great friends and he has another gurlfriend i still love him but i just learned to deal with it and love him as a friend and be there for him whenever he needs me
%26lt;3krissy \good luck!!
azalea
Please tell me if i have all the right details to know if my crush likes me too!?
Good things:
He makes me laugh, he wants me to sit next to him. He sometimes sits next to me in mostly every school class we have together. He talks to me a lot every day. He Touches me not innapproiatly just like high fives.
Bad things:
He doesn't call me. but that is about it!
P.S. So do you think he likes me?
Please tell me if i have all the right details to know if my crush likes me too!?
not necessarily, he might as well see you as a simple friend, a pal. see what happens next!
Reply:No, i don't think he likes you. i think hes just being nice. that's all.
Reply:hmm..maybe he doesn`t call you because he doesn`t have your number. lol. jk. but not calling you isn`t that bad. i think he has feelings for you that can grow. so maybe you and some friends should get together like on a group thingy. that`s wat i did. and it was SUPER fun! and you got to spend more time with him! and i think there`s a chance he might like you. so just be SUPER flirty and have a group date get together with some friends and have FUN! keep us updated! =]
Reply:he likes you but he may not think you like him or he is afraid to tell you he likes you.
Reply:He likes you. Maybe hes afraid to call out of the blue, so invite him to call you tonight, and you will be expecting his call ;)
Reply:you have most details but u need 2 drop clues -
like im not doing anything Friday nite - give me a call
Reply:Yes. Tell him you like him.
Reply:he does! oh my God I'm so excited....that brings me memories!!! anyways... he likes you maybe he's a bit shy to call coz honestly i believe he thinks he wouldn't know what to say. why don't you try to approach him by calling him? i think that is a good idea! :) next time he'll call you!!! good luck! =D
He makes me laugh, he wants me to sit next to him. He sometimes sits next to me in mostly every school class we have together. He talks to me a lot every day. He Touches me not innapproiatly just like high fives.
Bad things:
He doesn't call me. but that is about it!
P.S. So do you think he likes me?
Please tell me if i have all the right details to know if my crush likes me too!?
not necessarily, he might as well see you as a simple friend, a pal. see what happens next!
Reply:No, i don't think he likes you. i think hes just being nice. that's all.
Reply:hmm..maybe he doesn`t call you because he doesn`t have your number. lol. jk. but not calling you isn`t that bad. i think he has feelings for you that can grow. so maybe you and some friends should get together like on a group thingy. that`s wat i did. and it was SUPER fun! and you got to spend more time with him! and i think there`s a chance he might like you. so just be SUPER flirty and have a group date get together with some friends and have FUN! keep us updated! =]
Reply:he likes you but he may not think you like him or he is afraid to tell you he likes you.
Reply:He likes you. Maybe hes afraid to call out of the blue, so invite him to call you tonight, and you will be expecting his call ;)
Reply:you have most details but u need 2 drop clues -
like im not doing anything Friday nite - give me a call
Reply:Yes. Tell him you like him.
Reply:he does! oh my God I'm so excited....that brings me memories!!! anyways... he likes you maybe he's a bit shy to call coz honestly i believe he thinks he wouldn't know what to say. why don't you try to approach him by calling him? i think that is a good idea! :) next time he'll call you!!! good luck! =D
I am really just wandering if he still likes me?
OK, I have been working at this one place as a cashier %26amp; the man upstairs always comes to visit %26amp; hang out with us after he gets off work. Well, we have been flirting %26amp; teasing for a while now. He is always staring at me while I am waiting on customers. He walks me to my car when I leave %26amp; we even stand out there %26amp; talk a little bit. Well, anyway, me %26amp; my friend decided to pay him a visit at his apt. one Saturday night. He seemed very happy we were there %26amp; we were drunk %26amp; I could tell he was a little drunk. Well, that night he was very openly flirting. He told me I was pretty %26amp; constantly kept touching me. Not in a groping way, just arm around me, hand on my back, you know, that sort of thing. Well, everything was fine %26amp; we finally left %26amp; went home. The next work day came %26amp; he come over as usual. But, this time he was a little standoffish. I mean he was staring at me some %26amp; smiled at me too, but he wasn't teasing or acting like he usually does. It was almost like he was a little shy. So, what exactly does this mean? Does he not like me anymore? Also, what can I do to rectify the situation? Thanks for any help.
I am really just wandering if he still likes me?
Ask him out.
Reply:It means that he likes you and is perhaps building up the courage to invite you again only this time alone. I am afraid, however, that his interest in you could be only sexual. Your visit to his place, the flirting etc. has sent out the, ”I am game and want the same.” Message. So it really depends on you and what you want. If you are game and want the same, tell him you enjoyed his company and would love to do it again…he will take it from there. If not just tell him your visit was a mistake, one that you hope won’t happen again.
Reply:yes he does, when u went to his home the reason why he behaved like tht is bcoz he likes you, and why he was on his limit is tht he doesnt know whether u like him r not, he might hav felt u like him after tht night coz u didnt protest to wht he did, guys usually think when women dont object physical contact u r ok with him, dont do anything bcoz i think u will proceed to u soon very soon, all the best
Reply:he does...
hes realized what he did that night and regret a bit inside him,,, asking... why did i tell her that im so done now...
be patient, wait until he changes to confessing or for running away..
or if you cant help it.. go and talk to her girl... ask him what made him act that way, its kinda not him and what happened to the gy you knew..? is there something wrong?
but im sure he just reflected his mistakes by telling it to you when he was drunk... well, he wanted to talk to you but is hestating or doubting if you'll still accept him.
those are passive behaviours that are easily frustrated and are emotionally so reserved,,, do talk to him, coz if its just that way... if you really feel something then have love running to both of you...
good luck.
Reply:just tell him u like him and get it over with
Reply:a lot of men will tell you that you are pretty. and if you allow it - they will do a lot more than touching also. somewhere - you need to decide what you want and what you dont want. just because he looks at you and you look at him - the situation does not call for action on any one's part. what is it about him that you like ? what do you think he likes about you ??? figure that out - it should clarify your mind a bit.
Reply:Ask him out to lunch or a casual dinner. Talk about how you feel or just open up the subject between you guys and see what he says about it.
Reply:Don't mind me saying it straight...yes u are a fool...Ur going over to this man's place..has made u very vulnerable..and u are something he has already taken for granted...always remember..not to make Ur self so cheap to get u know...u should not have gone thr to his house..in the first go...u better keep safe distance from him ..show him u are not interested in him after all that..he will get the hint..this i hope can make things get a little better...u got to keep this up for at least a weeks time...if he changes then u can go slow...but never get so fast and just jump on some ones place like that..u will be taken for granted...grow some personality pal!!!!(don't let anybody or everybody use u with no effort at all)
best of luck
I am really just wandering if he still likes me?
Ask him out.
Reply:It means that he likes you and is perhaps building up the courage to invite you again only this time alone. I am afraid, however, that his interest in you could be only sexual. Your visit to his place, the flirting etc. has sent out the, ”I am game and want the same.” Message. So it really depends on you and what you want. If you are game and want the same, tell him you enjoyed his company and would love to do it again…he will take it from there. If not just tell him your visit was a mistake, one that you hope won’t happen again.
Reply:yes he does, when u went to his home the reason why he behaved like tht is bcoz he likes you, and why he was on his limit is tht he doesnt know whether u like him r not, he might hav felt u like him after tht night coz u didnt protest to wht he did, guys usually think when women dont object physical contact u r ok with him, dont do anything bcoz i think u will proceed to u soon very soon, all the best
Reply:he does...
hes realized what he did that night and regret a bit inside him,,, asking... why did i tell her that im so done now...
be patient, wait until he changes to confessing or for running away..
or if you cant help it.. go and talk to her girl... ask him what made him act that way, its kinda not him and what happened to the gy you knew..? is there something wrong?
but im sure he just reflected his mistakes by telling it to you when he was drunk... well, he wanted to talk to you but is hestating or doubting if you'll still accept him.
those are passive behaviours that are easily frustrated and are emotionally so reserved,,, do talk to him, coz if its just that way... if you really feel something then have love running to both of you...
good luck.
Reply:just tell him u like him and get it over with
Reply:a lot of men will tell you that you are pretty. and if you allow it - they will do a lot more than touching also. somewhere - you need to decide what you want and what you dont want. just because he looks at you and you look at him - the situation does not call for action on any one's part. what is it about him that you like ? what do you think he likes about you ??? figure that out - it should clarify your mind a bit.
Reply:Ask him out to lunch or a casual dinner. Talk about how you feel or just open up the subject between you guys and see what he says about it.
Reply:Don't mind me saying it straight...yes u are a fool...Ur going over to this man's place..has made u very vulnerable..and u are something he has already taken for granted...always remember..not to make Ur self so cheap to get u know...u should not have gone thr to his house..in the first go...u better keep safe distance from him ..show him u are not interested in him after all that..he will get the hint..this i hope can make things get a little better...u got to keep this up for at least a weeks time...if he changes then u can go slow...but never get so fast and just jump on some ones place like that..u will be taken for granted...grow some personality pal!!!!(don't let anybody or everybody use u with no effort at all)
best of luck
Help me with love..please! or i'll dieeee?
I like this girl who's name is catie that i have know since we were both little kids. i then moved out of town at age 11 them came back 7 years later and were hanging out but i like her a lot i also hang around my x who's name is maria, we always hang out, she asked me do i like maria, i said maybe a little bit, but i like catie but i don't wanna go out with her cause she is such a good friend that if we are to break up we wouldn't be friends, and this guy likes her so if they go out its gonna hurt me and i don't take these things pretty good. and i have real feelings for her she a nice girl she not the prettiest of girls but i don't care. what should i do? i don't go out with any off them i don't know if catie likes me, we lie down together on a bed and she touches me not in a sexual way but other tham that i don't know and she doesn'y like people who are to fast.what should i do?
Help me with love..please! or i'll dieeee?
Tell her about your feelings. Even that part about being afraid of breaking up and losing her friendship. She might feel the same way. It may be best to hear her perspective and consider how she feels. Then you can rationally decide what to do.
Reply:I honestley can't help. This is a problem that you really have to look deep in your heart for. Good luck and Best of Wishes!!!
Reply:i am confused 30 min before u just posted a question telling that u like lidia and ur always hanging out with alexandra..... and now ur telling that u like catie and u always hang out with maria.....
actually whom do u like...?
Reply:I think you should really think about the feelings you have for her. You need to think long and hard because you are right if ya'll were to get together and break up then that would be a waste of a good friendship. Once you think about it long and hard you should sit down with her and talk it oout and see how she feels about the whole situation.
Reply:ok 1st off slow down %26amp; calm down..... ok .... now just ask catie out she likes you just go 4 it what are you wait for go now
Reply:Then why be dumb enough to not say so when you had the chance?If you don't act soon your going to be the only one to miss out on a good thing.Get moving!
Reply:Try sitting down and breathing for a second. Then think about whether you would like Maria or Catie more as a girlfriend. And if your friendship is true, then even if you dated her and broke you up you would still be friends. I still talk to my ex, though admittedly not like before. Just think things over. Goodluck
Help me with love..please! or i'll dieeee?
Tell her about your feelings. Even that part about being afraid of breaking up and losing her friendship. She might feel the same way. It may be best to hear her perspective and consider how she feels. Then you can rationally decide what to do.
Reply:I honestley can't help. This is a problem that you really have to look deep in your heart for. Good luck and Best of Wishes!!!
Reply:i am confused 30 min before u just posted a question telling that u like lidia and ur always hanging out with alexandra..... and now ur telling that u like catie and u always hang out with maria.....
actually whom do u like...?
Reply:I think you should really think about the feelings you have for her. You need to think long and hard because you are right if ya'll were to get together and break up then that would be a waste of a good friendship. Once you think about it long and hard you should sit down with her and talk it oout and see how she feels about the whole situation.
Reply:ok 1st off slow down %26amp; calm down..... ok .... now just ask catie out she likes you just go 4 it what are you wait for go now
Reply:Then why be dumb enough to not say so when you had the chance?If you don't act soon your going to be the only one to miss out on a good thing.Get moving!
Reply:Try sitting down and breathing for a second. Then think about whether you would like Maria or Catie more as a girlfriend. And if your friendship is true, then even if you dated her and broke you up you would still be friends. I still talk to my ex, though admittedly not like before. Just think things over. Goodluck
HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! please...?
There is this Sophomore (I am a freshmen) who keeps flirting with me and talking about me when I walk by... He is a total pervert tho!!! He has slept with freshmen before... And he does all sorts of drugs and drinks. I am the perfect little model student. Not a speck of dust on my record. I get this problem where I get REALLY bad butterflies whenever I think about him. I can't keep thinking abouot him but also trying not to think aboiut him because he is such a sicko. HE has touched me (not like REALLY badly, just boobs and stuff like that, and that was on "accident") I want some advice on how to stop thiking about him. GOt any? OR what to do?
ANYTHING?!?!?!
I have some other posts just like this, if you want to see them...
HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! please...?
I think that by now you know what he wants. He wants to prove a point to his other friends. You are like the pure challenge for him. To keep from thinking about him you just need to know that all he wants to do is use you and then brag about it to his friends afterwards.
Reply:You should go to student services and make a report. This is called sexual harrasment.
As for the thinking about him part...
I'm sure that in some deep down way...the attention from a guy is cool...but this is not appropriate attention.
You should make a report.
Reply:ignore him. you aren't forced to like anyone. ever.
find some other guys that you feel comfortable with. don't try and make him jealous, just hang out with them because you won't feel so awkward.
Reply:ok....this should help you out ....its a site where there are people your age....its not a good idea to go out with such a loser...he will only use you....you don;t need losers in your life....he is bad for you...and you yourself know that....stay away from him...your in love with the idea of being in love with lust....which is good at your age...because it feels good....here is a good site....meet people your age......
http://www.stickam.com/profile/hatchetmi...
have fun and meet people there.....good luck
Reply:Stay as far away from him as possible. He is not good. I know cause my last bf was the same way drinking and drugs he would be on the way to the hosue to get me for a date and never showed up. He will break your heart in the end or you may even end up with a child then by god he will dump you for sure. Stay away.
Reply:I can't believe it, are you serious with this? I actually got the sicko unbalanced vibe from you.
Reply:Tell him where to go. Tell him in front of his boys in the hall that you wouldnt touch him. Tell him his just a sleaze. Dont stand for sexual harassment. Hes the type to leave you with something you dont want on your reputation.
Reply:No one call tell you how to stop thing of him.
If you don't like him, just ignore him.
Reply:You have a thing for the BAD boys...I'd stay away from him before he gets you in trouble.
Reply:It is just a matter of shoving him away.Unless he starts to be too"friendly" or gets annoying to the fact that you are getting uncomfortable, then you should avoid him or notify the authorities.
You should study and put all your mind in studying instead of worrying about him.He will eventually go away from you as there is no reaction from you and stay up to your natural coolness even though he disturbs you.
this is my only advice and don't be stressed about it.Avoid him and he will not bother you.
Reply:this is a phase you are going through, it's the "bad boy" sendrom.. they seem alll sparkly and new with something that would usually be a totall turn off... so why are your attracted to such an interesting fellow.... could it be Hormones?, the Moon?, peer pressure? a dare to be different? probably all of these and 1,000 other reasons.....
what to do... this is actually normal..... and once you mature out you will find out that these guys are probably better left alone.. you know the old saying... you knew I was a snake when you picked me up.... hisssssss..., kind of thing...
It's good to be a perfect model student... don't loose focus over something like this cause you got lots too lose ... if you know what I mean... so ... just remember the emotions are reall and probably left in the mind and not in deed.
How to erase the thoughts.... well.. probably not much you can do about it... welcome to Adolesent years and all their raging hormone's and stuff..
Reply:well i thinkt hat u really need 2 stay away from him. believe me ive been thru this. this 1 guy had a gf and yet he just kept touchin me and stuff and i started 2 like him. but u gotta ignore those feeligns and look 4 some1 thats better. u seem 2 be physically attracted to him, not really emotionaly. find sum1 better.
Reply:You like the bad boys......
Reply:Well it sounds to me like like you like him but not sure of it....any-who if you despise him as much as you say just tell him to ****-off.
Reply:Report him.
Reply:i think that you should try not to get in with those type of guys. you said that he slept with other freshmen with you, this lets you know that he just wants to mess with you too. unless your ok with that you should not try to do anything with him just ignore him. do you want to mess around with him cause if you do then your a perv too. you should just try not to do any of that stuff now your still a freshmen. at least wait after high school. please and if you cant then at least go out with a good guy not that one.
Reply:yeah avoid the asshole every chance you get because if you get involved with a pinhead like that chances are your spotless record will turn extremely messy and in the end you will wind up hurting yourself and the people around you that are so proud of you!AVOID AVOID AVOID at all cost!concentrate on you and dont be lured into his pathetic exsistance! people like that follow the crowd because they are followers and not leaders and the only way they can get attention is to act the fool!they cant think for themselves so they turn to drugs and alcahole to make themselves brave but in reality its just an artificial and temporary solution to their deep problems!dont try to be the one to change him because it is futile!and if he is sexualy harrassing you their are laws to take care of that!so dont lead him on into thinking your even remotely interested and he will eventually leave you alone and in time you will forget the loser ever exsisted!GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
treatments
ANYTHING?!?!?!
I have some other posts just like this, if you want to see them...
HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! HELP ME!!! please...?
I think that by now you know what he wants. He wants to prove a point to his other friends. You are like the pure challenge for him. To keep from thinking about him you just need to know that all he wants to do is use you and then brag about it to his friends afterwards.
Reply:You should go to student services and make a report. This is called sexual harrasment.
As for the thinking about him part...
I'm sure that in some deep down way...the attention from a guy is cool...but this is not appropriate attention.
You should make a report.
Reply:ignore him. you aren't forced to like anyone. ever.
find some other guys that you feel comfortable with. don't try and make him jealous, just hang out with them because you won't feel so awkward.
Reply:ok....this should help you out ....its a site where there are people your age....its not a good idea to go out with such a loser...he will only use you....you don;t need losers in your life....he is bad for you...and you yourself know that....stay away from him...your in love with the idea of being in love with lust....which is good at your age...because it feels good....here is a good site....meet people your age......
http://www.stickam.com/profile/hatchetmi...
have fun and meet people there.....good luck
Reply:Stay as far away from him as possible. He is not good. I know cause my last bf was the same way drinking and drugs he would be on the way to the hosue to get me for a date and never showed up. He will break your heart in the end or you may even end up with a child then by god he will dump you for sure. Stay away.
Reply:I can't believe it, are you serious with this? I actually got the sicko unbalanced vibe from you.
Reply:Tell him where to go. Tell him in front of his boys in the hall that you wouldnt touch him. Tell him his just a sleaze. Dont stand for sexual harassment. Hes the type to leave you with something you dont want on your reputation.
Reply:No one call tell you how to stop thing of him.
If you don't like him, just ignore him.
Reply:You have a thing for the BAD boys...I'd stay away from him before he gets you in trouble.
Reply:It is just a matter of shoving him away.Unless he starts to be too"friendly" or gets annoying to the fact that you are getting uncomfortable, then you should avoid him or notify the authorities.
You should study and put all your mind in studying instead of worrying about him.He will eventually go away from you as there is no reaction from you and stay up to your natural coolness even though he disturbs you.
this is my only advice and don't be stressed about it.Avoid him and he will not bother you.
Reply:this is a phase you are going through, it's the "bad boy" sendrom.. they seem alll sparkly and new with something that would usually be a totall turn off... so why are your attracted to such an interesting fellow.... could it be Hormones?, the Moon?, peer pressure? a dare to be different? probably all of these and 1,000 other reasons.....
what to do... this is actually normal..... and once you mature out you will find out that these guys are probably better left alone.. you know the old saying... you knew I was a snake when you picked me up.... hisssssss..., kind of thing...
It's good to be a perfect model student... don't loose focus over something like this cause you got lots too lose ... if you know what I mean... so ... just remember the emotions are reall and probably left in the mind and not in deed.
How to erase the thoughts.... well.. probably not much you can do about it... welcome to Adolesent years and all their raging hormone's and stuff..
Reply:well i thinkt hat u really need 2 stay away from him. believe me ive been thru this. this 1 guy had a gf and yet he just kept touchin me and stuff and i started 2 like him. but u gotta ignore those feeligns and look 4 some1 thats better. u seem 2 be physically attracted to him, not really emotionaly. find sum1 better.
Reply:You like the bad boys......
Reply:Well it sounds to me like like you like him but not sure of it....any-who if you despise him as much as you say just tell him to ****-off.
Reply:Report him.
Reply:i think that you should try not to get in with those type of guys. you said that he slept with other freshmen with you, this lets you know that he just wants to mess with you too. unless your ok with that you should not try to do anything with him just ignore him. do you want to mess around with him cause if you do then your a perv too. you should just try not to do any of that stuff now your still a freshmen. at least wait after high school. please and if you cant then at least go out with a good guy not that one.
Reply:yeah avoid the asshole every chance you get because if you get involved with a pinhead like that chances are your spotless record will turn extremely messy and in the end you will wind up hurting yourself and the people around you that are so proud of you!AVOID AVOID AVOID at all cost!concentrate on you and dont be lured into his pathetic exsistance! people like that follow the crowd because they are followers and not leaders and the only way they can get attention is to act the fool!they cant think for themselves so they turn to drugs and alcahole to make themselves brave but in reality its just an artificial and temporary solution to their deep problems!dont try to be the one to change him because it is futile!and if he is sexualy harrassing you their are laws to take care of that!so dont lead him on into thinking your even remotely interested and he will eventually leave you alone and in time you will forget the loser ever exsisted!GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
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DEFINITE TROUBLE!!! Any advice?
There is this Sophomore (I am a freshmen) who keeps flirting with me and talking about me when I walk by... He is a total pervert tho!!! He has slept with freshmen before... And he does all sorts of drugs and drinks. I am the perfect little model student. Not a speck of dust on my record. I get this problem where I get REALLY bad butterflies whenever I think about him. I can't keep thinking abouot him but also trying not to think aboiut him because he is such a sicko. HE has touched me (not like REALLY badly, just boobs and stuff like that, and that was on "accident") I want some advice on how to stop thiking about him. GOt any? OR what to do?
ANYTHING?!?!?!
DEFINITE TROUBLE!!! Any advice?
I am a freshman too and I like a sophmore guy like you and he kept flirting with me and he was a player well one day I got tea-bagged in the head by him with his cute friend watching and ever since then never again
Reply:If he's a total pervert according to you and you have solid evidence that he's slept with freshmen before, does driinks and drugs, 'accidentally' touche your boobs will yourself to stop thinking about him. All those are red flags for you if you both begin a relationship and a red flag says 'trouble ahead'; watch out. Take a different route to class and as you walk keep telling yourself 'I command myself, through my power of choice, to STOP THINKING about this guy. You can do it if you really want to. Everytime he comes to mind, engage you energies some other way, like go to a girlfriend's dorm to study. Meet people in whom you don't see these character traits. I sound judgmental but that's OK with me. You see, I have a happily married daughter and I want the best for her, all the time, every time
Reply:It's like the Gwen Stefani song, "why do all the good girls like all the bad boys" (or word to that effect). But it's true. Good girls fall for bad boys. I don't know why. I can only tell you that it's normal. I did it. My friends did it. It will pass.
Reply:Drugs and sexual harassment. Not great credentials for this guy. Lose him.
Reply:think about the term badboys-they are BAD, just stay away from him, and make sure he don't "accidently" touch you again, cause he sounds like a really bad guy for you, especially if you're a good person. guys like that aren't for girls like you. you are better than that. just focus on school for now.
Reply:find somebody else whos not a jerk
Reply:Not a speck? Get out the swiffer for him and a fly swatter for you!
Reply:next time he "accidently" touches you, punch in his ugly face! or be all like, "sorry I already have a boyfriend" and go get one of your boy cousins (if u have one that is like really macho or something, or just a guy friend that is all macho) and get him to walk around with u to scare the perv away!!!
Reply:avoid contact with him
ignore him as much as possible so like dont text him, message him back and definatly dont do it first cos it will look like your interested
with any hope if you refuse contact for so long he will get bored and just move onto another girl
Reply:tht is sexual harassment and u ned to talk to ur principal or councler about it and the sooner the better because he can make it get soooo much worse
Reply:just go up to him one day and be brave and tell him that you dont like it when he does this and stuff you tell him you really dont appreciate the things he does to other people!!!
just tell him in a nice and sweet way and im sure he might understand!!!
Reply:when you start thinking about him think about what kind of l;ife you may end up having with a drunk druggie, picture it and how it would feel living in that tragic way! ask yourself is this what you really want to live like.you may not be able to stop thinking about him but keep reminding yourself of the type of life he is living and how you would like to klive that life with him, he may be into all sorts of druggie stuff and if you are with him he will get you involved maybe even into the drug scene also, because he wants to be able to freely use these things and be already and to be able to keep taking these things he will want you tro get to like those things too some have got their mates to join them, just ask yourself do you want that sort of misery in your life really think about it, if he drinks it is already bad news that alone is a waste of life space and then drugs as well that is not only a tragic mix but a recipe for disaster, and very dangerous thing for you, maybe you don't know that, but I have seen people ruin their lives in that way and even if he gives these things up don't even think for a moment that he can never go back to itespecially if he is mixing with others that are into the same stuffit will not be easy for you to live this way, this guy is no good for you. don't kid yourself he is bad news,think seriously about this you deserve better treatment because my experience from the things I've seen, tell me you are heading for disaster of the worst kindno don't stop thinking asbout him but try to sere things in the right sense ask yourself important questions I stated earlier, and really think about, what kind of life do you really want if you want to stay clean then keep away from someone like that you don't need to see the miserable life to where he is heading not what he will turn his life into but you will have to share in it , either way by watching and maybe in eve participating in it and that scene will not be prety for you or him, this is serious stuff don't choose itif you know whats good for you!Please for your sake think about it carefuly rteason on what you may be getting into dopn't get into it stay safe!Concentrate on your happiness in life, you will not get happines through what this guy will bring you only miserh and heart ache , is that what you really want to live like? yopu can se he is a sicko, if you really even entertain thoughts of happiness with this guy you will be deluding yourself don't lie to yourself because infatuation is not real happines, if happiness is what you really want then going for this guy is out of the question for your own good and for your sanity b.
Reply:i had a guy do that to me too..it scared the c*** outta me ...i avoided him and tried to thin of else what when i see him i get butterfly's you never really stop just try and think of else what stick and talk with friends
Reply:stay away he is a loser, dont worry youll see him 20 yrs later working at a bowling ally
Reply:How many time is this BS story going to be posted.
Reply:first try to ignore him if that doesnt work speak to him about wat it is that is bothering you then ur best bet would be to report him
Reply:Your one of those girls that like trouble makers as boy friends. A he might just be playing you.
Reply:Trust me, when he touched your boobs, it was no accident. He just made it seem like it was. It almost seems that you did not mind this contact and it seems that you like his "bad boy" image. All I gotta say is watch out for him. You're a bit too young to be touched inappropriately and without invitation. My advice to you is to stay clear of him. He's bad news and disrespectful. He will change your "not a speck of dust" record to filth. Do not tarnish your reputation at such an early age. Do you want to be referred to as "that s l u t" for the rest of your high school days?
ANYTHING?!?!?!
DEFINITE TROUBLE!!! Any advice?
I am a freshman too and I like a sophmore guy like you and he kept flirting with me and he was a player well one day I got tea-bagged in the head by him with his cute friend watching and ever since then never again
Reply:If he's a total pervert according to you and you have solid evidence that he's slept with freshmen before, does driinks and drugs, 'accidentally' touche your boobs will yourself to stop thinking about him. All those are red flags for you if you both begin a relationship and a red flag says 'trouble ahead'; watch out. Take a different route to class and as you walk keep telling yourself 'I command myself, through my power of choice, to STOP THINKING about this guy. You can do it if you really want to. Everytime he comes to mind, engage you energies some other way, like go to a girlfriend's dorm to study. Meet people in whom you don't see these character traits. I sound judgmental but that's OK with me. You see, I have a happily married daughter and I want the best for her, all the time, every time
Reply:It's like the Gwen Stefani song, "why do all the good girls like all the bad boys" (or word to that effect). But it's true. Good girls fall for bad boys. I don't know why. I can only tell you that it's normal. I did it. My friends did it. It will pass.
Reply:Drugs and sexual harassment. Not great credentials for this guy. Lose him.
Reply:think about the term badboys-they are BAD, just stay away from him, and make sure he don't "accidently" touch you again, cause he sounds like a really bad guy for you, especially if you're a good person. guys like that aren't for girls like you. you are better than that. just focus on school for now.
Reply:find somebody else whos not a jerk
Reply:Not a speck? Get out the swiffer for him and a fly swatter for you!
Reply:next time he "accidently" touches you, punch in his ugly face! or be all like, "sorry I already have a boyfriend" and go get one of your boy cousins (if u have one that is like really macho or something, or just a guy friend that is all macho) and get him to walk around with u to scare the perv away!!!
Reply:avoid contact with him
ignore him as much as possible so like dont text him, message him back and definatly dont do it first cos it will look like your interested
with any hope if you refuse contact for so long he will get bored and just move onto another girl
Reply:tht is sexual harassment and u ned to talk to ur principal or councler about it and the sooner the better because he can make it get soooo much worse
Reply:just go up to him one day and be brave and tell him that you dont like it when he does this and stuff you tell him you really dont appreciate the things he does to other people!!!
just tell him in a nice and sweet way and im sure he might understand!!!
Reply:when you start thinking about him think about what kind of l;ife you may end up having with a drunk druggie, picture it and how it would feel living in that tragic way! ask yourself is this what you really want to live like.you may not be able to stop thinking about him but keep reminding yourself of the type of life he is living and how you would like to klive that life with him, he may be into all sorts of druggie stuff and if you are with him he will get you involved maybe even into the drug scene also, because he wants to be able to freely use these things and be already and to be able to keep taking these things he will want you tro get to like those things too some have got their mates to join them, just ask yourself do you want that sort of misery in your life really think about it, if he drinks it is already bad news that alone is a waste of life space and then drugs as well that is not only a tragic mix but a recipe for disaster, and very dangerous thing for you, maybe you don't know that, but I have seen people ruin their lives in that way and even if he gives these things up don't even think for a moment that he can never go back to itespecially if he is mixing with others that are into the same stuffit will not be easy for you to live this way, this guy is no good for you. don't kid yourself he is bad news,think seriously about this you deserve better treatment because my experience from the things I've seen, tell me you are heading for disaster of the worst kindno don't stop thinking asbout him but try to sere things in the right sense ask yourself important questions I stated earlier, and really think about, what kind of life do you really want if you want to stay clean then keep away from someone like that you don't need to see the miserable life to where he is heading not what he will turn his life into but you will have to share in it , either way by watching and maybe in eve participating in it and that scene will not be prety for you or him, this is serious stuff don't choose itif you know whats good for you!Please for your sake think about it carefuly rteason on what you may be getting into dopn't get into it stay safe!Concentrate on your happiness in life, you will not get happines through what this guy will bring you only miserh and heart ache , is that what you really want to live like? yopu can se he is a sicko, if you really even entertain thoughts of happiness with this guy you will be deluding yourself don't lie to yourself because infatuation is not real happines, if happiness is what you really want then going for this guy is out of the question for your own good and for your sanity b.
Reply:i had a guy do that to me too..it scared the c*** outta me ...i avoided him and tried to thin of else what when i see him i get butterfly's you never really stop just try and think of else what stick and talk with friends
Reply:stay away he is a loser, dont worry youll see him 20 yrs later working at a bowling ally
Reply:How many time is this BS story going to be posted.
Reply:first try to ignore him if that doesnt work speak to him about wat it is that is bothering you then ur best bet would be to report him
Reply:Your one of those girls that like trouble makers as boy friends. A he might just be playing you.
Reply:Trust me, when he touched your boobs, it was no accident. He just made it seem like it was. It almost seems that you did not mind this contact and it seems that you like his "bad boy" image. All I gotta say is watch out for him. You're a bit too young to be touched inappropriately and without invitation. My advice to you is to stay clear of him. He's bad news and disrespectful. He will change your "not a speck of dust" record to filth. Do not tarnish your reputation at such an early age. Do you want to be referred to as "that s l u t" for the rest of your high school days?
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As the froth of nectar
that waters the pond of dreams;
you sputter
In your embrace
I bloom
as Lilly blossoms.
As snow's soft flakes,
you melt on my petal cheeks
touching me
not quite.
Memories' butterfly kisses
turn into love letters
before my interlaced eyelashes --
--written amongst
changing cloud patterns
in our long forgotten
secret scripts
And I wishfully think
Is the rhythm in honey dew drips
upon window sill;
the tunes of my love for you?
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the imagry in this poem is amazing!!!!! wonderfully written a wonderful work of art. nicely written.
Reply:i like it, but 1 thing. "as Lilly blossoms" should be taken out. it interupts the flow of the words. other than that, its really good.
Reply:Beautiful, sweet, sensual. Maybe more intensity is needed.
that waters the pond of dreams;
you sputter
In your embrace
I bloom
as Lilly blossoms.
As snow's soft flakes,
you melt on my petal cheeks
touching me
not quite.
Memories' butterfly kisses
turn into love letters
before my interlaced eyelashes --
--written amongst
changing cloud patterns
in our long forgotten
secret scripts
And I wishfully think
Is the rhythm in honey dew drips
upon window sill;
the tunes of my love for you?
POEM! really NEED feedbacks?
the imagry in this poem is amazing!!!!! wonderfully written a wonderful work of art. nicely written.
Reply:i like it, but 1 thing. "as Lilly blossoms" should be taken out. it interupts the flow of the words. other than that, its really good.
Reply:Beautiful, sweet, sensual. Maybe more intensity is needed.
Does he like me as more than a friend? I know there are like a million questions like this....?
he's always talking to me; we text constantly... this girl i hardly know thinks he likes me cause she read some texts he sent me.....he came to my dance recital and brought me 2 dozen roses and a necklace and texted me like 70 tijmes after wards that iwas the best and he was proud of me but i don't know. he's older than me but he acts way younger.... so the basic question is does he like me?
then this other guys is emo, and i talk to him about as much as the other guy. well with guy no 1, we hug when we see each other this guy i can't hug him cause the ppls in my grade flip and r like "omg u lik him!" but i don't think i do i mean he touches me, not inaooropraite, but he grabs my sides and sometimes grabs too high and stuff but i don't know which one likes me lol
please don't say "you sound like a middle school girl" i just wondering.....so thank peopls.
Does he like me as more than a friend? I know there are like a million questions like this....?
I'd say they both like you! All the signs are there. The first guy i'm almost positive he does.
Not sure which one is more of a catch.. the first one being immature is a downside, but he sounds like quite a gentleman. The second one sounds good, but i'm not sure about all the touching stuff.. he might be one of those sex-mad maniacs XD But you know how it feels, so you be the judge of that :)
Have fun you lucky thing! :)
Reply:They both like you i'd say! But do you like either one of them? Ask yourself this question, and see wat ur answer is. It might surprise you.
then this other guys is emo, and i talk to him about as much as the other guy. well with guy no 1, we hug when we see each other this guy i can't hug him cause the ppls in my grade flip and r like "omg u lik him!" but i don't think i do i mean he touches me, not inaooropraite, but he grabs my sides and sometimes grabs too high and stuff but i don't know which one likes me lol
please don't say "you sound like a middle school girl" i just wondering.....so thank peopls.
Does he like me as more than a friend? I know there are like a million questions like this....?
I'd say they both like you! All the signs are there. The first guy i'm almost positive he does.
Not sure which one is more of a catch.. the first one being immature is a downside, but he sounds like quite a gentleman. The second one sounds good, but i'm not sure about all the touching stuff.. he might be one of those sex-mad maniacs XD But you know how it feels, so you be the judge of that :)
Have fun you lucky thing! :)
Reply:They both like you i'd say! But do you like either one of them? Ask yourself this question, and see wat ur answer is. It might surprise you.
What does it mean when a guy caresses you?
i hung out with my exboyfriend that i haven't seen in forever. he kept touching me (not anything sexually) and trying to hold my waist and hands and kept flirting with me and everytime he touched me or hugged me he caressed me... does this sound like he likes me again or still has feelings for me?
What does it mean when a guy caresses you?
Unless you want him back.......you should dial....991
Reply:he's a guy... he wants sex...
wheather he wants a relationship or not... i don't know... it's just human nature that he wants sex
Reply:yeah he still likes you.
lily garden
What does it mean when a guy caresses you?
Unless you want him back.......you should dial....991
Reply:he's a guy... he wants sex...
wheather he wants a relationship or not... i don't know... it's just human nature that he wants sex
Reply:yeah he still likes you.
lily garden
Does "he" like me?
So I jst asked a ? about whether a girl liked me.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
I jst wanted to know if this guy in my SAME Spanish class liked me also.He sits across from me too,ironically.I think he only likes me because I like girls tho. =/ Anyways,he is younger than me.Like two years.And he is bigass flirt.Idk why,but he moans...Like hes having sex...And it turns me on.But I know I dont want to get with him.And theres been times where hes slapped my thigh and rested his hand on my leg (Getting my attn) jst to ask what the answer was.=/ Oh.And 1 last thing.Lol.At the end of class.*Smh*He ALWAYS does this.Omg.And I think I should say something about it...He stands up (Close to me) to stretch.And he leans back %26amp; his dck touches me.Not only that.But he makes it jump. =/ Its kind of funny because I dont like him like that.But does it sound like he likes me???
Does "he" like me?
THAT IS UTTERLY DISCUSTING!
he may like you but sounds more like he wants what you got in your panties.
guys make me sick there so ignorant.
(not all just guys like the one you described)
Reply:guys are such pigs, well straight guys are
i like gay guys tho, their sweeter btw
Reply:it pretty much sounds like all he wants to do is get into your pants im sorry and guys are pigs
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
I jst wanted to know if this guy in my SAME Spanish class liked me also.He sits across from me too,ironically.I think he only likes me because I like girls tho. =/ Anyways,he is younger than me.Like two years.And he is bigass flirt.Idk why,but he moans...Like hes having sex...And it turns me on.But I know I dont want to get with him.And theres been times where hes slapped my thigh and rested his hand on my leg (Getting my attn) jst to ask what the answer was.=/ Oh.And 1 last thing.Lol.At the end of class.*Smh*He ALWAYS does this.Omg.And I think I should say something about it...He stands up (Close to me) to stretch.And he leans back %26amp; his dck touches me.Not only that.But he makes it jump. =/ Its kind of funny because I dont like him like that.But does it sound like he likes me???
Does "he" like me?
THAT IS UTTERLY DISCUSTING!
he may like you but sounds more like he wants what you got in your panties.
guys make me sick there so ignorant.
(not all just guys like the one you described)
Reply:guys are such pigs, well straight guys are
i like gay guys tho, their sweeter btw
Reply:it pretty much sounds like all he wants to do is get into your pants im sorry and guys are pigs
Help im too nice for this, i cant tell him to leave me alone, do you think he likes me?
he is always touching me and joking with me, and comenting my hair, and always tries to sit near me. please take note i dont like him.! btw i dont know why he would like me im pretty small and hes really big. (tall strong) why would he like wimpy little me? also im in 9th grade and hes a senior. um what do i do i dont like him and hes always touching me (not perverted ways) lol
Help im too nice for this, i cant tell him to leave me alone, do you think he likes me?
he might consider you like a younger sister... and don't push that away! It's great to have a good friend, he can support you, protect you, and you could learn to adore that attention...
He's not hitting on you... he probably has a kind heart, and feels a kind of connection with you... maybe he has a little sister, who is your size, but younger... who knows... just be nice to him... he sounds like he's fond of you for good reasons, and not with bad intentions... make a friend... an ally... maybe he has a "smaller" "wimpy" friend who he could introduce you to... who knows...maybe...=o) Life is too short to avoid making new friends... gather as many as you can get!
Reply:if he's teasing in a nice way (as in flirting) then of course he likes u. and/or he wants to be ur friend. and hon, don't think that someone can't like u just cuz ur small. guys like all sizes. but if u don't like him still, ask him politely what he wants and if u don't like where he's going, tell him to go away (nicely).
Reply:I think he thinks of you as a little sister. I think you should tell someone to tell him to leae you alone. If hes hot then feel greatfull that hes paying attention to you.
Reply:He is just one of the annoying people in the world. Tell him to leave you alone. If he doesn't, hire a male football player to beat him up.
Reply:slap him in the face.. that'll do the trick
Help im too nice for this, i cant tell him to leave me alone, do you think he likes me?
he might consider you like a younger sister... and don't push that away! It's great to have a good friend, he can support you, protect you, and you could learn to adore that attention...
He's not hitting on you... he probably has a kind heart, and feels a kind of connection with you... maybe he has a little sister, who is your size, but younger... who knows... just be nice to him... he sounds like he's fond of you for good reasons, and not with bad intentions... make a friend... an ally... maybe he has a "smaller" "wimpy" friend who he could introduce you to... who knows...maybe...=o) Life is too short to avoid making new friends... gather as many as you can get!
Reply:if he's teasing in a nice way (as in flirting) then of course he likes u. and/or he wants to be ur friend. and hon, don't think that someone can't like u just cuz ur small. guys like all sizes. but if u don't like him still, ask him politely what he wants and if u don't like where he's going, tell him to go away (nicely).
Reply:I think he thinks of you as a little sister. I think you should tell someone to tell him to leae you alone. If hes hot then feel greatfull that hes paying attention to you.
Reply:He is just one of the annoying people in the world. Tell him to leave you alone. If he doesn't, hire a male football player to beat him up.
Reply:slap him in the face.. that'll do the trick
Help im too nice to tell him to leave me alone>?!?
he is always touching me and joking with me, and comenting my hair, and always tries to sit near me. please take note i dont like him.! btw i dont know why he would like me im pretty small and hes really big. (tall strong) why would he like wimpy little me? also im in 9th grade and hes a senior. um what do i do i dont like him and hes always touching me (not perverted ways) lol
Help im too nice to tell him to leave me alone%26gt;?!?
don't let people touch you if it makes you uncomfortable.
perhaps it's an awkward age for you right now. but as a woman i am saying you need to stand up for yourself. you don't have to be rude about it or hurt his feelings.i would prolly take him aside, definitely don't discuss it in front of others, as it may embarrass him.
Reply:I can understand why you would be uncomfortable as a ninth grader saying something to a senior especially since he is your friend's brother. It will be awkward and you might risk losing a friend.
When you fail to tell him no in a nice way, you end up encouraging him. When guys like a girl, they unfortunately may not realize that she is uncomfortable. So you help yourself when you are able to say no.
You can do this in a nice way. Something like "I don't want to offend you, but I'm really uncomfortable with you touching me." let's him know how you feel. If he is offended by it, then he has a problem. If he ignores you, then he is harassing you and you need to involve the authorities.
However, there are two other issues. First, does it bother you that he is a senior? I don't know him and therefore hesitate to judge him. But my "father" alarms would go off with a senior being interested in a ninth grader.
Secondly, there's your friend. I would simply ask her about what her brother is doing. Is he wanting to be a friend? Does he think you look lonely there and he is simply trying to be nice? I don't know the answer. If she has a good relationship with her brother, she might be willing to kindly ask him to stop.
But if nothing works, you should report it to the principal. There is no reason a young lady should be touched by anyone if she doesn't want to be.
Pastor John
Reply:It's not 'niceness' that prevents you from telling him to leave you alone, it's fear and weakness. If you don't tell him, then you're going to continue being victimized. If you don't want to appear 'mean', just tell him nicely: "Please don't touch me anymore, it makes me uncomfortable. Thanks!"
As for your size, it makes NO difference to boys. If they think you're cute, size doesn't matter.
Reply:He still shouldn't be touching you in any way. Tell your school administrators to have a talk with him OR tell your BIG Brother to have a talk with him OR tell him yourself to leave you alone. Any of them should work.
Reply:Tell your brother his friend likes you.
Your brother will take care of the problem.
And you're going to have to learn to be a lot more assertive.
Reply:You must be sending him mixed signals. Don't indicate you like it if you don't. When he touches you, back away slightly. Don't encourage conversation with him. You can be nice but not lead him on at the same time.
Reply:If you dont like him messing around like that you should let him know, ask if he likes you and make it clear that you only care for him as a friend.
Reply:Well you might use your head and confide in your friend about it and your friend should be able to help straighten out their brother.
Reply:punch him in the face.
Reply:If you're not saying what you mean then who's fault is it if someone else doesn't know?
Reply:Get un-nice, or get used to his advances.
Reply:how about you tell him what you just told us. If you do not set boundaries about being touched he may say later that you have a purdy mouth,.
Reply:Look him straight in the eye and say:
"In your dreams, muthafukka!"
Help im too nice to tell him to leave me alone%26gt;?!?
don't let people touch you if it makes you uncomfortable.
perhaps it's an awkward age for you right now. but as a woman i am saying you need to stand up for yourself. you don't have to be rude about it or hurt his feelings.i would prolly take him aside, definitely don't discuss it in front of others, as it may embarrass him.
Reply:I can understand why you would be uncomfortable as a ninth grader saying something to a senior especially since he is your friend's brother. It will be awkward and you might risk losing a friend.
When you fail to tell him no in a nice way, you end up encouraging him. When guys like a girl, they unfortunately may not realize that she is uncomfortable. So you help yourself when you are able to say no.
You can do this in a nice way. Something like "I don't want to offend you, but I'm really uncomfortable with you touching me." let's him know how you feel. If he is offended by it, then he has a problem. If he ignores you, then he is harassing you and you need to involve the authorities.
However, there are two other issues. First, does it bother you that he is a senior? I don't know him and therefore hesitate to judge him. But my "father" alarms would go off with a senior being interested in a ninth grader.
Secondly, there's your friend. I would simply ask her about what her brother is doing. Is he wanting to be a friend? Does he think you look lonely there and he is simply trying to be nice? I don't know the answer. If she has a good relationship with her brother, she might be willing to kindly ask him to stop.
But if nothing works, you should report it to the principal. There is no reason a young lady should be touched by anyone if she doesn't want to be.
Pastor John
Reply:It's not 'niceness' that prevents you from telling him to leave you alone, it's fear and weakness. If you don't tell him, then you're going to continue being victimized. If you don't want to appear 'mean', just tell him nicely: "Please don't touch me anymore, it makes me uncomfortable. Thanks!"
As for your size, it makes NO difference to boys. If they think you're cute, size doesn't matter.
Reply:He still shouldn't be touching you in any way. Tell your school administrators to have a talk with him OR tell your BIG Brother to have a talk with him OR tell him yourself to leave you alone. Any of them should work.
Reply:Tell your brother his friend likes you.
Your brother will take care of the problem.
And you're going to have to learn to be a lot more assertive.
Reply:You must be sending him mixed signals. Don't indicate you like it if you don't. When he touches you, back away slightly. Don't encourage conversation with him. You can be nice but not lead him on at the same time.
Reply:If you dont like him messing around like that you should let him know, ask if he likes you and make it clear that you only care for him as a friend.
Reply:Well you might use your head and confide in your friend about it and your friend should be able to help straighten out their brother.
Reply:punch him in the face.
Reply:If you're not saying what you mean then who's fault is it if someone else doesn't know?
Reply:Get un-nice, or get used to his advances.
Reply:how about you tell him what you just told us. If you do not set boundaries about being touched he may say later that you have a purdy mouth,.
Reply:Look him straight in the eye and say:
"In your dreams, muthafukka!"
Theres this guy...?
so there guy that describes everything i want in a person.. He flirts with me a lot. like he'll play with my hair, like hes always touching me [not in the nasty way] just like my hands, and stuff. Like when i get pushed into him he doesnt push me away. But the thing is im not sure if he likes me, or if he's just being flirty. Helpp Mee..I like him a lott.
Theres this guy...?
Express yourself to him....what will keeping it inside do to you or get you.......tell him how he feels and if he acts like a dick then you were just not to be with him cause all your going to do is get attached to him....
Reply:of course he likes you. if he was one those guys that just flirt he would have stopped after not making out so he obviously likes you if he's keeping it up.
Crooked Teeth
Theres this guy...?
Express yourself to him....what will keeping it inside do to you or get you.......tell him how he feels and if he acts like a dick then you were just not to be with him cause all your going to do is get attached to him....
Reply:of course he likes you. if he was one those guys that just flirt he would have stopped after not making out so he obviously likes you if he's keeping it up.
Crooked Teeth
What has happened?
You guys probably remember me about this guy whom I think likes me and I kinda like him as well but right now, everything just seems weird.
The last time I wrote something things that happen during the holidays where
He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing
He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play
Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation
He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.
We had a lot of fun together.
Even when college reopens and we are both busy with schoolwork, we still hang out by going out and movies but still as friends because he didn't tell me he liked me yet and so I got a bit frustrated and wanted to forget him. Just as I wanted to, he suddenly said he wanted to hang out with me last week and will make plans.
What has happened?
this guy thinks its ok to come and go in and out of your life whenever he pleases. dont sit around and wait for him any longer. spend your time with him as a friend but nothing more. time to find a new love interest.
Reply:maybe he chickened out because he was finally going to tell you then he got really nervous....maybe he will tell u another day
The last time I wrote something things that happen during the holidays where
He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing
He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play
Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation
He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.
We had a lot of fun together.
Even when college reopens and we are both busy with schoolwork, we still hang out by going out and movies but still as friends because he didn't tell me he liked me yet and so I got a bit frustrated and wanted to forget him. Just as I wanted to, he suddenly said he wanted to hang out with me last week and will make plans.
What has happened?
this guy thinks its ok to come and go in and out of your life whenever he pleases. dont sit around and wait for him any longer. spend your time with him as a friend but nothing more. time to find a new love interest.
Reply:maybe he chickened out because he was finally going to tell you then he got really nervous....maybe he will tell u another day
Sex related question?
So I have thing were I really feel anything down there when my partner is touching me. Not my clitoris - I can feel that fine... it's just I don't feel any sensation any where else. Is there anything I can do to fix it?
Sex related question?
I had the same problem when i 1st slept with my bf i expected to feel something, but i was just numb!
i think you just have to explore to see what works for you and your clit is going to be where most the nerves are. there and at the entrance, closer out.
Reply:What are you expecting to feel?? The clitoris is where you feel things. Unless you teach him to massage your g-spot there is nothing more you are really going to feel.
Reply:That is normal -- the clitoris is where the action is!
Sex related question?
I had the same problem when i 1st slept with my bf i expected to feel something, but i was just numb!
i think you just have to explore to see what works for you and your clit is going to be where most the nerves are. there and at the entrance, closer out.
Reply:What are you expecting to feel?? The clitoris is where you feel things. Unless you teach him to massage your g-spot there is nothing more you are really going to feel.
Reply:That is normal -- the clitoris is where the action is!
Ok i need your help!!!!!!!?
ok ther is this guy an i like him alot i think that he likes me and all but maybe im wrong ok heres wat he does he touches me (not in a pervy way) (well somtimes he does), he layes on me, he is like always telling me to save him a seat wit me, he sings to me some times(it is so cute!), and he just idk flirts?????so can u please tell me weather you think he likes me or no!
Ok i need your help!!!!!!!?
You need to ask him. Tell him it's time for straight talk and just air it out.
Reply:It sounds like he likes you. You should ask him how he feels about you!
Reply:It sounds like he likes you. Ask him out
Reply:Are you ******* serious ?
Ok i need your help!!!!!!!?
You need to ask him. Tell him it's time for straight talk and just air it out.
Reply:It sounds like he likes you. You should ask him how he feels about you!
Reply:It sounds like he likes you. Ask him out
Reply:Are you ******* serious ?
HORNY!!!! ex boyfreind!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!!?
i have an EX boyfriend that wants to get back with me........
when ever he sees me he gets horny......
hell start touching me........
(not private parts)
and he tells me that he wnts to get back with me........
but there is only 2 little problems lol.
when we were going out........
his 9 months younger than me
he was talking bad about me
PS........SHOULD I MAKE HIM FEEL, THAT I LIKE HIM???
and then...........walk away......??
HORNY!!!! ex boyfreind!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!!?
I tried that but then i got hard because I started getting feelings again...best advice stay away!! And remember all those times he talked bad about u , you don't want him doing it again....And of course guys can always run game on you to get what they want...but you be smarter in reading just what his motives are. Hope that helped!
Reply:♥girl♥
***GET****
***A***
*****LIFE******
♥♥♥♥caliiBabii
Reply:Touching a person is a sign of affection sometimes examples are arm around shoulders or waist.
The age difference is not a problem but when he is talking bad about you that is totally wrong and do not put up with it. Saying bad things about you is as bad as hitting you, put a stop to it or dump him.
Reply:ok so hes horny. now if you want to hurt him, let him touch u good and kind of tease him. THen after a few days just leave him for another boy.
Reply:omg! he wants attention.... (and that is me being nice) I had an ex just like this who I would let back into my life cos he was acting like that then he would just leave me high and dry again.... i learned... eventually :)
lilac
when ever he sees me he gets horny......
hell start touching me........
(not private parts)
and he tells me that he wnts to get back with me........
but there is only 2 little problems lol.
when we were going out........
his 9 months younger than me
he was talking bad about me
PS........SHOULD I MAKE HIM FEEL, THAT I LIKE HIM???
and then...........walk away......??
HORNY!!!! ex boyfreind!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!!?
I tried that but then i got hard because I started getting feelings again...best advice stay away!! And remember all those times he talked bad about u , you don't want him doing it again....And of course guys can always run game on you to get what they want...but you be smarter in reading just what his motives are. Hope that helped!
Reply:♥girl♥
***GET****
***A***
*****LIFE******
♥♥♥♥caliiBabii
Reply:Touching a person is a sign of affection sometimes examples are arm around shoulders or waist.
The age difference is not a problem but when he is talking bad about you that is totally wrong and do not put up with it. Saying bad things about you is as bad as hitting you, put a stop to it or dump him.
Reply:ok so hes horny. now if you want to hurt him, let him touch u good and kind of tease him. THen after a few days just leave him for another boy.
Reply:omg! he wants attention.... (and that is me being nice) I had an ex just like this who I would let back into my life cos he was acting like that then he would just leave me high and dry again.... i learned... eventually :)
lilac
The Notebook?
I just watched The Notebook, and it touched me. (Not in a Michael Jackson type of way, but in a good way). Am I going to be the only guy who actually enjoyed the movie?
The Notebook?
No! A lot of men enjoyed that movie. Nicholas Sparks, the author of the book, is an excellent author and many men and women enjoy his stories. My husband is not into romance movies but he LOVED The Notebook. He thought it was very well done. He also thought A Walk to Remember was good.
Reply:No, hun. A lot of people love that movie. Just a while ago, there were a few questions about whether we cried while watching it or not.
Reply:That movie brings back memories. Thanks for sharing your outlook. Real men are not afraid to show their feelings. I cried when they get to die together on the bed. It tears my heart. I hope you enjoy "A Walk to Remember"
I recommend reading both books as well. :)
Reply:I believe you will be one of the few guys who will admit he liked the movie. Only a heartless beast could not be touched by The Notebook.
Reply:Ok dude I watched it a little while back and i thought it was a good movie, and it also had the same affect on me, but alot my friends said it was gay "the movie". I thought it was a great movie, and im not exaclty on of those sensitive type guy either. So i hope that helps ya and screw all them other guys that said it was a sucky gay movie, haha
Reply:Nope, I love that movie! Love watching it with my girlfriend...
Reply:nope! great movie and another great movie is "return to me"
Reply:I know a bunch of guyz that watched that movie.... I luved the movie soooo much.. What waz your favorite part???\\
%26lt;3
Reply:You might also like What Dreams May Come...
Reply:my dad liked it a lot
Reply:i own this movie and watch it all the time. maybe that is why i find most men to be lacking. you get a star for excellent choices.
Reply:Your not the only guy, I promise! I know a few who felt the same way.
Reply:i think thats really sweet and sensitive. if only more guys r like u. watch a walk to remember next. (unless u've already seen it.) i hope u get the ending u always wanted.
Reply:awww!! a sensitive guy!! how sweettttt!!!♥
i loved the movie!
and ur not the only guy....
did u cry??!
^^awwww!!!!! thats sweet.....i cryed 2.
a walk to remember is good to! it will also make u cry!!!
Reply:Heck no, it is a great movie and so is the book...Real men watched it!
Reply:I liked that movie...
Reply:Cheesy chick flick ... and it actually touched me for all of 10 minutes.
Reply:no, i lot of guys like that movie
Reply:hey its candice .... email me .... and i like emontail guys... its hot
The Notebook?
No! A lot of men enjoyed that movie. Nicholas Sparks, the author of the book, is an excellent author and many men and women enjoy his stories. My husband is not into romance movies but he LOVED The Notebook. He thought it was very well done. He also thought A Walk to Remember was good.
Reply:No, hun. A lot of people love that movie. Just a while ago, there were a few questions about whether we cried while watching it or not.
Reply:That movie brings back memories. Thanks for sharing your outlook. Real men are not afraid to show their feelings. I cried when they get to die together on the bed. It tears my heart. I hope you enjoy "A Walk to Remember"
I recommend reading both books as well. :)
Reply:I believe you will be one of the few guys who will admit he liked the movie. Only a heartless beast could not be touched by The Notebook.
Reply:Ok dude I watched it a little while back and i thought it was a good movie, and it also had the same affect on me, but alot my friends said it was gay "the movie". I thought it was a great movie, and im not exaclty on of those sensitive type guy either. So i hope that helps ya and screw all them other guys that said it was a sucky gay movie, haha
Reply:Nope, I love that movie! Love watching it with my girlfriend...
Reply:nope! great movie and another great movie is "return to me"
Reply:I know a bunch of guyz that watched that movie.... I luved the movie soooo much.. What waz your favorite part???\\
%26lt;3
Reply:You might also like What Dreams May Come...
Reply:my dad liked it a lot
Reply:i own this movie and watch it all the time. maybe that is why i find most men to be lacking. you get a star for excellent choices.
Reply:Your not the only guy, I promise! I know a few who felt the same way.
Reply:i think thats really sweet and sensitive. if only more guys r like u. watch a walk to remember next. (unless u've already seen it.) i hope u get the ending u always wanted.
Reply:awww!! a sensitive guy!! how sweettttt!!!♥
i loved the movie!
and ur not the only guy....
did u cry??!
^^awwww!!!!! thats sweet.....i cryed 2.
a walk to remember is good to! it will also make u cry!!!
Reply:Heck no, it is a great movie and so is the book...Real men watched it!
Reply:I liked that movie...
Reply:Cheesy chick flick ... and it actually touched me for all of 10 minutes.
Reply:no, i lot of guys like that movie
Reply:hey its candice .... email me .... and i like emontail guys... its hot
Does he have feelings for me?
i have known this guy for two years now, such a sweet guy, hes amazing, gorgeous, dark, short curly hair, taller, completely fit, but has the best heart (not to mention most amazing eyes), and everytime we walk by each other, we always catch amazing eye contact, he has the cuttest smile when he see's me, and i cant help but smile when i see him, if im around the same area as him and he is talking to someone else, he always glances over, he asks me to come sit with him for a bit and we just talk, and he always stands really close to me, and somehow always touches me, (not in a creepy, perv way, ) like he will grab my hand for a second, or rub my sholder or something,....do you think he has feelings for me?
Does he have feelings for me?
It would appear that he does, but why don't you ask him? If you've known each other for 2 years, it's about time you went out on a date or something. He obviously likes you from what you've said, and you like him. Are the 2 of you just shy? Go for it and good luck.
Does he have feelings for me?
It would appear that he does, but why don't you ask him? If you've known each other for 2 years, it's about time you went out on a date or something. He obviously likes you from what you've said, and you like him. Are the 2 of you just shy? Go for it and good luck.
Does he like me?
Okay. 90% of the time, he sits next to me. He plays with my hair. Compliments me. Does/wears stuff that he knows I like, and when I compliment him, he says he knew I would. He doesn't want me to get hurt, so he does it for me, meanwhile getting cut in the process. He always helps me out, touches me (not inappropriately, though-on the arm,shoulder, etc.)
He memorized a lot of stuff (even though I only might have said it ONCE), does whatever I want, says he always likes what I wear, doesn't do things if I knows I don't like it, is really concerned about my feelings. I had my head down the other day because I didn't feel well, and when he came in, he automatically asked "What did you do to her"? He always IMs me first, even though he may only have a few seconds to be online. We have so much in common, about 80% of things we agree on. I'm friends with him, though, and while one friend says not to ask him out, two other friends do.
Does he like me?
yes ask him out if you like him and you will make his dreams come true but make sure you look hot that day
Reply:Give him a chance and see were it goes.
Reply:yea he likes you! but wait for him to ask you!
Reply:I didn't read that, but I'm gona say no, he doesn't like you.
He memorized a lot of stuff (even though I only might have said it ONCE), does whatever I want, says he always likes what I wear, doesn't do things if I knows I don't like it, is really concerned about my feelings. I had my head down the other day because I didn't feel well, and when he came in, he automatically asked "What did you do to her"? He always IMs me first, even though he may only have a few seconds to be online. We have so much in common, about 80% of things we agree on. I'm friends with him, though, and while one friend says not to ask him out, two other friends do.
Does he like me?
yes ask him out if you like him and you will make his dreams come true but make sure you look hot that day
Reply:Give him a chance and see were it goes.
Reply:yea he likes you! but wait for him to ask you!
Reply:I didn't read that, but I'm gona say no, he doesn't like you.
What does it mean when you cry?
My husband sometimes touches me not even sexually and I start to cry. Have been hiding the crying from him. I usually get up and go downstairs to have a cigarette until I get myself under control.
What does it mean when you cry?
deep down you know that you are in the wrong place and you just do not know how to voice it .. i guess thats when you cry.. you could be longing for something more which you are not getting from where you are now.. i would advice that you ask God for Direction.. don't rush.. take your time.. maybe go away with friends until you are sure of what you want.
Reply:u don't have to be religious to ask for direction.. when the time comes you will know and i am sure you will act on it. Report It
Reply:have you ever been sexualy abused. if you have that could be the reason.or if he has been cheating on you.
Reply:Maybe you are not happy in your marriage. Try some counseling maybe they can help you figure out what is wrong. If you are happy maybe you can try different touching techniques until you get comfortable.Also think about any traumatic incidents that happen in your life maybe thats the answer.
Reply:Dear,
You are facing some kind of psychological problem, so you should visit a psychologist soon.
Reply:CRYING!? is form of self-relief.. You just expressing the pain with those tears..
Reply:The crying is a release of emotion and energy. You have anxiety or stress that is building up for some reason, and when a trusted loved one touches you it is allowing this to be released. Lay off the caffeine and look at the things in your life that may be causing the stress.
Reply:you realising your emotions wheb you cry cry the hell out of you may be that's what tou need it's opposite when men cry not so common but they do these embracing femmimity in themselves husband see you crying will love you more i guarantee you god bless you don/t smoke do a little prayer your body is your temple where god lives god bless you and take care of yourself
Reply:Crying is a release for some strong pent up emotion. Sometimes we cry because we are happy and sometimes we cry because we are sad. You need to get to the bottom of why you are crying, what emotion you are feeling and go from there.
Reply:take it easly dont cry think some funny
Reply:You need to see a doctor for manic depression.
Reply:Something sounds weird about this. It maybe that the situation ur in is not what u really want and that you settled for him. or you job. It seems like u are not satisfied with an important part of your life that is connected to your husband. think it through
Reply:I'd say its either from supressed memories of abuse, or you and your husband have never been a close couple and the longing you have for him to love you as a person and not in a sexual way is hard to control when he does just touch you.
Reply:You are supressing feelings. Talk with him about what you are feeling. I bet he will listen.
Reply:U NEED ANOTHER HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:that you are not happy
Reply:Has it always been that way?? I'm 31, just got off birthcontrol after years of taking them. (it was either give smoking up or the pill) Now I cry over EVERYTHING!! Horomones play a big part of womens emotions. It sucks!! You can have your hormones tested too!
Reply:It means you are hurted by him or something like that.
You are stress with something about your husband.
Did he cheat?
Reply:When I'm accused for nothing
Reply:I think that when you are emotionally overwhelmed your body responds by crying. You need to see ifis is the only time it happens or if maybe there is something about your husband or the way you feel about him that triggers your tears. I get like this alot, but i know it's because I am still angry %26amp; hurt over my divorce.
Reply:it means you are feeling sorry for yourself
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What does it mean when you cry?
deep down you know that you are in the wrong place and you just do not know how to voice it .. i guess thats when you cry.. you could be longing for something more which you are not getting from where you are now.. i would advice that you ask God for Direction.. don't rush.. take your time.. maybe go away with friends until you are sure of what you want.
Reply:u don't have to be religious to ask for direction.. when the time comes you will know and i am sure you will act on it. Report It
Reply:have you ever been sexualy abused. if you have that could be the reason.or if he has been cheating on you.
Reply:Maybe you are not happy in your marriage. Try some counseling maybe they can help you figure out what is wrong. If you are happy maybe you can try different touching techniques until you get comfortable.Also think about any traumatic incidents that happen in your life maybe thats the answer.
Reply:Dear,
You are facing some kind of psychological problem, so you should visit a psychologist soon.
Reply:CRYING!? is form of self-relief.. You just expressing the pain with those tears..
Reply:The crying is a release of emotion and energy. You have anxiety or stress that is building up for some reason, and when a trusted loved one touches you it is allowing this to be released. Lay off the caffeine and look at the things in your life that may be causing the stress.
Reply:you realising your emotions wheb you cry cry the hell out of you may be that's what tou need it's opposite when men cry not so common but they do these embracing femmimity in themselves husband see you crying will love you more i guarantee you god bless you don/t smoke do a little prayer your body is your temple where god lives god bless you and take care of yourself
Reply:Crying is a release for some strong pent up emotion. Sometimes we cry because we are happy and sometimes we cry because we are sad. You need to get to the bottom of why you are crying, what emotion you are feeling and go from there.
Reply:take it easly dont cry think some funny
Reply:You need to see a doctor for manic depression.
Reply:Something sounds weird about this. It maybe that the situation ur in is not what u really want and that you settled for him. or you job. It seems like u are not satisfied with an important part of your life that is connected to your husband. think it through
Reply:I'd say its either from supressed memories of abuse, or you and your husband have never been a close couple and the longing you have for him to love you as a person and not in a sexual way is hard to control when he does just touch you.
Reply:You are supressing feelings. Talk with him about what you are feeling. I bet he will listen.
Reply:U NEED ANOTHER HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:that you are not happy
Reply:Has it always been that way?? I'm 31, just got off birthcontrol after years of taking them. (it was either give smoking up or the pill) Now I cry over EVERYTHING!! Horomones play a big part of womens emotions. It sucks!! You can have your hormones tested too!
Reply:It means you are hurted by him or something like that.
You are stress with something about your husband.
Did he cheat?
Reply:When I'm accused for nothing
Reply:I think that when you are emotionally overwhelmed your body responds by crying. You need to see ifis is the only time it happens or if maybe there is something about your husband or the way you feel about him that triggers your tears. I get like this alot, but i know it's because I am still angry %26amp; hurt over my divorce.
Reply:it means you are feeling sorry for yourself
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